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People Would Look At You Differently If You Hang Out With Weird People
When I hang out with people that I consider "weird", I feel that people think I'm weird too, what is your opinion?
 taffy4jc  12 Feb 2008 22:31
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Yes defiantly. Espeacily at school.
 
 higack  25 May 2008 23:37
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Your thoughts and actions are very often influenced by the people who you spend time with. Isn’t that obvious to everyone? It just seems like a no-brainer to me.
 
 momof3  25 May 2008 23:29
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I used to hang out with weird people now I'm considered weird even when I'm not with them.. Even now when I've fallen out with them
 
 kitten  06 May 2008 21:51
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I agree. I also hang out with unique and out-of-the-ordinary people. People do judge based on appearance, like it or not, and it does have a lot to do with who you hang out with. It's not RIGHT, and once we stop judging each other we'll be a lot happier. People still do it, of course, there's nothing you can do about that.
 
 veggiefry  28 Mar 2008 01:06
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It is a proven fact that people without knowing the truth tends to have a reasonless notion in their mind about some one else when they see them mingling with others who are so called weird. From the other aspect we can also say that when someone becomes friend to other then there must be some similarity with them otherwise they wouldn’t have been close to each other for friendship. But this does no way mean that they both are alike and if one of them is weird it is not necessary that the other one would be weird too. May be there are a few things common in them but at the same time it may happen that also there can be many differences in them. So if you mingle with weird people that does not make you weird but people will surely look at you differently.
 
 sudipa  10 Mar 2008 04:03
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Sadly yes people are to judgmental these days.
 
 vgking13  07 Mar 2008 04:22
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It is a sad fact that people do look at you differently when you hang out with weird people. I have seen it many times through school and work. If you hang out with the weird people, you are considered weird and are incapable of building a friendship with anyone but the weird person thereafter.
 
 suzy  23 Feb 2008 05:21
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My mom goes on about how I hang out with "Wired" people and I know a lot of people think I'm not the most stable person because of it. I don't care though because they are my friends. But People are quick to make judgment, Should they? No but It is the human nature to.
 
 SunSparkle  23 Feb 2008 03:47
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I am weird, myself, and happy to be different from most in many ways. People look at mere appearances overwhelmingly and that means people are overwhelmingly shallow- skin deep.
 
 Stranger  19 Feb 2008 22:12
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I am not for people thinking you're weird, but I do agree with you, so that's why I'm in the for column.

People will think what they want to think, and if you start changing who you are to try to please them, you'll never stop, and you'll never please them.

Be who you are and hang out with who interests you. Don't worry about what you believe other people are thinking. You might be wrong anyway. Good luck.
 
 fngrbng420  16 Feb 2008 18:04
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Rudyard Kipling made this observation, "If you run with the wolves, you die with the wolves". First impressions are important. If the observer has experience with the group, the first impression will result from that. Experience, for good or bad. You may not have the opportunity to express your justification for being "with" the group until you create distance from the group. Good Luck ... Sincerely.
 
 Hobo64  13 Feb 2008 13:53
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Define weird no 2 people are the same so we are all weird and therefore it should not be an issue.
 
 boy2girl31  30 Jun 2008 21:42
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Not everyone considers the same kind of people weird. For instance they might
see the weirdo's as normal and find you to be the odd one out.
 
 Bacchus  29 Apr 2008 17:13
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I say try to hang out with the "weirdos" because they are the most original and interesting individuals and you might learn something. You should not worry about what mainstream society thinks because most of them are boring anyway...
 
 BLINK182  27 Apr 2008 07:09
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No one is "weird," there is no "norm." If you really feel this way, you are judgemental, stay away from these "weird" people. But remember the weirdest people, are usually the ones who do well at work, or school. They stick out.
 
 baconbust  15 Feb 2008 19:44
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 I agree, "weird" isn't the right word - perhaps these individuals just stand out because they are unique, because they are individual. And yes, these people can certainly be the most interesting, and pleasant to talk to and get along with.
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 15 Feb 2008 19:50
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There's only one answer to this question and that's HECK NO!! But they probably will anyway, because they're stupid, judgemental, and probably ugly.
 
 M_Power  13 Feb 2008 03:21
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People should look at you for who you are. If you are already weird, then they will look at you like you are weird regardless of who you hang out with. However, no matter how people look at you, you should always be proud of who you are. You were created in God's eyes. He does not make mistakes. You are a perfect figure of His creation. So, be proud of who you are and don't worry about what others think. If they think you are weird, then they feel bad about themselves and are probably jealous of you. You are so awesome that you got their attention and all they can say is negative things about you. It seems like they are the ones with the problems, not you.
 
 Flash  13 Feb 2008 00:32
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 hey, thanks, that's a good response. I believe that God is the only one that i should care about how He veiws me. I just kinda care sometimes, because I'm trying to befriend the "weird" group so that they feel loved, but I just hate it if someone looks at me thinking that I'm the "weird" one. You're right though, people will probably always look at me however they want.
by  taffy4jc
 13 Feb 2008 16:56
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Should they? No, probably not. Will they? Most likely. That's the simple reality in society, you are going to be judged by how you look, how you act and the company you keep, whether it should happen or not.

Therefore, if you care how you are viewed, you need to deal with the reality, even if it's not fair.
 
 Cephus  13 Feb 2008 00:07
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