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Women Should Not Try To Control And Change Their Man
This is what is wrong with most relationships. Women should stop trying to control and change their men and accept them as they are. If you cannot love someone for who they are, then you do not need to be with them.
 BullDog  25 May 2008 12:41
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I agree. Men (or women for that matter) should not be forced to change.
 
 SlyOne  06 Nov 2008 00:57
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I agree but this also applies in reverse men should not try to change their women.
 
 boy2girl31  30 Sep 2008 23:01
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You cant change somebody who doesn't wanna change!
 
 DoeEyes  06 Sep 2008 08:39
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I agree.
 
 Natorian  31 Aug 2008 02:43
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There are some women like that, and they tend to hook up with guys who have no direction. Sometimes that works out fine. Sometimes the woman starts to feel disdain for someone she can control, while the man starts to feel resentful that he’s spent the last few years doing everything this woman told him to do only to steadily loose her respect. That one seems to be young couples about 5 years into a marriage with kids. Often one or both people has serious abandonment issues with the dad.
 
 finsch  12 Jul 2008 17:38
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Sadly many women do try and change their man, and when they have changed him, a few don't want this new man in their life anymore. If a woman fell for that man and his particulat traits in the first place, why bother to change Him?
 
 joe9  12 Jul 2008 14:27
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Frankly, I don't think anyone knows anything.
All we do is speculate.

And here is what I speculate: I am unconvinced that there even exists any such thing as "in love".

There is only what you choose, and what you do.
That is realistic.
 
 Scorpion  04 Jul 2008 23:47
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If you fall in love with someone and you don't like things about them... Then are you really sure you fell in love? People should be able to be themselves and be respected for it!
 
 not_emo16  26 May 2008 18:25
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No woman should try to change there man simply because that's who they fell in love with ...
 
 chevy  25 May 2008 17:08
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I am in total agreement. Lots of times, women think they can in fact change a man. But, you cannot change someone who does not want to be changed. Women need to realize that he is who he is and you should love him for that.
 
 curious  25 May 2008 14:46
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Imagine you are 19 years old and get married to another 19 year old.

Do you want the 19 year old behavior at 35? 45? 65?

I don't, I want that person to mature along with the relationship.

Not control but change, there is a difference.
 
 panistapsa  21 Jul 2008 21:51
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Some men enjoy being controlled because the are not capable of making sound judgements.
 
 Tepal  10 Jun 2008 03:45
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 This is so true and sad all at the same time. Men and women the like will challenge and attempt to change you, if possible to gain the upper hand or to feel as if they are in control due to their own insecurities, etc. or just a aggressive type personality. But, a man should always be a man, and if he doesn't know how, he needs to find out how to become one. His woman won't tell him if she is the type that loves to control. I admired a real man, one who is sensitive, loving, caring, etc, but one who knows how to stand up for himself or you if need be, no matter how much he loves you. Many men have been weakened by a women and alow her to have her way .... just to keep the doors open for the bedroom.
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 12 Jul 2008 15:07
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