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There Are No Ordinary Moments.
This is my first and probably last debate I'll post. Anyway, the title is my favorite quote and for this reason; People take life for granted and don't recognize the moments that seem ordinary to them. You know, it's not taking a vacation to the Bahama's for an extraordinary time, that can be done in a walk, a sit or talking to clouds. People lose faith in themselves and forget they exist. All they need to do is take a look in front of them and see their feet, a path and just walk. Dream.
 Genkaku  10 Nov 2008 02:26
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I believe that every moment is different and special. No moment is exactly the same and the uniqueness of the moment makes it special to certain individuals.
 
 Cemetary  15 Dec 2009 13:28
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I enjoyed reading the responses in this debate. I've come to the conclusion it's an extraordinary debate made up of ordinary peoplés' thoughts. Well Done Genkaku!
 
 joe9  14 Dec 2008 12:00
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The debate topic itself I like.
I agree with the idea.

Every moment is important: They all add up to what will become known as your life, when you are gone from this earth.
 
 Mystery  05 Dec 2008 00:17
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 Like a wrestling match.
You leave with what you did.
You can only punish yourself if you left anything behind on the mat.
by  Genkaku
 05 Dec 2008 00:22
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If one takes the time to watch a toddler on an afternoon out, they will see that there is nothing ordinary when you are experiencing life in the moment. As we grow older, we forget to live for the moment and lose the perspective of the toddler who could teach all of us a lesson in life. Every moment can be extraordinary if we allow it to be. We can tap into our "inner child" and let our curiosity of the world around us allow us to experience life the way the toddler does as he/she is experiencing everything anew.

As adults, sadly most of us, myself included are too busy thinking of things we must accomplish and taking care of responsibilities in an almost robotic fashion that we don't take the time to experience the things going on around us as we do these things. We do have to be responsible and take care of our homes, kids, and jobs, but we can find a way to experience an extraordinary moment in there along the way. Simply performing life's more mundane requirements with a smile on your face and taking a moment to stretch and enjoy the scent of...let's say your laundry detergent (I used this example because I detest doing laundry), is allowing an ordinary moment the chance to become extraordinary especially if you pass this on to your children so they may learn not to take life for granted and to cherish all of life's moments.
 
 my2cents2u  22 Nov 2008 18:36
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 And it doesn't even have to be curiosity.
It can be as simple as just paying attention.
To every moment, every second, every breeze and every light ray that gleems off of your skin, warming it as you listen to the washing waves crash lightly upon a shore.

It's digging deep that finds you the treasure.
by  Genkaku
 05 Dec 2008 00:09
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I love this topic! I know I take life for granted not because I'm selfish but because it's habits.

Like quadriplegics, they can't even raise their hand to itch their eyebrow or something like that, and when average people do it, it's like they totally don't even notice because it's more than a learned habit.

Anyways...Life is beyong taken for granted. It's almost abused.
 
 imright20  21 Nov 2008 20:57
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There are no ordinary moment but I do believe people should always live their life more in the moment and not in the past or dwell on things.
All too often people are trying to figure out what they are about to do next or say in the future which is OK. When goal setting.
Be spontaneous. Get the most out of life.;-))
 
 keepmindok  13 Nov 2008 21:57
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Ordinary is just a meaningless word used to impose a sense of order and control on the universe around us by people who would rather shrink the world than expand the mind.
 
 finsch  10 Nov 2008 14:00
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 I believe the original meaning was to have "control" or jurisdiction of a certain area.

I also believe it is often used to describe something which is common.

I think your description is a little over the edge.
by  justsumguy
 10 Nov 2008 23:42
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I like to think of our moments that fashion our life as snowflakes, each one is different, some are bigger than others, and most are relatively insignificant, but when you put them together you can create something magnificent, like a storm or a blizzard.
 
 verum  10 Nov 2008 04:38
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If the moment can’t be replicated with exact precision, it isn’t ordinary.
 
 Hizashi  10 Nov 2008 04:00
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 science
by  Specter87
 11 Nov 2008 05:12
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Some say we are a grain of sand on a beach in this massive universe. The smallest speck in comparison to the immense unknown.

They are wrong. The universe is the speck compared to the person. There is nothing ordinary about a person. It is the singlemost extraordinary thing that could be loved by its creator.

Ordinary moments. No such thing.
 
 justsumguy  10 Nov 2008 03:03
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 Too bad most people can't see themselves as something great.
It's not what you see, it's what you should be looking for.
by  Genkaku
 10 Nov 2008 03:05
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There are common moments, reoccurring moments, but no ordinary moments.


Today I haven’t really accomplished anything
worth remembrance. I woke up early, went to work and on my way home I stopped for groceries. When I finally got home I exercised, ate, and fixed the cable, and I got the internet working again, and then went for a walk. By this time I was exhausted from a long day. The only thing left to do was go to sleep. This day will not be remembered, but when I think about it, it is the backbone of days and should be idolized, but alas, I will not remember.

The days we don’t remember are the days we live for.
 
 Specter87  10 Nov 2008 02:36
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 Excellent.
by  Genkaku
 10 Nov 2008 02:44
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There's never nothing going on and there's something extraordinary in all of us. Whether that makes us ordinary, or not, it should still be special to us.

Hold yourself dear and follow where the moments take you. Life is not measured by the amount of breaths you take, but by the moments which take your breath away.

Shoot, you better push it.
I'm outta breath right now.
I'll let you catch up.
 
 Genkaku  10 Nov 2008 02:29
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 You take my breath away....
by  SlyOne
 10 Nov 2008 02:39
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Life is full of ordinary moments. It is these ordinary moments I crave, that make life so sweet and delectable. I love the haiku poetry form. Haiku is only about the exquisite poignancy of ordinary moments

Birds from my window---
Feathers and wind ruffling---
Doves melting with clouds--

This is how haiku honors the ordinary moments.
 
 tinseldove  24 May 2009 22:45
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 Well, "It is these ordinary moments I crave, that make life so sweet and delectable." doesn't sound so ordinary to me.
by  Genkaku
 02 Jun 2009 00:29
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If there are no ordinary moments, then there are no extraordinary moments.
 
 Homestar  05 Dec 2008 00:34
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 Exactly.
And since people make them ordinary, it's what makes all those moments extraordinary.
You're on the wrong side.
by  Genkaku
 05 Dec 2008 00:57
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I know this is a mistake, but I feel the need to disagree with genkaku.
Life if choked full of ordinary moments. Things you need to do everyday, brushing your teeth, washing, sitting on the loo, making dinner, letting the dog out, driving to work, driving home from work, doing the shopping. Unless something out of the ordinary occurs.
If I was having a sht and thinking how extraordinary this moment was, I'd be worried.
 
 2free  13 Nov 2008 15:19
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 Well I won't post anything big, because I know you don't like those.
But just go read under Balance's post, the third comment is mine, too.
Read that one, basically.
by  Genkaku
 14 Nov 2008 01:55
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Ordinary moments are the moments that aren't extraordinary.
 
 Balance_92  12 Nov 2008 15:27
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 And that's why so many people can't enjoy the scenery on a detour.
There's never nothing going on and no moment is ordinary, it's your mind that makes it that way.
You get into the repetition of living, you react to this and react to that.
It's the warrior who acts, the fool who reacts.
by  Genkaku
 13 Nov 2008 01:06
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This moment is pretty ordinary for me. I'm sitting at my computer debating on forandagainst.com while listening to "spaceman" by the killers. Ive done both at the same time before more than once, so this is nothing new or unusual.
 
 ur_wrong  10 Nov 2008 23:47
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 It's the fact you're still doing it.
Which is unusual.
You take it for granted and don't realize you are doing something.
Besides, you haven't debated on this topic before, nor have you been listening to that song at the same time you are right now on the same part, while thinking the same thing.
It's not ordinary, since you want to be technical about it.
by  Genkaku
 11 Nov 2008 00:32
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