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I have come to the conclusion that love is not real it is just a societal definition for infatuation. The truth is when your bored of the relationship you will eventually leave
 williamsdb  14 Sep 2008 22:10
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I am completely for it love doesnt exist
 
 williamsdb  14 Sep 2008 22:10
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Love does exist. It may at times be one-sided but it does exist. Love develops over a period of time, so if you are in and out of relationships, you haven't given love a chance to grow. It seems as if you have given up on love. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places for love. Remember it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
 
 menhim1967  21 Dec 2008 04:49
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No.

But i can understand your feeling that way.
Someone has disappointed your heart! You are not alone!

I was on my way to becoming very bitter and cynical as opposed to merely skeptical.....and disillusioned about Love,
until I met a man who changed all that for me....:-)

hopefully, this will happen for you as well.

I wish you much luck,

sincerely,

scorpion.
 
 Scorpion  19 Sep 2008 08:08
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Love makes relationships grow stronger
 
 lubster  16 Sep 2008 12:07
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Love is a spiritual union with another person. Some people are not capable of this due to immaturity and or egocentrism. When the happiness of another person becomes more important than your happiness, and this is reciprocated you begin to understand love. When there is a connection between you and another person that rises above lust and other prominent parts of our superficial selves, then you are approaching love. It is one of the things that gives meaning and purpose to life.
 
 innomen  14 Sep 2008 22:48
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Depends how you look at it, how you were brought up, the culture your in, the ideas that you've developed. For example, western culture - lose your virginity before your 20! Having sex is amazing! Divorce if the marriage doesn't work! Etc. Indian culture - find one person and stay with them! Don't have sex until your married! ( and in some Indian cultures ) - marriage lasts forever, divorce isn't an option! Basically some cultures are doomed to the statement you've made. And I'm not being racist, but the majority of white people and black people are like this. White people MORE so.
 
 chow0jason  14 Sep 2008 22:47
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 also some people raised in the western world tend to bounce onto those ideologies....
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 14 Sep 2008 22:48
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Not true.
I have known many people who have stayed their whole lives together.

I have seen may posts on F and A on this very subject.

I concur that there is a reasonable chance that one day we find our perfect match. Maybe even more than once.

It is the ideal match for your own particular personality.

One of the things that is unhelpful to relationships these days, is a reluctance to commitment.

Hear are just a few more things to consider when there is a difference of opinion. Intolerance, selfishness, reluctance to see things from the others point of view, unwillingness to compromise or make allowances for the other.

Love is all those things and more.
 
 keepmindok  14 Sep 2008 22:32
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 Love is more about caring, than what you describe.
by  keepmindok
 16 Sep 2008 13:18
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Excuse me?Love doesn't exist? WHAT THE CRAP.

You guys are freaking retards. You just don't get it do you?

If there wasn't such a thing as love, why would there be babies and marriages and people crying when their loved ones die?its love.
 
 Alexia  14 Sep 2008 22:30
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