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There Are As Many Unfaithful Women As There Are Men.
Whether a woman or a man you are either going to be faithful or you are going to be unfaithful. Some couples agree to have an open relationship. One of a partnership may agree not to mind, or some couples are completely faithful. But I don't believe there are any more men that women who cheat on there partner. I think it is perfectly equal.
 keepmindok  15 Jul 2008 15:44
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I agree! It would be sexist to disagree!
 
 angiehorse  13 Jan 2010 04:00
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 Well it might be. But I think it would still be wrong. Men always seam to get the rap for cheating, but I have fundamental reasoning behind my argument that it is pretty much equal when it comes to spouses having their cake and eat it too.
That is not to say that all ppl cheat. That is definitely not the case. What is the case is, that there as many women as men have extra marital affairs. Course you don't need to be married. but the same applies if you living together, or are wedlocked. It also does not mean that those who cheat are always good at concealing the fact. Some ppl whether male or female are lousy at being discrete. But equally men and women can have affairs that the other partner never know about, or are the last to know :-)
by  keepmindok
 15 Jan 2010 03:01
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I don't think gender makes that much difference; if the person is going to cheat, that actually speaks out more about their personality and circumstances than anything else.
 
 acidrabbit  20 Dec 2009 20:48
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Ok. I see what you are saying here.
And I get it.

And yet however, the bottom line is, we are all LOOKING FOR THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE WHO WILL WORK OUT FOR US.
And until we find him or her we still look.
Some even cheat.
But some of us don't even though we may window shop so to speak, we are very faithful at heart we will always keep our pants on no matter what for that one certain person WHO FILLS OUT HEART WITH JOY.
And you know it.

Do not be so quick to assume we cheat.
If the pants stay on, intercourse has not occurred. No matter what you may think to the contrary.
If one has not done it, one has not done it. Plain pure and simple. End of story.

Talking to the opposite sex is not the same as intercourse. And you know it isn't. Conversing is not mating.
 
 jalapenos  07 Apr 2009 19:12
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 Thank you jalapenios, not every person could or would want to stray or deceive there love one/partner, It is almost a given in the aristocracy the man will. What I am saying is ... there are as many women as there are men who would, under certain circumstances.
by  keepmindok
 08 Apr 2009 00:00
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I would say that is the case now. Ever since it the 70's when it became OK for women to enjoy sex.
 
 ABCXYZ  28 Mar 2009 13:31
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 I hadn't thought about it in those terms, but I have come to the conclusion that an equal amount of women and men have the kind of personality that prevents them from sticking to an entirely monogamous relationship. Whether or not they act upon it is a moot point.
Whether they are found out or not is also part and parcel of the different personality make up, and behavioral characteristics..
To sum up... A husband or wife may never know that their husband or wife had had an affair. But in terms of what percentage of women are unfaithful (or have the desire to have an affair, but never act upon it) it is as near as 50 50 as can be.
by  keepmindok
 28 Mar 2009 16:01
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You have to be correct on this one, Keepmindok.
For the simple fact that those cheating men are doing so with women, and so where are these women coming from? Their husband's homes is where;-)
Where else did the tongue-in-cheek phrase: "the postman's child" originate?

Obviously the women cheat equally as the men. These cheaters are all coming from someplace.
 
 AssetParis  07 Feb 2009 21:09
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Though there are unfaithful men yet more women though i am pretty sure that it is the mens fault for always expecting the women to be perfect and have no flaws aaaah trust me i have experienced this and it is awful. MEN DON'T BE SO JUDGEMENTAL!!!!!!!!
 
 mollyjmojo  31 Aug 2008 10:55
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 Hi mollyjmojo, according to finsch there, it is the women do all the judging, feeling safer with men who are already married to someone else, and I can quite believe it too.

I have sound reasons to believe it is pretty even, between the sexes, no mater what orientation. So you can't blame men any more than blame women.

Their is a certain type of guy who will criticize the way a woman dresses or any other fault, but there are just as many women do the same too.

So it is the behaviour I recognize, not the gender.
by  keepmindok
 15 Sep 2008 17:32
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I probably agree with this debate's topical heading.
Women are definitely as sexual creatures as men are, and are more crafty at hiding said sexuality than males whose feelings are right out there in front where it is impossible to hide.....if you get my drift.

Females have affairs, yes.

I just happen to not be one of them is all.
So, stereotypes are not as valid a generalization as you believe. But yes, it does happen.
And I am not one of those women who thinks women are better or more pious than men are. Both are sexual creatures.

So I still agree.
 
 Scorpion  25 Aug 2008 21:30
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 Maybe I aught to change the sub text.?
It should still be equal though'
by  keepmindok
 25 Aug 2008 22:21
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Probably more. Alot of women lie about how much they sleep around.
 
 verum  25 Aug 2008 08:16
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 Thanks verum
It might be more but I believe it is mathematically the same for males as it is for females.
by  keepmindok
 25 Aug 2008 22:30
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Well said.
I don't know for sure but it must be pretty equal. There are certain laws, when it comes to opposites attracting.
It just makes sense that, (if you are a half now you are whole) you need that other,(opposite half), to be proportionally the right amount of the opposite.
 
 keepmindok  18 Jul 2008 14:41
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 you seem to have a pretty good gist to how it all operates, keepmindok ;-)
by  Scorpion
 25 Aug 2008 21:31
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Women do cheat as much as men. But, women do not get caught as much as men do. This is why the statistics are so low for women. They never make a peep about it and do not get found out. Cheating is equal between the two sexes. I do not condone this act however, I believe that if you are in a commited relationship, you should be completely faithful to your partner.
 
 curious  16 Jul 2008 02:53
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 They don't seam to get caught as much as men do. The similarities are in the character, and that is what causes them to stray.
by  keepmindok
 18 Jul 2008 14:22
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I am not sure if this is statistically accurate, but it is certainly true that women are just as capable of committing adultery as men. These days, several major surveys have shown that women are far more desirous of sexual relations than had been previously thought. Until very recently, the prevailing assumption was that women were not really interested in sex, while men were all but addicted to it. More recent studies suggest that the two genders are no so far apart on this issue

If women desire sexual relations, then it is fair to conclude that they are also similarly capable of adultery. At the same time, I assume that incidents of unfaithful behaviour are perhaps still higher among men, if only due to the fact that a larger proportion of them work outside the home than women, and as such, the temptation is far greater.
 
 mackenzie  15 Jul 2008 22:14
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 Could be true that the men have more opportunity. outside the home but while they are away the loving wife has the same opportunity.
I believe it is equal and related to my other debate that children take after their fathers and marry there mothers characteristics. It is difficult to discern. All the same it is true. If you look at the famous families it is easier to see.
by  keepmindok
 18 Jul 2008 14:31
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I don't know the statistics but I do know this -- PLENTY of women cheat just like plenty of men do. It's a myth that women are more loyal, more reserved, more pious, more family minded. Plenty cheat.

Still I agree men have a greater tendency of being dogs about it. Yet there is no moral high ground women can claim on this topic.
 
 Grenache  15 Jul 2008 16:43
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 I just happen to think both a man and his wife should be loyal to one another. Anything less is cheap and degrading to both equally.
by  Scorpion
 25 Aug 2008 21:34
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I think there are as many women who are POTENTIAL cheaters. But society weighs much more heavily on women to stifle their needs. Conversely, society endlessly fosters and encourages in men the idea that cheating is in their makeup.

Truthfully, the ability to be promiscuous resides equally in men and women by nature. Men doing it more and women doing it less, however, is not by nature but by nurture.
 
 tinseldove  22 Apr 2009 02:21
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 I think modern society has changed things for the worse. In that there are many women who live on their own, some men have choices between those who have been left holding the baby. (so to speak)
But I am trying to show that within the set bounds of a given relationship, still there are as many women as men who will cheat. And it may go on for years undetected by spouses.The reasons for which are passed down from one generation to the next through the male line. From father to daughter or son. As is loyalty.
by  keepmindok
 22 Apr 2009 08:50
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Females are too uncreative to be unfaithful.
Only men are creative enough to cheat properly, HA HA HA.
 
 Nevermore  13 Oct 2008 21:48
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 only suggests that men are more sly at covering up their infidelities is the point you have wittily made. I do not see that the men are more wittily, nor sly. Those who propagate a lie must always make more additional lies to cover up the first lie.
Lies beget more lies, as cheating and adultery begets more infidelity.
And the corruption grows ever more unattractive, and ruins the person's credibility entirely.
If you have a reputation as a cheat or a sleeper-arounder, soon no one will trust you. That is the sad fact adulterers will face eventually.
No one will marry them.
by  AssetParis
 07 Feb 2009 21:13
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I’m not so sure. I'm going on personal experience rather than any statistical knowledge but, it seems that more single women are willing to have an affair with a married man than the other way around. Which doesn't really count as cheating for the single member of the equation. In fact, I found that when I got married a certain percentage of women become distinctly more sexually predatory towards me than had been the case previously. Other married men I know experienced a similar shift.
 
 finsch  25 Aug 2008 22:02
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 wow that's just weird, finch....i never knew that.
new one on me.
Huh..........interesting.
by  Scorpion
 25 Aug 2008 22:04
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I disagree you haven't taken all the probabilities into consideration.
 
 joe9  15 Jul 2008 15:49
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 There are two basic characteristics that people have, either A or B . A being the highly social physically interactive type, the other is, less social and less physically demonstrative. Half the people in the world will fit into one type and the other half fit into the other.
Few or none are extremes, at either end of that spectrum, most are somewhere in between.
That is nearly all of us.

If a highly physically driven person were together with a highly emotional person, this could lead to an affair. Some people are so good at concealing the affairs it could go on for decades unbeknown to the partner.;-(
by  keepmindok
 17 Jul 2008 14:18
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