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True Friends Would Not Back Stab You
If someone was really your friend, they would not be nice to you in your face, then talk bad stuff about you behind your back. It is sad when you trust someone as your friend, then they turn around and talk about you like you are a dog behind your back.
 BullDog  26 May 2008 07:31
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Not to be mean, but it sounds like you've had an incident yourself...

But anyway, no, a true friend does not backstab you. But you must think about the situation. If the friend in question is nice to you in person but talks bad about you behind your back creating false rumors about you, then ditch that person immediately because they are FAKE. But if they are being nice to you to avoid hurting your feelings, I'm not sure if that would be called backstabbing.
 
 bookworm3  21 Nov 2008 23:45
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A traitor is an enemy.
 
 Stranger  08 Oct 2008 16:35
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 and enemies should be kept closer than friends, so by making this friend your enemy, you and your friend are now closer than ever!
by  Specter87
 12 Oct 2008 00:26
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Yes, explicitly, what's what a "true" friend is.
 
 asphyDrake  06 Sep 2008 06:44
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Completely true if a friend stabs you in the back then they weren't a friend to begin with.
 
 maugatar  20 Aug 2008 12:48
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I agree a true friend would never stab you in the back.
 
 joe9  21 Jul 2008 07:18
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 Amen. well put, Joe9.
by  Scorpion
 27 Jul 2008 00:55
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True friends don't stab one another in the back. Tentative friends don't either but sometimes don't realize what a person qualifies as "stabbing them in the back". You know, you stick up for your friends, confide in them, let them vent, try to help them, agree with them when they are right and tell them when they are way wrong. Friends are great and I don't know what individuals would do without them. They are such a great support when everything goes wrong, which at aome point in your life, it will. They drive to get you in the middle of the night, they watch your kids so you can work or go out with a new date, they tell you when you gain weight, they know when is the right time to tell a little white lie. Basically, everyone needs them.
 
 curious  28 May 2008 18:20
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My friends and i stab each other in the back all the time
we do it for fun a lot of the time
but were always there if someone needs us seriously
and we always follow the unwritten rules of friends (don't date friends ex's / sisters etc)
 
 JackLC  26 May 2008 13:48
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 Are you serious? If you are, your friends don't sound that great.
by  bookworm3
 21 Nov 2008 23:46
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Friends is just a word.
 
 LyinInWait  20 Oct 2008 22:02
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Of course they wouldn't. A true friend is not two faced. They are like your family they should love you unconditionally and be there for you when ever whatever. A true friend is not bitchy about you behind your back
 
 orii  26 May 2008 13:30
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 And what is that friend IS a family member?
by  BullDog
 26 May 2008 13:54
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