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Sex Too Soon Destroys Relationship.
Man pulls away woman asks if he still respects her (of course he doesn't). Man kept saying he loved her before the sex, afterwards never called again.
 Scorpion  15 Aug 2008 20:09
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Yeah the trouble is that you can't put the toothpaste back inside the tube.
So it is better to wait.
If a couple become friends first they will each know when the appropriate time is I think.;-)
 
 keepmindok  05 Sep 2008 17:13
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I'd have to agree with you on that remark. I'd say it was all about timing. There's sex, and there is Love, and then sex, the two are quite different. One form is just plain old lust, which when satisfied leaves nothing to be desired, and the other is a build up of a mutual respect for each other, and a long lasting desire for a complete and fulfilling intimate relationship between two loving partners. A longing and lasting desire for each others body can last a life time, when intimacy is completely and satisfactorily fulfilled successfully. However, waiting until a relationship is fully developed can be loads more fun thinking about when it will happen, and what it will actually be like. If you can find that special person? The longer you wait the better it will be...;-) The mind and your own imagination can work wonders during the waiting period. It's gotta be worth the wait, otherwise you are just going round in circles...;-)
 
 joe9  05 Sep 2008 16:46
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 Okay then, my future husband, Joe9.....we wait ;-)
by  Scorpion
 05 Sep 2008 18:33
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Seems like this same topic was on here three different ways. Ditto what I said on the others, but the only saving grace to this heading is it includes the "too soon" qualifier and so I'd say, by definition, if you did it "too soon" it must have been bad for that particular relationship. BUT, that's not the same as saying you have to wait until you're married. It means you have to wait until that particular unique relationship is at the right stage to decide whether or not to start having sex. It could be 6 months is too soon, or it could also be the 2nd date is NOT too soon, depends on the relationship.
 
 Grenache  15 Aug 2008 21:58
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I agree it totally ruins you after you've done it
that's why its better to wait
 
 myusername  15 Aug 2008 20:11
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