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Wolves Should Own Up To Being Dating/people Specialist!
I' mean right... Why de-flower a poor unsuspecting soul of their innocence, if your skills are that great then admit you been around, and around, and around and around, don't play coy.
 Bacchus  08 May 2008 15:50
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Well I don't really agree with the tone of this debate. By and large my take on other peoples dating habits are whatevers clever. But BS and lies are where I draw the line. I was probably what your calling a wolf during a period of my life, but I never put on sheeps clothing.
 
 finsch  21 Oct 2008 18:47
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They feel that the can out smart everyone. So hence the game is afoot. Games are their speciality. They care little for the after affects.
 
 Tepal  08 May 2008 15:55
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 Why thank you for your expert opinion on this matter Tepal, if I have any further questions I'll just refer to your website
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by  Bacchus
 08 May 2008 15:58
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The psychological profile of a Dating-Specialist/aka "wolf", is usually a man, but not always, but just a person who probably never was able to win the approval/affections of their opposite-sex-parental-figure in their formative years. It is an effort to create a better outcome, in a battle-field as an adult with some measure of control and power they had no hope of winning as a small helpless neglected child.
Do not libel the Dating-Specialist/Wolf: This person could make an amazing mate, should a wise and patient and kind and understanding person remain constant and stable and consistent in their unwavering-devotion to the Wolf: People's dating patterns and M.O. Is about childhood-issues. A smart person will be the one this Wolf will always come back to, until finally the Wolf will simply become bonded to the Wise-person, and simply stay at home with them one day. Like with most people, trust and love and respect are all earned with time and experience. The Wolf is no different from anyone else in any of these regards. Just harder to "Catch". The Wolf is not for the faint of heart, no. That much IS true. But then, the best things in life are hard to get, and never free: Everything and everyone has a price. If you cannot pay don't play: Let a worthier foe win the Wolf over. Sometimes, it is just simple Commitment-Phobia: A Lot of people do not want to part with their Autonomy.
Everyone wants to feel their freedom, to some extent.

One more observation of The Dating-Specialist?

These people are unusually intelligent. They require more intellectual-stimulation at home than you probably do ;-)

Albert Einstein's wife was quoted as having had this experience at home.....And with that, I rest my case.
Thank you;-)
 
 snowbunny  21 Oct 2008 17:53
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 At some point you are responsible for your own behavior no matter your parental issues. And waiting for someone to want to change can be a long long wait. In the end timing and compatibility are probably more important than patience. Patience comes after the wolf chooses to lie down with the lamb, so to speak.
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 21 Oct 2008 19:01
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Calling/libeling someone as a "Wolf", indicates you distrust someone.

You do not know what is in someone else's head.
You do not know what is in that person's heart, or true motives.
You do not know what that person desires to find in life.

Do not judge others you have never even met, much less KNOW as a person through time and experience.

Just because you do not like someone's style, does not indicate you may call them judgemental phraseological-negatives.
Saying someone is so-and-so does not make it truth.
Truth is only what actually exists within the realm of reality, and assumed guilt is not true guilt but a misperception of reality.
 
 Scorpion  14 Jul 2008 19:16
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