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Sex Before Marriage Is Not Worth.
Most people regret it later on, is it really worth? If you don't even love each other and the girl gets pregnate, then what?
 melisiwa  11 Mar 2008 01:22
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When asked, do you have any plans to marry? The girl says "it is up to him" it is pretty obvious it may never happen. And if it does it has a hope in hell of lasting very long.
 
 keepmindok  18 Feb 2009 13:16
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It's not worth it at all. A lot of it is just lust, and has no meaning to it. Not to mention that pre-marital sex can lead to STD's, unwanted pregnancies, and can build emotional baggage.
 
 webman1200  11 Oct 2008 19:26
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Do it with your eternal companion not some kid in your class....my religion believes that we should do it after were married not playing it every night singly
 
 hb_26  29 Jul 2008 03:37
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Sex is fantastic with the right person. The right person will love you first before going to bed: Marriage first is nice, even best, but if you cannot live up to that, then at least make sure they LOVE YOU.

Sex is the most meaningful exchange between humans.
 
 Scorpion  16 Jul 2008 22:53
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Sex has nothing to do with love its just for pleasure and half the teenage population will have sex before they are married so?
 
 Katie92  20 Apr 2008 01:18
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Why is it that most people think marriage is the "security blanket" everyone needs to wait for before having sex? Does marriage somehow magically commit the two people together for eternity to the point where neither can ever leave the other, even if they have children and aren’t ready for the responsibility? No. The bottom line is, you can be married and still not be ready to have sex or take responsibility for the consequences of doing so. Having sex after you’re married can still be just as big of a problem as having sex before you’re married. Marriage isn’t the final say so in whether or not people should have sex, responsibility is.
 
 Hizashi  18 Apr 2008 04:10
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Sex has nothing to do with love sex is just for pleasure.
 
 crossout  16 Apr 2008 12:26
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 sex is not only for pleasure but also for love.
by  Addicus
 06 May 2008 17:05
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I am not of the belief that one must necessarily wait for marriage to have sex, I know couples who have been together for years and have no intention of getting married. Personally I do believe though that before you take the step and jump into bed with someone you should make sure you are ready to be a parent because no form of birth control is 100%
 
 Untoldrose  13 Apr 2008 04:36
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To be very honest towards a relationship we can say that sex is a very integral part in any relationship and it only helps in binding the relationship and makes it stronger. So if a couple who have decided to tie the knot sooner or later and have the commitment towards each other then there is absolutely no harm in having sex before marriage. This will in turn help them to have a healthy sexual life after marriage. Once a person becomes aware of his or her partner’s sexual liking and disliking then it becomes easy for them to reciprocate properly. Though there are people who regret after this but if taken from a practical point of view then there is no need to regret as long as they know that they love each other. It is absolutely not worth regretting when there is true love in a couple.
 
 sudipa  08 Apr 2008 20:43
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I agree with sex before marriage. Two people can be in a loving relationship with a healthy sex life and may not wish to get married. There is nothing wrong with it. Some people may not wish to get tied down. Sex is a part of life so I disagree with everyone having to be married before they do it!
 
 louise23  12 Mar 2008 21:39
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 Well if you make it apart of your life and i don't think that you should make it that way.
by  B_U_G_
 17 Mar 2008 23:30
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Very few people take the institution of marriage seriously any more. I'd love to know the source of your claim that "most people regret it later on". I've never come across anyone who regretted having sex before marriage. In fact, many people no longer get married at all. So, according to your prescription, they would have to go through their whole lives without having sex. Seems a bit harsh. As Cole Porter said, "the things that you're liable to read in the Bible, they ain't necessarily so."
 
 Hidell  12 Mar 2008 08:14
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Sex doesn't need love to be fulfilling.
 
 Damian  12 Mar 2008 00:56
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 no but u should really only have sex if u love the person i think
by  melisiwa
 12 Mar 2008 00:58
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I don't regret having sex, but you shouldn't do it if you're not prepared for the consequences, sex is great and i think that everyone should have a chance to experience it. Just be smart about it, i think the whole morale thing is overrated, if you wanna go out n sex people do it. Don't worry about love because half the people who claim to be in love don't really know what it is
 
 Booshie  11 Mar 2008 23:37
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Sex is great i don't regret a single time. Its fun and at the time you don't have to love someone you can just enjoy the power of the orgasm. And if your smart and wear a condom and a diadam then there is only 00.1% chance of getting pregnant.
 
 muin13  11 Mar 2008 18:29
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 i don't understand how people can screw other people and not be in love with them.
by  melisiwa
 11 Mar 2008 23:06
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Hell yah! It's bomb.
 
 nelson12  11 Mar 2008 02:26
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 yah it's great!
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 11 Mar 2008 17:43
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Sex has nothing to do with love.
It is to be enjoyed and respected.
 
 kontar1  11 Mar 2008 01:43
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 what if they don't love each other and get pregnant?
by  melisiwa
 11 Mar 2008 16:05
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It depends on how much you had to pay for it.
 
 Grenache  17 Jul 2009 16:37
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It can be, it can not be. You have to be careful and do what you feel is right. Saving it until marriage will more likely assure you won't have any regrets, but having it is plain-out fun!
 
 asphyDrake  13 Jul 2008 20:28
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My wife and I both had healthy, happy sex lives before we got married, but after we got married we both felt that we gained very little from it and regretted that our last sexual partner is not also our first.
 
 JRL  13 Jun 2008 23:38
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Sex is about love and pleasure but mostly about love... Would you have sex with someone you hated or disliked?!!!!!
 
 Addicus  06 May 2008 17:07
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 certainly not! that's why they invented divorce courts LOL
by  Scorpion
 13 Aug 2008 21:53
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I don't think that people should have sex before marriage. If more people attended church and had their families go to church, they would know that God frowns upon it. Who wants to live a life of sin? What happens if you have sex as a teenager and get pregnant like a lot of teens are. Then you are stuck raising a kid and either going to school or drop out and get your GED. Plus, adding a job to that to support the child. It is just too much responsibility. Everyone should wait until they are in a serious relationship that you are planningon getting married. You need two incomes and stability to have sex and risk pregnancy.
 
 curious  17 Apr 2008 01:50
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 What century are you living in?
by  ibanex_87
 04 May 2008 13:05
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Part of a loving relationship is sleeping together i think because you get to know each other better, and with the divorce rate so high i think it would be prejudice to relationships. It all depends on the level of commitment a couple have.
 
 Link_pad  24 Mar 2008 18:01
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Sex before marriage should be banned somehow. This is how 13 year olds end up pregnant. There should be a way that women can not be able to have sex until they say "I do". It is so much more special when you share that moment with the man or woman you truly love, instead of giving it up to some lame person who means nothing.
 
 demo  22 Mar 2008 19:59
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I don't think its worth it because all though it brings about immediate gratification later many of the people i know become celibate ir say i could of and i probably should of waited and that's good for you that you are waiting some people are just hard headed
 
 ambercol  11 Mar 2008 14:36
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Hmmm.. I say "Boo" to talking about sex on a thread started by a 13 year old.
 
 Moegreche  11 Mar 2008 02:22
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 I'm saying it bad. just because I'm 13 doesn't make me stupid, unopinionated, or oblivious to the world around me!
by  melisiwa
 26 Apr 2008 23:38
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If people really love each other that's not the way to express it. The outcome of it is not always the best. In the Bible it says to wait for marriage and that is what i plan on doing. Most people regret it and might not even see the person after wards.
 
 melisiwa  11 Mar 2008 01:24
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 that's not true if it's really great you come back for 2nd's!
by  nelson12
 11 Mar 2008 02:42
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