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I love older guys with $$ |
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I am 14 in i was in love so much, i wanted nothing else to do or say about anything, with an 18 year
old he and i talked on the phone every night from 9:00 at night until 5:00 the next morning or
untill our moms caught us. But i am all for it because he was the sweetest person i had ever gone
out with |
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I hate when people assume the worst for those relationships as well. |
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They are with a experienced person i have had this situation myself and i learnt alot from this
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Sounds reasonable as I am 42 and always find an older man to have more going for him in every way
than one younger than I am. An older man even looks better to me. |
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I would like to know where the H___ all you old guy loving girls are at?????????? |
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Five years ago when I was at the tender age of 69 I travelled to Indonesia and met a wonderful
"young" lady...20 at the time. It has been five years of total bliss and love. Rich? Haha. I live on
a military pension of less than a grand a month. Read my story at www.an-asian-wife.com |
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Bring on the young women. No science to it. |
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I'm hella 4 it because i love older guyz and they jux treat me better and we last longer |
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I am 61 and I love younger women. It is a great relationship. They get maturity and deeper caring
and stability, and the man gets to taste the vitality of the beauty of youth. |
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I would really have to agree with this one....I am 18 dating a 35 year old man and i love him with
all my heart and he treats me better than any of the boys or men my age |
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I agree because of one simple fact men mature slower than women so i would prefer to date an older
man than to end up with some immature guy that's my age. |
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If two adults like each other and enjoy being together then age is just a number. It should be left
up to them to decide and no one else.
Generally speaking, an older gentleman has gained wisdom thru experience on how best or how better
to treat a lady and hopefully how to control his hormones. He is more likely to know that it is not
all about him. He is more likely to show more patience and be more respectful.
Yes, it is true that there are guys that are jerks at any age. However, I do believe that with age
comes fewer and fewer jerks.
Therefore, I would encourage the younger ladies to not be in such a hurry to discard a guy just
because he is 'older' as you just may be missing out on a real good thing. Give us older guys a
chane - a fair chance. By all means be careful and selective as you would with any guy of any age.
Please don't make a decision based on just one or two trials as not all of us are the same.
I had a teacher that told of his son and cherry pie. He offered his son some cherry pie and he said,
"I hate cherry pie." "Have you ever tried it, son?" "No. I just hate it." "So how do you know you
hate it if you have never tried it? Why not try it and then you can say that you hate it" "OK, but
just one bite" Can you guess what the son's favorite pie is now?
That's right! Enough said? |
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I'm going to agree, primarily for selfish reason, I think that it would be cool if I was 34 dating a
19 year old.
On a more serious note, I don't see any real benefit with women dating older men, because there are
many men who are mature and young and many men who are old and immature.
Although it may seem that older men are more mature, because they've learned to hide their
immaturities, that doesn't mean that they are the best choice. |
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I'm on the fence about it, but I think up to maybe a seven year difference would be acceptable. I've
found that older men are at the same maturity level as younger women, rather than younger men being
as mature as younger women (let's face it - they usually aren't!). I think a small difference is
fine, but I don't think younger women should date men that are, like, a twenty, thirty, forty years
older than they are. |
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My Husband and I are 16 years apart, he's 37 and I'm 21. The relationship is great and the best I've
ever been in. I've tried dating guys my age and they're too immature. I'm glad that I found a guy
who understands me, have same level of maturity as I do, great sense of humor and respectful, loving
person. My friends loves him and I personally think it works the best for the relationship: Older
man and younger women.
Not everyone is for it, my family hates it and doesn't agree that I'm with a guy who's 16 years
older than me. Age difference doesn't matter to us, Love is what counts. After all Love doesn't know
age. |
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I believe they are more stable but it's all a risk. |
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I think older women prefer younger men more then men prefer younger women...but either way, it
really doesn't matter. |
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Though there are no hard and fast rules about any age specification between couples but still
history says that older men and younger women become better couples than the vice versa. The reason
behind this is men have always taken care of women by understanding her requirements. Science says
that women get early maturity than men of her age. So in cases where men are older than women, it
becomes easier for them to understand and interact with a woman of lesser age and reciprocate her
with maturity. Whereas in cases where we find the women to be of the same age or even older than
men, it certainly becomes a problem for the couple to match up with each other’s maturity level.
This is the reason why we have seen from history till now that a successful match has always been
between younger women and older men. |
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True they know how to treat people |
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Men should be teacher.
In the real world older men should be. |
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Women need sense of belonging more than a man.... And older man can give sense to women more than a
same age can give to each other.
Older men can take care of a women, may be financially and control her emotionally.
Rather than same age relationship have a lot of fights between them. |
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Like most things, it's impossible to say anything with one hundred percent surety. However, from
personal experience, and from the experience of my friends and colleagues, the age difference makes
a beneficial difference.
Most younger women meet men of their own age and realise there is a lack of parity in maturity.
Even a twenty five year old man is probably not as mature as a twenty one year old woman with her
head screwed on straight.
Older men have greater wisdom, are often more chilled out, have better earning capacity, treat their
women better, are more stable in terms of home and job. They also known themselves a little better
and so don't need to go off on flights of 'finding' themselves. Or use excuses like 'I don't need a
girlfriend right now'. Instead, older men are more experienced, more worldly wise, better with
people, easier to introduce to your parents and friends. They are also liable to treat you better
in general because they know better what they want from a relationship.
Now, I appreciate that this is a generalisation. But it's hard to make a debate without one. In
general, I think a younger woman is better off with an older man. I know one of five successful
couples where the age difference is nine, eleven and even seventeen years. People always think the
problems will come from the age difference, but as long as the couple have similar goals and desires
and as long as they have similar desired outcomes in life and communicate with each other well, they
are more liable to get on.
Go get yourself an older man and find out! |
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Depends what you want out of the relationship. Women reach their sexual peak around 35-40. Men
reach it at around 18-23. I think maybe an older woman younger man relationship might be the best. |
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If the gap is huge then...
This would be an insecure woman with an insecure man.
They can't truly enrich each others lives.
Doesn't sound like a good relationship. |
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Well, I mostly don't think that age should matter, however it is kinda wrong for a man to be like 70
and the girl to be like 25. That's just gross. |
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OMG that is just so weird! Imagine a old man marrying a 21old girl.... That is just....
Well...but if that 21 year old girl loves the old man.....its their problem, i dun care. They can be
together since they luv each other..
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Younger gilrs should'nt they take advantage |
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To me it sounds like your saying that a younger girl's relationship would last longer when she is
with a 40 something year old man but she is only in her teens.
That doesn't seem right |
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Young women need to find partners their own age and get over their daddy issues. |
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If you were twenty how would you like to be married to a guy in his fifties? After the first week
you are married he will probably die and you will never have sexual pleasure with them because they
will have erectile disfunction |
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That is just self-serving rubbish created to give men pretty young things to make them feel good
about themselves despite their ages and to make men not be unhappy they are getting old. It is
created to make men feel desirable and sexually wanted at any age.
On the other hand, it makes women feel uncomfortable to think when they get only a few years past
their prime, they wont be wanted or needed by the opposite sex.
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You have to be careful with generalizations. Some are, some aren't. |
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So what you're saying is that you support pedophilia? |
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Nope gotta disagree, the problem is that despite the myth that women are emotionally more mature
then men it has been my experience that younger women don't have the patience to be in a
relationship with a guy whoes main focus isn't video games and bar hoping. The younger women with
older men that I know always have the same complaint, all they want to do is work on the garden,
car, motorcycle etc they never want to go out and have fun. Translation: They don't act like
they're the same age as the woman. A younger woman with an older man is someone looking for someone
who makes them feel safe (not a bad thing by the way in general), but it's also a matter of wanting
to be taken care of. To be fair though if both people are on the same emotional playing field then
age isn't a factor no matter how you cut it. |
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Hell NO excuse my language but that's insane |
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My parents are separated by15 years and I have never really liked my dad. |
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There are a lot of depending factors. A woman's maturity. Men take longer to mature. I had always
dated men older than myself and married an older man, but not too old. Maybe up to 5-6 years. I
dated a man once 11 yrs older than me and he became quite boring to say the least. |
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I have dated an older man and all I am going to say is that I disagree. |
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No because, the older men will die faster than the woman, (no offense) and the woman will get very
sad and would try to committee suicide. |
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Most older men already have wives around their age. I am speaking of a 20 to 30 year age gap. These
old geezers are attempting to recapture their youth through younger women. The wife is abandoned and
devastated and sometimes divorced. Such is life because it is happening everyday to the majority of
older women. |
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Humm, I have always liked younger men...... |
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If it's true love, I guess that's fine...but marrying an old man for money, or other forms of
support? That's wrong. Plus, old men are--of course--old, and personally I wouldn't be able to
stand kissing an old guy. Keep to the "age range": No more than 5 years younger or older. |
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Uh...no. What if the old man dies? That happened to someone in my family >.>
Okay, older dudes may be able to give more support - social security and random stuff like that -
after they die, but it's better if they have a higher chance of staying alive... |
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I personally have to say no tho this younger women r better off with older men.i think its the man
and woman personally. Because your age is just a no. You are only as old as you feel. |
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I think to be honest it depends on the individual as if they are in love i guess age wouldn't really
be an issue but personally i wouldn't want to be with someone more than 8 or 9 years older than me. |
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How about young woman and money? |
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No! Omg your wrong@! More wrong than ever! |
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Ummm... EWW! I don't care if he's like 2-9 years older than her... BUT 17 AND ABOVE!? SICK!
What happens when you're like 65 and your hubby is like a museum? Gross...
Dx
In any relationship, I think 2-9 years apart is acceptable. |
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I think it depends more on the personality of the individuals. You may find a mature young guy is
better for a woman than an older man who is having a midlife crisis! Besides I think it is also
about how emotionally mature a person is. Immature older women may enjoy a relationship with someone
much younger, it has been known to work.......... |
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So........you're saying a 12-year-old should be with a 45-year-old?????????????? |
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I'm not sure. Ya that's how they did it in Bible times and everything, but seriously its kind of
sickening to see someone that's like eighteen dating a forty year old. |
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One one level I don't think the age should be the deciding factor when it comes to knowing if a
person is right for you but at the same time I think that too much of an age gap can cause problems
all on there own. An example of this would be my mom and biological father. They were 15 years apart
and it just didn't work. They were at different points in there lives and although they could relate
on some levels on others they just couldn't. Not with all but with some relationships that have
large age gaps I think the older party could end up with the tendency of parenting there spouse
rather then considering them an equal. Its kind of a catch 22. At the end of the day you have to do
what is right for you, and only you can decide what that is. For me my fiance is 6 years older then
me and we are polar opposites of each other but it works for us, I think partly because I seem to
have skipped a lot of stages in my life and grew up a lot quicker then many my age. Follow your
heart chances are it won't steer you wrong and should it happen to you'll get one hell of a lesson
out of it. |
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When I was young, such relationships were tactfully referred to as “May-December romances.”
People snickered behind the backs of men they considered “old goats,” who had hot young
wives.
Now, such affairs are the “in” thing, fueled by celebrity marriages between 28- and 58-year-old.
But the reality is much more sobering.
I’m 53, the age when friends whose husbands are 20 years their senior are still vigorous while the
men are falling apart. What seemed like a good idea when Hubby was an active 45 and you were 25 has
become an albatross around your neck -- and will only get worse. Indeed, many men approaching old
age specifically marry much-younger women for a built-in caretaker in their senescence.
Then there is the “trophy wife” concept: A hot 28-year-old makes you look good. Many women agree
to this for the money; any man who doesn’t recognize this is delusional. |
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Okay ummm no!! I dated this guy in high school and he screwed me over!! And i was a freshman and he
was a junior. But no one wanted us to know. Kinda sucked butt!!! |
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You should be with the one you love.
Whoever that is, it doesn't really matter the age as long as it's not illegal. |
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I spoke with and talked 2 girls older then me, i gave a 25 year old woman relationship advice i was
only 17 at the time i talked to girls who are 22 years old I'm 18 years old now I'm very mature for
my age i just turned 18 this year as a matter of fact i just turned 18 this year the truth is it's
not the age that females look for it's it's how a dude acts I've been with girls my age who claimed
they only like older guys but they were attracted to me for some reason so that must mean that yawl
got the game twisted the truth is the reason yawl girls like guys twice your age is because the
older guys know your easily impressed by them your basically being taken advantaged of your not as
mature as you think you are your just in a rush to grow up don't get mad because men just want to
live life without any regrets in the future because women seem to have the most regrets about their
decisions in the future so pleases check a guys mind out before you just assume he mature just cause
he old enough to be your daddy |
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17 Dec 2007 21:19
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