I'd like to contribute to this debate but in fact I've not got a clue what you're are talking about..
It is such a babbled mess that I can only assume you are a kid with a chip on his shoulder trying to get it across .. good luck...
I agree that students should understand why they are doing certain things, but that doesn't mean
they should have decision making ability in a classroom. I think that would undermine the authority
of the teacher.
Later on in a student's education, many find their own reasons and motivations for their education -
whether it is money, a certain job, or the intrinsic worth of education.