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People of different race/ colour can't express love for each other with people talking is this right or not
 Procers  24 Jan 2008 19:19
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Colour skin or how someeone looks at all should not affect the way someone loves smoeone...love is blind, besides, beauty is only skin deeep.!
 
 smileypie  29 Jan 2013 00:48
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This should be up to the person that is deciding on who to date. Not everyone will find someone of the same Race to be their soul mate. S, this should be up to the persons that are dating, not anyone else.
 
 t_m_w_e_95  07 Dec 2012 14:16
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Yes, im for it because;
Im a white man who doesnt mind a little chocolate from time to time.
 
 gandalf  21 Nov 2012 18:35
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It's their choice my freind
 
 willburfi  20 Nov 2012 04:19
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Interracial relationships create stronger humans with stronger immune systems and there is only one race the human race God never said no to mix
 
 BiblicanB  29 Sep 2012 18:57
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Yes you should because multiculturalism is what helps modern society work, be helping trade stories improve relationships and help solve problems and stop stereotypes.
 
 Kryten4000  21 Aug 2012 07:16
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Yes. Just yes.
 
 Celtica1  16 Aug 2012 15:00
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Of course! It's america
 
 taliae123  21 May 2012 22:28
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People can date whomever they want. And they can breed with whomever they want too, as long as the 2 or more parties involved are over the age of consent and engaging of their own free will.

Forbidding this on the basis of genetic differences is racism, and anybody who posted on the other side is racist. Unless, of course, they were being sarcastic.
 
 Occultdude  20 Nov 2011 22:13
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 there is a difference between seperatism and racism
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 20 Nov 2011 22:15
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Love is blind.
 
 kns9395  16 Nov 2011 20:48
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As a white girl dating an Indian man, we get stared at all the time, It's the only time I even think about the fact we are different and...I really don't care if people see our colour rather than the love we have for each other then thats their issue, everyone is entitled to their opinion I supose and I am happy for people to share disaproval

people will always be nosey, I'm nosey myself i love looking at people who are doing things differently as long as it's not hostile it shouldn't be a problem
 
 nemomonopo  25 Oct 2011 07:12
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Couldnt agree more!!!
 
 brontsta  13 Jul 2011 00:03
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They should have the option to date each other if that's what you meant, if you meant that they have to date someone of the oppisite race, than no.
 
 hasdass  05 Mar 2011 08:27
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I think the phrasing of this debate isn't as clear as it should be, but if you mean that people of different races should be able to have relationships- then I agree completely. Racial discrimination is taken to stupid extremes nowadays, if two people are attracted to eachother then they have every right to be together regardless of their race. We're all human aren't we?
 
 Octopus212  01 Nov 2010 13:03
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I'd rather be with the opposite skin ;P
 
 bellatfrz  13 May 2010 22:27
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For show.
 
 Zamiel  06 May 2010 04:23
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It reallly dpends,it can be a gd thing or bad thing as gd thing can be learning about each other culture but the bad thing is there may be conflicts
 
 Power_Khan  01 Mar 2010 14:58
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I rather be with the opposite race.
 
 ehiggins  19 Jan 2010 01:00
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Love is important.
 
 gamenut  08 Jan 2010 04:48
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It's called freedom of choice and I totally agree with it.
 
 menhim1967  24 Aug 2009 00:42
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They look different, and sometimes better. We're all people (with the exception of Neo-Nazis).
 
 RoboHippo  03 May 2009 20:55
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We have no say in it it is up to those people
 
 shipp  08 Apr 2009 19:21
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You can not help who you love. Color has nothing to do with it.
 
 jaykaywy  03 Mar 2009 04:55
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The outside of humans are just shells what you are really spending time with is their soul.
 
 charliroi  14 Feb 2009 01:00
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They can if they want to, but some people like the color of their own self, and like to date those with whom they have the same color of skin as because they think they look good. Just as their preference, not racially discriminative or anything like that. Just their own taste in appearance.

I do not think it is WRONG to date outside one's own race.
I just think that it is all about individual preference.
 
 AssetParis  06 Feb 2009 22:51
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Love is love and I don't think anything should let two consenting adults stop them from being together. I don't see how race would even be a problem in a relationship.
 
 kddan  08 Oct 2008 13:21
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Love is love me friend.
 
 imright20  03 Oct 2008 00:58
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 do it if you want to.
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 08 Oct 2008 00:46
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They are aloud to and they do but should is not the right word
 
 tunainabun  27 Sep 2008 20:57
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You can't help who you fall in love with, regardless of their ethnic origin/colour WHATEVER. I really can't stand people who are against interracial dating/marriage etc. It's completely and utterly racist.
 
 nchx  27 Sep 2008 20:23
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 then maybe u should seat them
by  Smito
 27 Sep 2008 20:24
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Yes i'm for it
 
 chevel54  18 Sep 2008 02:34
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As long as you love each other. Go for it.
 
 Natorian  31 Aug 2008 02:41
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I think it's definitely acceptable.
 
 Balance_92  16 Aug 2008 20:43
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If that is who you are attracted to, then it is perfectly acceptable.
What one finds attractive or desirable to them is what one should select in a person.

I have never been attracted to a person of some other race ethnically then what I myself am, but I think of it conceptually as quite okay and just fine and dandy for whomever wishes it so to be.

For me? It might be different than someone else's requirements to be attractive. It seems like there are a variety of fetishes or whatever it is that seems exciting to someone, in that way, attractive......
I am not attracted to dark skin, and never have been. But it is not out of racism, because I find black persons to be more technically beautiful than many Caucasians to be. There are ALOT of characteristics I find unappealing, sexually. Mostly, in personality or character, but on the outside as well. That is not to say I COULDNT be sexual with a black man. Just that I never have before met anyone like that I wanted that way.
If I met a black man who had every single interior-traits like warmth, humour, kindness, understanding, loyalty, faith, intelligence,........etc etc and well, you know? Maybe so.

I am a natural blonde haired person, very light very fair, very pale blue eyes Scandinavian-American person.
I have never been attracted to blond men either....so.......;-)
Or short men:-( I am short.............. Opposites attract.

I do not have a liking for redheaded men either, or Asians, or Hispanics in a sexual way or just their appearance, that is.

I did have an attraction to a Jewish/Israeli one time. He was hot.
Greek men are very good-looking. I adore black hair and milk-white skin, and tall.;-)

All that to say, it is all a subjective, personal thing. Not racial.
 
 Scorpion  14 Jul 2008 19:52
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People should do what they want and everyone else should shut up and mind there own business. My god parents were a mixed couple back when you didn’t do that sort of thing. Now they’ve been together almost 40 years and are pillars of the community and one of the most genuine and functional marriages I know.
 
 finsch  07 Jul 2008 17:04
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 exactly so, Finsch.
by  Scorpion
 16 Aug 2008 20:59
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How does the color of one's skin change how they feel love?
 
 boy2girl31  01 Jul 2008 06:12
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Um there is something terribly wrong with it. There is a reason why there are different races. Why would someone think it was okay to dirty their races blood with another? "KEEP YOUR BLOOD PURE, IT IS NOT JUST YOURS. IT COMES FROM AFAR AND FLOATS A LONG WAY. KEEP THE VESSEL OF YOUR IMMORTALITY PURE". This means your blood was once your ancestors and will be your decendents blood too. It is selfish to decide someone else's fate. Remember your children will have to live with your decision.
 
 heide97  20 Nov 2011 21:48
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 This is quite a senseless argument. This is human-human breeding. Nobody gives a f*ck about your ancestral heritage.
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 20 Nov 2011 21:57
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I dont think there is anything wrong with it but i don't think people have to ....
 
 AllRebekah  04 Aug 2010 12:49
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Anyone that says that doesn't eat oreo cookies.
 
 cannibal  12 Jun 2009 01:56
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 I love oreo cookies... plus this doesn't have anything to do with the debate.
by  DdAWg
 04 Mar 2010 23:26
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"should" is not the correct term. People "should" not need to do that if they don't want to.
 
 Dustin0550  11 Apr 2009 02:26
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No no no no no ! There is a reason why we was all made a different race! Not so we can go make another! By mixing races its just not right
 
 roadrunner  27 Jan 2009 02:47
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 You are not right about this
by  ehiggins
 19 Jan 2010 00:52
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SHOULD?
I don't disagree with that but what if you didn't date a guy/girl of different race?
 
 sah01  29 Sep 2008 23:14
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 do it if you want to.
by  Scorpion
 08 Oct 2008 00:46
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Well I think "should" is the wrong word, but there's definitely nothing wrong with interracial dating.

In fact, my definition of utopia is a world where there is only one skin color and language, so there is nothing to fear from the unknown, which is the source of all bigotry and racism.

Maybe it will happen after 90% of us die out, while the remaining 10% all go to the last habitable place on earth, interbreeding the races and mingling their cultures and languages into one.

Diversity is overrated when compared to peace on earth.

One can hope,

But I digress.
 
 grokit  31 Aug 2008 20:02
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Well if the two aren't intelligent enough to figure out hey it doesn't matter if people talk or not then i say they shouldn't date. If they are willing to deal with the idiots around them talking then i say go at it. Obviously they don't love each other if they are not willing to go through the stereotypes of people.
 
 Smito  07 Jul 2008 17:07
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NOOO!!!!! We don't need
Dx
 
 emokid832  07 Jul 2008 10:02
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NO WAY!!!!! Soon, if we keep mixing races, whites will be the minority!!!!! That is thee last thing we need!!!!
 
 mysisrox  09 May 2008 22:38
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 Yes, and, go on, we're all listening...?
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 09 May 2008 22:40
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Just don't agree mixing is a good idea but guess you gotta be in the situation.
 
 blazer1968  06 May 2008 23:16
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If this keeps happening everyone will eventually be the same color. How boring.
 
 Teachdirt  13 Apr 2008 05:18
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 Not necessarily.

There's too much genetic variation in the world for that to happen anytime in the forseeable future (we're probably going to start manufacturing skin colors and having purple people before the races homogenize). What will likely happen is we'll end up with a continueum, where the races fade into each other (we have that now, with people who are half one race, half another, but it isn't common).

We'd actually end up with more races because of all the combinations that can be made (half white, half asian; half asian, half black; half black, half hispanic; half hispanic, half white; for a few examples, plus all the three quarters this, one quarter that mixes, or the half this, one quarter that, and one quarter something else, etc.).

There'd still be enough people having kids with their own race that the original races wouldn't die off, too.
by  FoxFire
 16 May 2008 23:16
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No it is not right because when ricky bobby got in that accident he was in fact on fire.

Now just because black people are less handsome it doesn't mean they are not ugly

i mean there is a someone for everyone but not a perfect someone for everyone

i recommend dating Asians because their eyes are smarter then us.
 
 taffy4jc  09 Feb 2008 05:07
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 WTF??? hid made no sense! black people are less handsome? its funny how you think so yet all the while people are aspiring to be like us! s get their bottoms and li[s injected to look like ours and they tan to be our color and furthermore they listen to us, talk, walk, dress, and act like us?! explain that
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 08 Mar 2008 23:47
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People should be able to express their love for one another regardless of race and culture. Most Americans today are involved in interracial or intercultural relationships and I see them expressing their love all the time just like normal people. Educated people are not racist and will not worry about what other people think. They will express their love for their partner no matter where they are or who is looking at them. Only a jealous idiot would make racist remarks about someone Else's relationship. I think that it is great that people find love outside of their own race and culture. We are people and we deserved to be treated as such.
 
 Flash  25 Jan 2008 19:28
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 Interesting you said the opposite on a very similar post. hmmmmm....
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 29 Jan 2008 13:23
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As a minority citizen, almost ALL of my friends are a different race than me. I have barely a handful of friends the same ethnicity as me, but I get along with everyone else perfectly. Relationships have worked out, and the matter of "cultural differences" barely plays a role.
 
 Dhaopac  25 Jan 2008 06:04
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How can they not show love?? Almost 48% of Americans are dating outside there race! Are you saying that they don't love each other??
 
 timmercj  25 Jan 2008 03:00
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Love is love no matter what.
Age, race, religion, or nationality.
Period
 
 CrowXLove  24 Jan 2008 20:59
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 I meant to put this in the thumbs up. How do I move it?
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 24 Jan 2008 21:09
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