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The Most Judgemental People Are Those Who Believe In God And Attend Church
I have learned when i was younger that i was most judged by those in the faith, now that i am older and do not attend or believe in such a being i still have respect for those who believe but they have no respect for me!!
 DevilKat  27 Mar 2008 16:40
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We aren't judging the person only the action. The bible says love the sinner but hate the sin. The bible also says correct a believer when they are wrong.
 
 offcgibby  16 Jul 2009 03:41
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 People have tried correcting you but you just carry on being wrong and spitting out this loathesome venom
by  damselfly
 03 Jan 2011 16:11
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Yes, they are. Their religion tells them that they are right and everyone else is wrong so they start to judge people based on their own moral values. Even religions that tell people not to be judgemental end up causing it.
 
 ur_wrong  27 Jul 2008 23:38
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 why? because they have moral virtues and a conscience?
by  Scorpion
 18 Aug 2008 02:17
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Easy to judge when you believe you're going to heaven and those who disagree with you are going to hell....
 
 Snipex  21 Jul 2008 01:43
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"With god in the hole, you're a righteous soul"... It's hard not to feel superior when the most powerful being in the universe is telling you what to say.
 
 OzzieMan  16 Jun 2008 08:28
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I'm afraid I agree with a great sadness. It is ironic that some of those who are supposed to follow the morals and values of Christianity such as "love thy neighbour" are often the most hateful people who preach the wrong messages and basically give Christians a bad name.
 
 ibanex_87  18 May 2008 17:30
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That is usual.
 
 Stranger  15 May 2008 20:31
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I had to give this idea some thought before posting. After a decent amount of brainstorming, I came to the conclusion to place my post on this side of the debate. As it comes to my attention, some of the most judgmental people I’ve encountered within my lifetime have been associated with some sort of religious affiliation. Although there are many with no relation to religious philosophies that are just as judgmental, I must say that those who are tied to certain religions can be some of the worst when it comes to criticizing others about their beliefs, at least the ones I've encountered within my life.
 
 Hizashi  11 Apr 2008 19:07
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Read a world history book and tell me that millions weren't killed do to a belief that one group or other belief were insuperior immoral or wrong.
 
 Evidence  03 Apr 2008 17:59
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 It is certainly true that atrocities have been committed in the name of religion. However, the greatest mass killers in history--Mao and Stalin--were the rulers of "atheist states". So, your statement is essentially correct that millions have been killed due to a belief, but the biggest killings were committed by those whose belief was that there is no God.
by  charlee
 03 Apr 2008 18:17
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Unfortunately, this is often true. People of faith ought to be walking adverts for their faith. Through the contentment they clearly feel, and the serenity and peacefulness they project around them, the curiosity of others who encounter them ought to be piqued by the system of superstition which has brought that about. I've met a few people like that, deeply religious people who made everyone around them feel good. Unfortunately, I can count those people on the fingers of one hand. The opposite experience is more often encountered.

I'm not sure whether this is peculiarly an American phenomenon. I can't really think of European equivalents of Pat Robertson, Jerry Falwell et al. Certainly, when an atheist considers such people, he is repelled by religion rather than attracted to it.
 
 Hidell  28 Mar 2008 12:16
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 Do atheists make "everyone around them feel good?" Are atheists "walking adverts" of their lack of faith? The answer is 'no' and no one expects them to be otherwise. Christians and people of other faiths are not by default stupid little children who need to be talked down to.
by  mackenzie
 28 Mar 2008 14:51
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Yes I have also witnessed this...It also happened to me..it does seem that most judgemental people are the ones who attend church and everything but I used to think it was because they had higher standards that was until I saw that they were mostly all hypocrites doing the same things I was
 
 zero1again  27 Mar 2008 22:11
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 Sorry to hear about the way you were treated. Religion is supposed to teach us tolerance and understanding, you will be much happier without that kind of negative atmosphere.
by  openurmind
 27 Mar 2008 22:19
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It is very simple, most religious people are complete hypocrites. Religion is a group identity, that is the more people that believe what you believe the more correct your stance appears. It is basic group think. As you have probably realized, someone does not need religion to lead a honorable life. Even if I tell someone who is fervently religious; that in my life I have tried to do the most conscious good and the least conscious evil it will not be enough. It is the ritual and the wrote that makes a religious person feel like they are doing something that is greater than themselves, but the truly enlightened know that IF there is a greater force than humans, drinking wine and eating a wafer has nothing to do with their individual relationship with this greater power.
 
 openurmind  27 Mar 2008 18:08
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 As all of the deaths attributed to religion in history far outweigh the deaths of secular and non-religious atrocities, the answer is quite obvious. We do not need more religion as it creates a divide among people who may otherwise live in harmony.
by  openurmind
 27 Mar 2008 18:11
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The most judgemental, as well as the most hypocritical, are the atheists who are lightening-quick to judge Christians by standards that they as atheists don't even remotely come close to sort of living up to, nor even aspire to.
 
 dlmiller82  03 Jan 2011 14:07
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 the irony of that post escapes you doesn't it?
by  StBalders
 03 Jan 2011 14:22
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While I agree that most of them can be very judgmental, there isn't any basis for this argument. Some people are more judgmental than others (regardless of religious practice or belief).
 
 SlyOne  18 Mar 2009 15:23
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That is a generalization. Not all churchgoers are judgemental.
 
 Spartan33  07 Mar 2009 00:49
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 Nor is there any sort of lack whatsoever of judgemental atheists, or even non-churchgoers.
by  dlmiller82
 26 Apr 2010 21:31
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Judgemental people can be found everywhere, not just in the church...but I can't deny your statement, either. Church-goers are raised to believe what is right and what is wrong, so it's only fair to expect them to judge others for what they think they are or are not doing. God tells us to spread his word, and I think people are doing it wrong or misinterpreting it...

Point is: I judge, you judge, we all judge. It can't be avoided.
 
 bookworm3  24 Nov 2008 23:13
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This whole debate is judgemental, need I say more.....
 
 stever  18 May 2008 18:09
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I don't think so. I see lots of judgemental people everywhere. Atheists who think Christians are stupid, and primitive, and Christians that think even their fellow church goers are not doing it their way so they are going to hell. I think that it is our nature to judge those who are different than we. We judge out of a defence of who we are, which is more about fear. It is really irritating when someone is holier than thou, but i don't see that so much anymore.
 
 innomen  01 May 2008 20:53
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 Rightly said.
by  bookworm3
 24 Nov 2008 23:10
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Bull, ppl who have faith still respect ppl like you. You probably just met the few who didnt. Everyone believes different therefore everyone judges
 
 celva_olva  01 May 2008 16:44
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NO in church we focus on not being judgemental ..... I don't know what church your parents took you to but you are very wrong
 
 ratfink16  05 Apr 2008 01:09
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I don't think that religion plays any part in people being judgemental. There are many people on this site that are very religious and very judgemental. Ignorant in fact. But their ignorance and judgemental nature is irrespective of their religion not because of it. If they had been brought up without god they would be just as bad. It just so happens that they use god and the bible as a guise when spouting their judgemental tripe. We shouldn't let that cloud our judgement. It should however be of concern to the Christian world that so many of them are tarnishing decent Christians.

Many ignorant idiots that live locally to me have no dealings with a religion. They are judgemental because they are idiots just the same.

By the way we are all judgemental to some degree, it is not always such a bad thing in context. The debate itself is a bit judgemental.
 
 StBalders  03 Apr 2008 19:19
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 First time I have to disagree with you St.

People follow there beliefs and what their beliefs tell them often tell them what is wrong and what is right in a person.

One Catholic Christian etc. may look at another Catholic Christian etc. who is homosexual and see a person Blasphemous against Gods will

An Atheist Agnostic, etc may see someone who is attracted to the same sex. and nothing more.

Religions often found a persons morals and outlooks on life and if that religion governs that persons lifestyle and that person sees something that doesn't fit in or appears taboo then yes they are judged for it.

It can be flipped on religion however, what r common stereotypes against religious people
by  Evidence
 29 Apr 2008 15:58
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We must always judge things and at times people, because we are constantly making decisions about right and wrong to get along in life. Even the proposition: The Most Judgemental People are Those Who Believe in God and Attend Church; reeks of judgementalism. After all, the meaning behind the statement is that it is wrong to be judgemental. Very few debaters would say the statement is true and Believers and Church Attendees should be proud of their judgementalism. No, the message is that judgementalism is bad, and those who are judgemental are bad. So, in other words, being non judgemental and condemning judgementalism, is really being quite judgemental itself. The proposition is self-refuting.
 
 charlee  02 Apr 2008 23:21
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I think that this is a false stereotype. Perhaps this was true in the Victorian era, but thankfully we are beyond this now. Church-goers are no more inclined to be judgemental than those who decide not to attend church. In the past, many Christians may have seen attending church on Sundays as the "right" and "good" thing to do, whereas not going was frowned upon. This meant that many of the people who attended church did so out of convention, rather than out of conviction. I agree that those who spent mass or service scanning the pews and keeping tabs on who was there and who stayed at home were clearly judgemental.

In western secular societies, adults who attend church do so because they want to. It's their conscious decision to get up on a Sunday morning and attend. Since church attendance is no longer considered to be a social convention, nor is it the mark of "good people," you're usually only there if you really want to be there. I think that most of us realize that this is a personal choice, and there is nothing inherently wrong with those who choose not to come.
 
 mackenzie  28 Mar 2008 12:47
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Honestly speaking, there are judgemental Christians out there and they are wrong in what they are doing because it says in the Bible that judging is not our job, because one day Christ is going to judge those at the Great White Throne Judgement, and not all Christians are judgemental!!!!! How Christians need to think is, "i should be saving these lost souls instead of judging them!!!" but like i said, not all Christians are judgemental, also i know many people who are not Christian and they do not attend church and they are very judgemental and i seem to see more of them then judgemental Christians!!!!
 
 god-lover  27 Mar 2008 22:53
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 nobody said all Christians were judgemental!(apparently that adds emphasis)

But no offence but you guys surly do not have a very good historical track record and maybe you should lay off on the trying to convert people until you work out all the kinks as the catholic church is always revising what was supposed to be the word of god.


The Roman Catholic church has taken the first step towards what could be a historic shift away from its total ban on the use of condoms.

Pope Benedict XVI's "health minister" is understood to be urging him to accept that in restricted circumstances - specifically the prevention of Aids - barrier contraception is the lesser of two evils


Pope Benedict XVI Changes Catholic Church's Stance on Unbaptized Babies and Limbo


Oh and here's a throw back for you... Catholic Church acknowledges earth is round, does not apologize for all of the dead cartographers. I wrote this headline, never the less it is true.
by  openurmind
 27 Mar 2008 22:57
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