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Relationships Are The Biggest Lie Of All.
And by this I don't just mean so called "love" relationships but all relationships that involve other people is just one long knotted string of lies, counter-lies and jockeying for the upper hand. What say you FAA?
 clarkkent  31 Aug 2009 18:36
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Depending on what experience you have of relationships
 
 maugatar  01 Sep 2009 23:14
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Just because you're a cynical loser dosn't mean that the rest of us have to be. If you have problems with ALL the relationships in your life then guesss what? The common element is YOU!
 
 dlmiller82  01 Sep 2009 04:21
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 What's the matter dl did I hit a little too close to where you really live? Is that why you don't debate on any of the topics you just make snide remarks? Perhaps you should get a new dictionary and look up the word cynical then look at your replies again, keep doing that for a couple of months and in about a year you'll make the connection,moron
by  clarkkent
 01 Sep 2009 13:28
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I wouldn't agree that ALL are like that, but I would say that most are.
 
 hodver  31 Aug 2009 20:17
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Guy goes into the doctor and touches his shoulder and says this hurts, then he touches is stomach and knee and foot and head each time remarking this hurts. The doctor examines him for a moment and states, “your wrist is broken.”
Relationships can be very similar. If you are having the same problem with all of them you need to consider the problem is you. Everyone talks about meeting the right people; no one talks about being the right person.
Would you trust you if you knew what you know about yourself?
 
 finsch  31 Aug 2009 19:45
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 yes actually I would, becaue I know who I am and it doesn't change because of the crappy things that happen in life. and more to the point I know "know" what's really in my heart and despite my grumpy days (and they are few and far between), I hold true to who I am, I have yet to come across the significant other that can say the same. but you make a good point bang on.
by  clarkkent
 31 Aug 2009 19:50
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You may be the man of steel but apparently your cryptonite is any and every human relationship.

Nah, not all relationships are lies. Plenty of families and friends and work relationships are healthy and honest (not all but plenty).
 
 Grenache  31 Aug 2009 18:43
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 Healthy? Oh, wine master that's a bad word to use when regarding the interaction of two human beings. I agree that some work and after a fashion some "some" family relations may not be the worse thing in the world, but in all honesty how many family members and co-workers get to know the real person that lies in hearts of man (yes and women). We all have the public face we put on for the sake of society, and the examples you give are flawed in one very important way, with regard to family and co-workers we can with hold those things that would interfere with said relationships at will. Therefore; lie. However, as Stephen King the great sage and eminent junkie once said, if the opposite sex really knew what we were thinking they'd never sleep well again. I"m paraphrasing here.
by  clarkkent
 31 Aug 2009 19:05
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