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Threatening To Kill Yourself So That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Won't Leave You Is A Terrible Thing To Do.
To tell such a manipulative and cruel lie only to have your way is not only a terrible thing to do, but wrong as well.
 Allie87  26 Aug 2008 03:14
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I think that if you were to say that your wrong because if you break up you break up it means it was never ment to be soo leave it that way. If it was ment to be it will happen again-saying that your gonna kill yourself over it then you dont really love that person if you want to hurt them so. Love is something where you dont hurt eachother.
 
 onikins  08 Jul 2009 14:00
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Do people still do that? I think I would be more suprised and interested on a cultural level then upset and horrified. I also don't think I would believe it even if they were telling the truth. Boy would my face be red when they did jump off the Golden Gate bridge.
 
 finsch  06 Jun 2009 16:37
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A very good point. And it makes people unhappy. Because if your boy/girlfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore and your saying your going to kill yourself if they leave you, they will be really unhappy, confused and not no what to do. And if they do break up with you eventually and you do kill yourself, they will feel guilty for the rest of there lives

Basically, it's a life ruiner.
 
 Lynchee  11 May 2009 14:58
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Saying you'll kill yourself if they leave is definitely wrong. If you want to be sweet, say you'll die if they leave.
 
 bbtms  31 Mar 2009 03:25
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It is a manipulative and abusive thing to say to someone.
 
 SlyOne  23 Jan 2009 01:41
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Oh absolutely.

Anyone who threatens someone is not indeed loving that person: It is a Manipulation.
Manipulation is not the consistent theme with Love.

That is co-dependency taken to unattractive new heights, is all.
Call it what it really is.
 
 Scorpion  26 Aug 2008 20:50
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 I always laugh when I hear these stories about one saying they would end their life if left. That should be illegal to say to another.

"I'm going to kill myself unless you give me that BMW."
by  Specter87
 29 Aug 2008 19:04
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It's not good for anyone or anything. It destroys one's self reputation, and mental well being. It causes terrible anguish and torment to those who are told. By making that threat, you are creating more problems rather than solving them.
 
 verum  26 Aug 2008 03:29
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 Shouldn't you be on the "for" side?
by  hecker
 26 Aug 2008 18:35
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