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People of different race/ colour can't express love for each other with people talking is this right or not
 Procers  24 Jan 2008 19:19
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It reallly dpends,it can be a gd thing or bad thing as gd thing can be learning about each other culture but the bad thing is there may be conflicts
 
 Power_Khan  01 Mar 2010 14:58
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I rather be with the opposite race.
 
 ehiggins  19 Jan 2010 01:00
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Love is important.
 
 gamenut  08 Jan 2010 04:48
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It's called freedom of choice and I totally agree with it.
 
 menhim1967  24 Aug 2009 00:42
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They look different, and sometimes better. We're all people (with the exception of Neo-Nazis).
 
 RoboHippo  03 May 2009 20:55
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We have no say in it it is up to those people
 
 shipp  08 Apr 2009 19:21
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You can not help who you love. Color has nothing to do with it.
 
 jaykaywy  03 Mar 2009 04:55
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The outside of humans are just shells what you are really spending time with is their soul.
 
 charliroi  14 Feb 2009 01:00
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They can if they want to, but some people like the color of their own self, and like to date those with whom they have the same color of skin as because they think they look good. Just as their preference, not racially discriminative or anything like that. Just their own taste in appearance.

I do not think it is WRONG to date outside one's own race.
I just think that it is all about individual preference.
 
 AssetParis  06 Feb 2009 22:51
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Love is love and I don't think anything should let two consenting adults stop them from being together. I don't see how race would even be a problem in a relationship.
 
 kddan  08 Oct 2008 13:21
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Love is love me friend.
 
 imright20  03 Oct 2008 00:58
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 do it if you want to.
by  Scorpion
 08 Oct 2008 00:46
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They are aloud to and they do but should is not the right word
 
 tunainabun  27 Sep 2008 20:57
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You can't help who you fall in love with, regardless of their ethnic origin/colour WHATEVER. I really can't stand people who are against interracial dating/marriage etc. It's completely and utterly racist.
 
 nchx  27 Sep 2008 20:23
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 then maybe u should seat them
by  Smito
 27 Sep 2008 20:24
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Yes i'm for it
 
 chevel54  18 Sep 2008 02:34
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As long as you love each other. Go for it.
 
 Natorian  31 Aug 2008 02:41
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I think it's definitely acceptable.
 
 Balance_92  16 Aug 2008 20:43
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If that is who you are attracted to, then it is perfectly acceptable.
What one finds attractive or desirable to them is what one should select in a person.

I have never been attracted to a person of some other race ethnically then what I myself am, but I think of it conceptually as quite okay and just fine and dandy for whomever wishes it so to be.

For me? It might be different than someone else's requirements to be attractive. It seems like there are a variety of fetishes or whatever it is that seems exciting to someone, in that way, attractive......
I am not attracted to dark skin, and never have been. But it is not out of racism, because I find black persons to be more technically beautiful than many Caucasians to be. There are ALOT of characteristics I find unappealing, sexually. Mostly, in personality or character, but on the outside as well. That is not to say I COULDNT be sexual with a black man. Just that I never have before met anyone like that I wanted that way.
If I met a black man who had every single interior-traits like warmth, humour, kindness, understanding, loyalty, faith, intelligence,........etc etc and well, you know? Maybe so.

I am a natural blonde haired person, very light very fair, very pale blue eyes Scandinavian-American person.
I have never been attracted to blond men either....so.......;-)
Or short men:-( I am short.............. Opposites attract.

I do not have a liking for redheaded men either, or Asians, or Hispanics in a sexual way or just their appearance, that is.

I did have an attraction to a Jewish/Israeli one time. He was hot.
Greek men are very good-looking. I adore black hair and milk-white skin, and tall.;-)

All that to say, it is all a subjective, personal thing. Not racial.
 
 Scorpion  14 Jul 2008 19:52
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People should do what they want and everyone else should shut up and mind there own business. My god parents were a mixed couple back when you didn’t do that sort of thing. Now they’ve been together almost 40 years and are pillars of the community and one of the most genuine and functional marriages I know.
 
 finsch  07 Jul 2008 17:04
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 exactly so, Finsch.
by  Scorpion
 16 Aug 2008 20:59
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How does the color of one's skin change how they feel love?
 
 boy2girl31  01 Jul 2008 06:12
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YES YES YES YES, my first crush was a different race than me, and so on... If it wasn't right life would suck for me right now T-T

PS: To whom this may concern, I am not as oblivious as this comment makes me look... At least i hope I'm not XD
 
 Zman676  20 Jun 2008 23:35
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I think mixed relationships are great!! You like what you like, and it's really no one else's business. I love Chinese men, and I'm black. So what!! Just leave people alone. Where does it say that we shouldn't like other races?! People made up that stupid rule. I still don't see why people make such a big deal over something so natural. People are going to like one another, race has nothing to do with it. Unless you're a fool.
 
 SpicyGirl  08 May 2008 08:51
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There's nothing wrong with interracial relationships.
 
 Mark  30 Apr 2008 23:26
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I think that is sexy and for the mixing of interracial relationships there can a bond different from some dating it the same race.
 
 GsPrincess  13 Apr 2008 05:16
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People of different races should date each other, there is no justification for why they shouldn't.
 
 DowpE1  31 Mar 2008 11:03
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Why shouldn't they be able to is the better question here. Of course they should be able to.
 
 veggiefry  29 Mar 2008 14:53
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 it seems veggiefry, from some comment made on the opposite side here, in regards to this debate topic, that why "we shouldn't" is something to do with the fear that we will all look alike in time, when the genetics get washed-out by interbreeding of all physical characteristics.
This fear of all-one-color race of humans, seems to frighten some people.
A mutant form of xenophobia anyone?? ;-0
by  Scorpion
 16 Aug 2008 21:03
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They can and they do but they shouldn't have to. They chose who they love
 
 melisiwa  21 Mar 2008 04:08
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Yes! There's nothing wrong with it.
 
 nelson12  13 Mar 2008 23:49
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Of course they can that is like totally racist if they couldn't that is just terrible i am so for letting them
 
 viking435  08 Mar 2008 02:09
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 i agree, why wouldn't they and why wouldn't we allow it. i mean the government shouldn't control who you sleep with and/or who you date neither should anybody else
by  ambercol
 08 Mar 2008 23:48
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Being the product of a mixed marriage i am for mixing.
Anyone who has a problem with it really has too much time on their hands.
If you love someone, colour shouldn't come in to it. You should just love them for who they are.
 
 curls  28 Feb 2008 19:35
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Yes race and color doesn't effect love
 
 vgking13  28 Feb 2008 18:19
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If you can communicate with the person, if you want the person, and if you and the person can make you both happy for being together
And I think the question should be more like should I date ugly chick or hunk or not?
I love white, black, hispanic, and azn girl if they are hot....
:)
 
 MymomizAZN  21 Feb 2008 23:15
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We all bleed and breath and breed the same.
 
 tesaba  16 Feb 2008 16:38
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Dating is a concept which was not that much prevalent in the past but nowadays it has become a very happening activity between the youth. Today we see every young and even middle aged people also going to some places like coffee shops, restaurants and pubs to have a date. As far as race is concerned, there should not remain any discrimination in matters like dating. If a person from a particular race feels like dating someone from any other race then there is absolutely no harm in it. As long as both of them who are willing to date each other are individually happy with each other’s race and they remain comfortable with each other then it is rather a good issue as this may help in stopping the racial discrimination which still exists in this world.
 
 sudipa  10 Feb 2008 13:00
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Friendship is the first feeling that buds between two people who like each other and it may even result into dating. Liking some one is regardless of their race or the accent that they have it is all about the bond that you develop and the interests that you share.

There is nothing wrong with people of different races dating each other. Such relationships may even result into a better understanding of different cultures and tolerance towards what others believe in.
 
 Twilight  25 Jan 2008 18:08
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 Perfect, AMEN, I couldn't have said it any better!
by  ValerieC
 28 Jan 2008 23:12
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If they are in love then let them
 
 cnm09  25 Jan 2008 16:49
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Anyone that says that doesn't eat oreo cookies.
 
 cannibal  12 Jun 2009 01:56
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 I love oreo cookies... plus this doesn't have anything to do with the debate.
by  DdAWg
 04 Mar 2010 23:26
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"should" is not the correct term. People "should" not need to do that if they don't want to.
 
 Dustin0550  11 Apr 2009 02:26
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No no no no no ! There is a reason why we was all made a different race! Not so we can go make another! By mixing races its just not right
 
 roadrunner  27 Jan 2009 02:47
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 You are not right about this
by  ehiggins
 19 Jan 2010 00:52
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SHOULD?
I don't disagree with that but what if you didn't date a guy/girl of different race?
 
 sah01  29 Sep 2008 23:14
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 do it if you want to.
by  Scorpion
 08 Oct 2008 00:46
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Well I think "should" is the wrong word, but there's definitely nothing wrong with interracial dating.

In fact, my definition of utopia is a world where there is only one skin color and language, so there is nothing to fear from the unknown, which is the source of all bigotry and racism.

Maybe it will happen after 90% of us die out, while the remaining 10% all go to the last habitable place on earth, interbreeding the races and mingling their cultures and languages into one.

Diversity is overrated when compared to peace on earth.

One can hope,

But I digress.
 
 grokit  31 Aug 2008 20:02
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Well if the two aren't intelligent enough to figure out hey it doesn't matter if people talk or not then i say they shouldn't date. If they are willing to deal with the idiots around them talking then i say go at it. Obviously they don't love each other if they are not willing to go through the stereotypes of people.
 
 Smito  07 Jul 2008 17:07
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NOOO!!!!! We don't need
Dx
 
 emokid832  07 Jul 2008 10:02
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NO WAY!!!!! Soon, if we keep mixing races, whites will be the minority!!!!! That is thee last thing we need!!!!
 
 mysisrox  09 May 2008 22:38
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 Yes, and, go on, we're all listening...?
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 09 May 2008 22:40
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Just don't agree mixing is a good idea but guess you gotta be in the situation.
 
 blazer1968  06 May 2008 23:16
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If this keeps happening everyone will eventually be the same color. How boring.
 
 Teachdirt  13 Apr 2008 05:18
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 Not necessarily.

There's too much genetic variation in the world for that to happen anytime in the forseeable future (we're probably going to start manufacturing skin colors and having purple people before the races homogenize). What will likely happen is we'll end up with a continueum, where the races fade into each other (we have that now, with people who are half one race, half another, but it isn't common).

We'd actually end up with more races because of all the combinations that can be made (half white, half asian; half asian, half black; half black, half hispanic; half hispanic, half white; for a few examples, plus all the three quarters this, one quarter that mixes, or the half this, one quarter that, and one quarter something else, etc.).

There'd still be enough people having kids with their own race that the original races wouldn't die off, too.
by  FoxFire
 16 May 2008 23:16
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No it is not right because when ricky bobby got in that accident he was in fact on fire.

Now just because black people are less handsome it doesn't mean they are not ugly

i mean there is a someone for everyone but not a perfect someone for everyone

i recommend dating Asians because their eyes are smarter then us.
 
 taffy4jc  09 Feb 2008 05:07
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 WTF??? hid made no sense! black people are less handsome? its funny how you think so yet all the while people are aspiring to be like us! s get their bottoms and li[s injected to look like ours and they tan to be our color and furthermore they listen to us, talk, walk, dress, and act like us?! explain that
by  ambercol
 08 Mar 2008 23:47
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People should be able to express their love for one another regardless of race and culture. Most Americans today are involved in interracial or intercultural relationships and I see them expressing their love all the time just like normal people. Educated people are not racist and will not worry about what other people think. They will express their love for their partner no matter where they are or who is looking at them. Only a jealous idiot would make racist remarks about someone Else's relationship. I think that it is great that people find love outside of their own race and culture. We are people and we deserved to be treated as such.
 
 Flash  25 Jan 2008 19:28
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 Interesting you said the opposite on a very similar post. hmmmmm....
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 29 Jan 2008 13:23
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As a minority citizen, almost ALL of my friends are a different race than me. I have barely a handful of friends the same ethnicity as me, but I get along with everyone else perfectly. Relationships have worked out, and the matter of "cultural differences" barely plays a role.
 
 Dhaopac  25 Jan 2008 06:04
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How can they not show love?? Almost 48% of Americans are dating outside there race! Are you saying that they don't love each other??
 
 timmercj  25 Jan 2008 03:00
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Love is love no matter what.
Age, race, religion, or nationality.
Period
 
 CrowXLove  24 Jan 2008 20:59
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 I meant to put this in the thumbs up. How do I move it?
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 24 Jan 2008 21:09
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