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I like and enjoy this, your debate topic.
Good choice. ;-)
1, Love, is real, and real is lasting.
2, Infatuation, is ephemeral and fickle, therefore limited-edition-puppy-luv. Just don't sign any
papers under the influences of puppy-luv.....;-)
That is Regret in the first-degree. :-0
Love always wants what is in the target of their affection's Best Interests.( And, look out for
someone who is it's ALWAYS about THEM all the time never you! That, is one selfish critter! )
If you care that way about someone, that is one good sign all by itself.
If you would give up everything for someone, protect them at the cost of your own reputation, you
have a Finer Feeling......for them.
The fine-print?
There are always Indicators you can follow to the Truth about your relationship with that person. A
red-flag is a gut-feeling of unrest; something just isn't right........you always know. Deep down.
Your heart won't lie to you.
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Not if the other person isn't as in love and means to be committed.
Things go wrong.
You need to think long term to believe love will conquer all.
First you need to be friends then you need commitment. |
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Love and relationships are not the same thing. Yes if you truly love someone then you will continue
to love them. That doesn’t mean that you can be together. Love can be compromised as easy as
falling off a log. It takes two people who are committed and stay committed to being the right
person every single day. You have to be willing to compromise and sacrifice and struggle even on the
days that, while you love each other, you don’t really like each other. And if you do all that,
the bitter winds of fate can still decide to blow the whole thing apart at a moment’s notice. So,
work at it, treasure it, never take it for granted, and if you’re really lucky it just might work
out. |
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I want that to be true but alas it not always is...
1) Biology can interfere. There can be alzheimers or a stroke which affect the brain and choices.
There might be an unexpected revulsion at how their body ages - 30 years down the road you don't
know how your body will play out and your mind and romance can't necessarily overcome. Also there
was an article recently about how women on birth control pills may be connecting to the wrong men
because the hormones change their chemistry and the type of man who is their ideal match while on
the pill may no longer be a match if they go off the pill or pass menopause. 2) Economics plays a
bigger role than people admit. Like the song says "sometimes love just ain't enough". You can love
them with all your heart but still have to leave them because you can't raise your kids on the
salary of a ditch digger. 3) New people come into your life. You two might be the best possible
match out of all the possible mates in your home town. But move to a different town, maybe a big
city, and you might meet 10 more people who are much better matches than the one you thought could
be the only one. 4) Finally, consider the opposite truth - there are many people who are terrible
matches and say and do petty or mean things to each other yet they stay together their entire lives
locked in a mortal combat -- and meanwhile the newlyweds truly in love next door end up divorced in
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Only if your love is reciprocated; true love can't really exist unless it co-exists. |
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Love is not a feeling. Its an action. Infatuation is a feeling and that will fade fast. But i do
believe you can love someone forever. |
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15 Sep 2008 01:47
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