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A Man Should Be Able To Buy A Dress Without Getting Funny Looks
When a man goes into a store and buys a dress why should he be subjected to being looked at as weird by the salespeople.
 boy2girl31  01 Jul 2008 18:37
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I like seeing men in womens clothing.
 
 Kateland  14 Feb 2010 06:24
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As long as they are not trying on the dress
 
 clumzi  03 Jan 2010 02:20
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 Are you saying that if a guy wants to try on the dress the salesperson should be acting like the person is weird? I think that is just going to result in losing a sale and the salespersons commission.
by  boy2girl31
 19 Jan 2010 07:58
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Most people look at guys weird when they do this because it is, in a way, kind of comical. However I think its completely normal and that many people over-react on this.
 
 Cemetary  19 Nov 2009 17:24
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If they are buying for a female (like as a gift) that is fine. For himself, well, that's a different matter...

I believe that guy should wear guy clothes, not girly stuff.
 
 Spartan33  07 Mar 2009 01:46
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 for what they buy for the girl that is :-P
by  jalapenos
 07 Mar 2009 22:40
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Anyone (male or female) should be able to go into a store and buy any kind of clothing they want. I use to buy my ex-wife tampons, pads, panties, pantyhose, teddies, make-up, etc.. And there were many times I received funny looks or heard giggles behind my back.
 
 chance101  04 Feb 2009 08:10
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It doesn't matter who's buying what. A man could buy a dress, and many people may perceive it was oh dang hide he's a crosser. He may be buying it for someone. Exactly the looks I got when I went into wal mart and got some boxers for my brother for Christmas. I believe that money is money, what they do with it is their decision, and sales people should butt out. They're getting paid to ring in items, not question the person about the items being rung in.
 
 yaddayadda  09 Sep 2008 22:56
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 i agree completely and wish they would let ppl do as they want
by  boy2girl31
 30 Sep 2008 22:25
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I think a man should be able to buy a dress without having funny looks brought upon him...i guess its really just his choice and everyone should try to except it...or at least pretend....and not make it into a bigger deal than they already think it is...its their cash....and its lets say the same cash...that a woman would cough out.....
 
 Preppyboi4  13 Jul 2008 02:04
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Well it’s certainly unprofessional as well as rude. Two things a salesperson should never be. If this occurs to you, I suggest you clearly but calmly express your disappointment at his unprofessional attitude and tell him you will be taking your business elsewhere. It seems the most likely way to effect a positive change the next time that particular salesperson is in a similar situation.
 
 finsch  03 Jul 2008 14:52
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A professional salesperson or store clerk should not give males who buy women's clothing for whatever reason strange looks. It's really none of their business what customers choose to buy and instead of showing their surprise or disapproval, they should just stick to working the till. I have bought women's clothing and accessories in the past for girlfriends, my sister and family members, and I think that this is entirely normal.

Recently, however, I had a little experience at a DM drugstore in Berlin. My aunt and cousin asked me to buy them various make-up products and mascara. I felt a bit self-conscious about this, realizing that I might get looks, so when I asked a female clerk to help me find the products that were on my list, I felt it necessary to tell her straight off that it was for my aunt. She sort of smirked a bit, and gave me that "I know what's really going on" look.
 
 mackenzie  03 Jul 2008 14:10
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I'm saying yes only because I agree you are fully in your right to buy clothes normally for the other gender. And you should not be harassed or treated poorly in any way.

My other comment though is society is pretty tough place regardless of the gender issue. I'm a guy and I could go pick out some mens' clothes and still get the stink eye from someone either because they don't like the clothes I'm looking at or they simply don't like me. And it's not illegal to give or get the stink eye, just very rude.
 
 Grenache  02 Jul 2008 18:34
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My money is just as green as some woman's who would buy it so don't give me those looks.
 
 boy2girl31  01 Jul 2008 18:41
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 How does one know they are being looked upon as wierd? Surprised maybe! But not wierd! Hey man we're living in the 21st century, go back to Robin Hood days THEY WORE SKIRTS AND GREEN TIGHTS IN THOSE DAYS TOO!!
by  joe9
 01 Jul 2008 18:58
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They can if they want to, and no one should try to stop them, but is is pretty weird.

I'd say that it merits a quizzical look.
 
 RoboHippo  16 May 2009 08:15
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Depends, witch store is it, and are you buying it for a girl?
 
 lollypop  26 Jul 2008 22:22
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 What does whom you are buying for have anything to do with the courtesy level of the salesperson. BTW it was for me.
by  boy2girl31
 27 Jul 2008 06:14
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Dresses are culturally female attire.
I am female and hate dresses, only wear jeans.

But culturally, dress is still woman.
 
 Scorpion  15 Jul 2008 00:26
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I buy women's clothing all the time! That's because I need to. I very rarely get any weird looks or comments, but on those rare occasions that I do, I let them know I am not in the least bit embarrassed. Try it-it works, and ruins all their fun. Full disclosure: I am a male to female transexual, not a crossdresser, so I do a lot of my shopping as a woman anyway. But the same holds true-when someone reads me, I let them know I am not at all worried about it. I'm happy and secure with who I am. If you are, people tend to leave you alone. Oh, darn! I meant to put this comment on the other side! Lol I'm sorry, boy2girl31
 
 Melissa_A  01 Jul 2008 20:54
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 My point was that it is not right for the sales people to give you those looks. I realize that expecting it to change is a bit foolhardy but with time it can be done.
by  boy2girl31
 02 Jul 2008 06:35
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He shouldn't be, but he will. I know technically I am for, but I wanted to show that I think this will never happen. The reason for this is that cross-dressers are weird. I'm not saying I have anything against them, I'm a huge liberal, but the vast majority of people are not cross-dressers, so it is natural if unfortunate that people are surprised and so on by them.
 
 Quincel  01 Jul 2008 18:44
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 By your logic the majority of people are not hispanic so should we give them all strange looks? I do understand your point just felt the need to razz ya cause the logic is faulty even though it is true, but I buy dresses when I completely and totally look like a man not a crossdresser and get looks then as well.
by  boy2girl31
 01 Jul 2008 18:51
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