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Guys Need To Be Honest
OK why in the world do guys say that they love you and that they won't get mad at you over the littlest thing! But they really don't they are just saying that & they cheat on you and try to keep it from you! Well there are bout millions of girls getting hurt every year cause guys are hurting them by lying and more!!!! I think that if you not going to be truthful, and for someone to believe them THEY NEED TO BE HONEST! SOME GUYS THINK IT IS ALL FUN AND GAMES WHEN ITS NOT FUN AND GAMES
 whatever-1  10 Apr 2008 03:56
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Yeah.

That's when he tells you he just wanted your body, and you tell him to go jump in the lake.
 
 sylverwyld  02 Dec 2008 01:00
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As long as you ladies keep falling for it. We will keep doing it. Wise up please.
 
 Specter87  14 Oct 2008 02:36
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Too right my current guy is always telling the truth cause i know when he is lying and then i ask and he breaks down even we are 14 and he tries to act all big and strong when he is already mine and never not gonna be mine
 
 coolgirl  17 Sep 2008 21:42
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Why.
Because you fell for their little white lice.
 
 keepmindok  16 Sep 2008 13:23
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Yes we all jus need to be honest.. Stop lying and cheating all the time.. Then you have to make another lie and then another and lets face it.. Guys are bad at lying that's y they always get caught.. My life is simple.. I'm 33, single with no kids, no baby mamas or daddy drama.. I don't mind dating but its hard with all the guys that lie about the dumbest things. I'm a straight forward woman and when I'm with someone I put it all on the table .. I want to be on the same page so no one gets hurt. If they want to sleep with me then move on.. Than that's the end of that discussion.. I don't mind being with someone but they have to tell me what they think about it and if they wanna be with other girls at the same time, well i tell them i don't have time for all that because it always causes some drama.. What happens is that if I'm jus with them.. They grow to want to be with me more.. But if they're serious about jus having a one night stand.. That's ok too.. That way no ones feelings are hurt because nobody led anyone on.
 
 shawty  31 Aug 2008 06:31
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I never lied to my girlfriend. It turns out she was cheating on me for five months, with two different guys. In fact, i was too trusting. I think that this goes for both genders. Because she didn't care either.
 
 Natorian  31 Aug 2008 02:20
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I am for this,because it is only right for guys to be honest,and the same goes for women.
 
 Dancer91  13 Aug 2008 20:12
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Honesty, is one of all the most attractive qualities in any human being any time any where.

Dishonesty is a deceitful way of misrepresenting one's self to the opposite sex for mating rituals......monogamous or not.

Be who you are. Let them like it or not.
In the long run, the bigger picture is, if you are not yourself, who then could you be? You must be yourself at all times.
Whoever then loves you? That is the one for you.
 
 Scorpion  14 Jul 2008 19:23
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True, and girls need to be honest too.
 
 bishop  05 May 2008 16:02
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Totally. They don't want us lying to them, they shouldn't lie to us.
 
 im_trumpet  22 Apr 2008 13:28
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I agree, although I think it applies to both people in the relationship. If you don't have honesty, you cannot have trust. I can never understand why people choose to lie to their partner in a relationship. Lying just causes it all to build up and causes even more upset when it eventually comes out, resulting in the relationship being damaged.
 
 louise23  11 Apr 2008 13:13
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I can’t help but think this hostility of yours towards men’s honesty derives from a past experience. Aside from that, I agree. However, you can’t allow one man’s actions to speak for every other man as well. All men are not the same. It’s foolish to judge all men by one man’s behavior.
 
 Hizashi  10 Apr 2008 20:40
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 I can’t help but think this hostility of yours towards men’s honesty derives from a past experience. - i agree, which would make this a fairly dishonest attempt to affirm your own belief. If you were to be honest with yourself you would find that the use of this is not for honest debate, but to use this forum to reconcile an insecurity or fear. Which is okay, because most of the posts here are of that nature.
by  innomen
 10 Apr 2008 21:19
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How about EVERYONE needs to be honest? If you can't tell the truth, you're an inherently worthless individual who doesn't deserve to be with anyone.
 
 Cephus  10 Apr 2008 19:57
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 If i were to spend 10 minutes with you i could prove to you that you are no more honest than everyone else, and no one is honest completely. Honesty starts within yourself, and rarely do we find someone who has a clue about themselves.
by  innomen
 10 Apr 2008 21:13
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Guys need to be honest, but its kind of biased view, not just girls get hurt by men's lies, men get hurt as well! I think if you are in a relationship you need to be faithful to each other!
 
 uberlovely  10 Apr 2008 12:47
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 nothing wrong with MUTUAL FIDELITY, at all. That sounds fair, and right to me too.
by  Mystery
 02 Dec 2008 01:29
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Yes, men lie. So do girls. And when they lie you do not need to go pouting about it; you dump them and move on, because it was a simple mistake and everyone makes mistakes. They were obviously stupid if they thought they could get away with lying, so leave and don't let that person get to you. Simple as that.
 
 bookworm3  02 Dec 2008 01:24
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Then all the lies women tell would be even more obvious if they had no one to
compare to in order to validate there lies.
 
 Bacchus  13 Jun 2008 06:15
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Than women would never date them.
 
 blazer1968  06 May 2008 23:12
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Nahhh! Then I'd have to tell her about the dead hooker, and last time it happened she made me promise not to do it again. How am I supposed to get by in life.
 
 shebasha  10 Apr 2008 21:28
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No one is honest. It is a lie to think that men are more dishonest than women, they are just more stupid about it. Women are far better at manipulation, which is the use of dishonesty in a far more skillful manner.
 
 innomen  10 Apr 2008 13:07
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 lol, kind agree---Women are far better at manipulation!
by  uberlovely
 10 Apr 2008 14:13
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