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We Should Feel Sorry For Narcissists
A narcissist will put their needs ahead of everyone else but it is only because they feel so inadequate . You can always tell when you are around one because they will throw childish temper tantrums when they don’t get their way. They will throw out all kinds of insults in order to make themselves feel better. Poor things. I just feel bad for the cold, empty, little child inside them. They just can't help it.
 artemis  26 Oct 2009 13:04
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And narcolepticzzzzzzzzz.
 
 2free  28 Oct 2009 00:38
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 Well then, you should really feel sorry for me. I am a narcoleptic narcissist.
by  artemis
 28 Oct 2009 01:17
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Sounds like you are describing the biblical God that wants all of you to live forever praying to him for eternity. Yep, you should feel sorry for someone like this. This entity fits the descriptions below very well. Kills you if you don't believe. "Love me or else".

Narcissist - Jealous, egotistical, vain, conceited, throws temper tantrums .
 
 moreno  26 Oct 2009 15:03
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 Yes, Our Lord did come to mind.
by  artemis
 26 Oct 2009 17:28
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Aye, I agree 100%, you can't make a silk purse out of a sows ear, the ''TRUTH'' is a two edged sword in most cases, that quickly chops a daffodil down to size! Problem is a borderline narrcisist only sees their own imperfect image, (WHICH THEY THINK IS SOMETHING DELECTABLE), reflecting right back at them! It's a dismal dull affair!...;-)
 
 LordDaniel  26 Oct 2009 14:49
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 Yes, so true.
by  artemis
 26 Oct 2009 14:59
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All we can do is feel sorry for them. There is no help for them. They will always be the way they are. The best thing to do is leave them alone and feel straight up pity for them. (Not empathy)
 
 artemis  26 Oct 2009 13:09
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As someone who has had a relationship with a narcissist-I can say with a great deal of certainty that I do not feel sorry for them-in any sense (at least this one) From my own experience this individual was a skilled manipulator spouting a string of "half-truths"...I actually had to mirror his behaviour in order for him to understand (if he ever could) what he was doing to himself and those that cared about him. He affected my quality of life and exposed me to much verbal and emotional abuse. The best choice I made was to find the strength and sever all ties with him. Which was not an easy task. These people need professional help, but many don't bother. While I feel a sense of sorrow for his mental disorder, I did not excuse his ability to make the right choices which he continually failed to do.
 
 zephyr387  27 Nov 2009 20:56
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Nah, just hide their mirrors and watch them freak out.
 
 Golfelda  26 Oct 2009 22:51
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 Well, You can't hide all the shiny surfaces... I can look at myself in store windows, the sides of cars, water, the back of a spoon.... Us Narcissistic people have many surfaces to admire ourselves in... lol
by  SlyOne
 26 Oct 2009 23:01
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At some point we all have to assume responsibility for our behavior, a narcissist never will. A narcissist is ruled by fear of looking foolish. Those are two qualities that I despise. I will save my Empathy and sympathy for people who struggle against real disability and any narcissists about will have to accept my apathy for that is the best I have to offer them.
 
 finsch  26 Oct 2009 13:49
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 If you act in a truthful and responsible manner, and plainly exercise the truth, as most adults I know do, then it stands to reason that you are being extremely responsible for your behaviour.

However if you come out with rediculous statements about the quality you despise, how can it possibly be quality in the first instance? As I have told you before Jaffa, your pen is weak, and I suggest you put it down for a rest. You are getting tired old bean!!!....;-)
by  LordDaniel
 26 Oct 2009 14:55
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Its hard to feel sorry for someone who's being a prick, isn't it? I mean, I want to feel sorry for people who have to insult others because they feel bad about themselves, but sympathy only goes so far before it runs out, and then I'm just pissed.
 
 Damien  26 Oct 2009 13:10
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 Oh, I understand. That's why you have to know when to just walk away. Once you walk away from the situation then you start to feel pity again. It sort of gives you an inner peace to just let it go.
by  artemis
 26 Oct 2009 13:17
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