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Agreed. Sex should be between one man, and one woman, in wedlock.
I'm waiting. |
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The happiest couples I know are the ones that wait for marriage. I'm not just saying that either.
It's true. |
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I agree, because you would lose all respect for yourself and the one you did it with |
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Whether you're religious or not, studies are pretty definitive that the couples who report to have
the best sex and to climax most often are middle-aged married couples. If you're not religious, sex
before marriage is not bad. But sex within marriage is freaking awesome, so why not wait to have it
even better? |
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Let's keep it real simple. There is absolute evidence that the cause of today's marriage breakups
is the sexual revolution. That is, when one looks at the data about frequency of premarital,
intermarital, intramarital, and extramarital sexual relations starting in the '60's it directly
correlates with the increasing divorce rates. There are many reasons for this, but it is fact.
Perhaps the best reason, for sex only in marriage, is that if you don't, you will never know what
the best sex is like. |
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Like all things that are meant to be enduring marriage needs a solid foundation. If a couple were to
become friends first get married second then have sex there would be more successful marriages. Mark
my word. |
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Sex before marriage is so common these days that people have forgotten the whole meaning of the act
of sex. It isn't just to do randomly and it isn't for when you "think" your in love. It is something
that you value and treasure for your husband/wife. It is something that you are supposed to wait for
a lifetime commitment before you engage in it. Even people that are engaged shouldn't have sex, an
engagement can be broken. Then the value of the act has gone down for the person that you will
marry. |
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Edit: WRONG SIDE
But sex before marriage is neither good nor bad; it depends on the circumstances. |
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This is one of technical things.
I think that no one should engage in sexual activity without marriage. That is the theory, and in
theory I absolutely agree.
In practice? Unfortunately, many people do engage in sexual activity that they have no business
engaging in.
It is disrespectful to one's own body to have sex without monogamy and commitment.
Unfortunately, in practice, it happens.
Reality versus Ideality. |
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I'm against it unless you are in LOVE!! Sex with the person you Love, and are going to marry is
probably one of the best physical, and mental stimulating things in the world, as long as you want
to please him, and he wants to please you, learning about how too, is even better! |
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What if, you marry someone and then they are not that good at sex? |
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There is nothing wrong with sex before marriage. In fact, I would be in favor of sex before marriage
instead of sex after marriage. It is almost a fairy tale when you hear about couples waiting before
they are married, and then when they do get married they have the best sex of their life. Most
couples don't work out this way. I am not dependent upon sex, but I think that a physical attraction
in the bedroom is a good portion of a healthy relationship. If my girlfriend and I weren't sexually
compatible, we'd still be happy, but we'd long for that compatibility, which would cause an
uneasyness between us. I'm just glad that she is the woman I am going to marry and we are completely
compatible in every way. Sure, we could have waited and we would have been fine, but what if we
weren't? |
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Sex is a very important part of marriage...you need to make sure you can actually do it an be happy.
A women actually ended up being allergic to her husband's sperm and they divorced. Condoms are
just....not fun... |
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I’m in favor of the concept, but the word “marriage” should be replaced with the term
“responsibility” in my opinion. I believe responsibility is far more important when concerning
such an issue than just a simple legal ceremony joining two spouses. Keep in mind that you can get
married and still be one of the most irresponsible people in the world. Marriage doesn't
automatically make a person responsible in any way. |
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Sex before LOVE isn't a good thing.
Some people think that if they have sex they must be so mature and in true love (young women
especially). It only takes 1 of 2 to make the relationship wait until marriage (sex is consensual).
If the person really does care for the other they should put up with the "no sex until marriage
idea". You have the rest of your life to do it. Don't act like this 1-2 years has to be dedicated to
the horizontal mambo. Everyone see’s sex differently, but if your partner want to wait you will
wait if you really care about them. Plus, that night is going to be AWESUME!! |
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What on earth is wrong with sex before marriage. Nothing, if you are in a loving relationship your
not gonna lose any respect for a a person if you have sex with them, that's just stupid. People who
are not virgins when married are no different than people who are virgins when married. |
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It does depend on the maturity of both of the people in the relationship.If the guy does backdown if
the girl gets pregnant then maybe you should not have gone with that kind of guy,if he does have a
bad reputation,or apparently he is not a real man.If you want to have a good relationship with
someone,and if you might get pregnant,and want the guy to take care of his baby,then maybe,just
maybe you ,make sure that you choose someone that is a REAL MAN! Here is an even better idea,go on
the pill,and use a condom,then maybe it will prevent pregnancy,and also make sure that you have a
job,before you start to go have sex,so you will be able to take care of your baby. Smart idea,right. |
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If it isn't a good thing then a lot of people are "bad" people. Stop being childish and have sex.
Its fun, i promise. :) |
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IT COMES DOWN TO THE MATURITY OF THE PEOPLE HAVING SEX. Sex and pregnancy have potentially serious
consequences. If the people involved know what they're doing and are prepared for the consequences
then it doesn't matter if they're married or not. Frankly half the married couples I know also lack
the maturity to be doing it either.
I'll also add that ideally you'd be having sex with the person you married for the rest of your life
so it's actually good for mate selection if you already know what sort of sex you're going to be
getting. Frankly a bad sex life is the 2nd leading reason marriages fail (the 1st being money
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