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It's not right to try and make gay, lesbian or transsexual people think that they should pretend that everything is all right. They have the same rights as everyone else does when it comes to love and having awesome relationships!
 S3cr3t_91  28 Mar 2008 02:01
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Isn't this why our country was begun? So that everyone can have their OWN opinion and not be regulated by someone else's religion? No one care who I date or love only because I am straight. How stupid is that. Love who you want....No one's religious beliefs should alter our country's laws or rules.
 
 hodver  29 Dec 2008 23:31
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As long as it is another consenting adult then whether it is male or female it really doesn't matter, the same or opposite it doesn't matter. People have the right to love whoever they want.
 
 kddan  11 Oct 2008 18:36
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 the topic was not "love" it was "sex".
these, are in and of themselves, not related topics of debate, as we all know one can have either one: love or sex, without any of the other quality being present for either person.
to which item are you implying? sex or, love?

the lady, or the tiger?
by  RagTatter
 11 Oct 2008 18:39
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Love is love. You can't stop it no matter how anyone tries. Making it illegal won't do anything to prevent the love, just the marriage itself.
 
 imright20  06 Oct 2008 22:42
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 how are we to know there is "love" present for the two gays? An effort to make a legal-commitment? Maybe it is not love at all, but a lust to connect to the Ideal of the parent-image of the same sex one was never able to befriend as a child. Like dream-analysis, what seems to be about sex, is not really about sex, but about emptiness, and longing and rejection by a parent, or hero-role-model: the Unattainable, made attainable, by fighting the old battle of childhood one lost, in a new battlefield one can win on as a more powerful, capable being: adult.

Perhaps gay persons of either gender are attempting to make something be fixed that was broken in childhood, using the vehicle of sexual-activity that is really not sexual at all, only an attempt at it.
Since sex, is defined by body-parts that fit together complimentarily: male with female: nuts with bolts, for example.
by  RagTatter
 11 Oct 2008 18:50
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Free choice and anyway you can never force someone to love someone they don't so even if you tried it would still to work they would still love that person
 
 5cantej  04 Jun 2008 20:08
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Why shouldn't they? Love is love.
 
 mastermov  26 May 2008 03:46
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I agree. Everybody has the right to chose whom they like and don't like, who they want to have a relationship with and who they don't. I don't believe anyone has the right to tell someone who they can and can't like. Men and women do not have to be the only kind of relationship there is. There has been guy/guy and girl/girl relationships for ages but it was hidden. There really isn't a big deal. It isn't anyone's life but theirs so let it go.
 
 curious  15 May 2008 20:44
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Definitely. My finger are really tired and no one has replied against this yet so I'm not going to bother attempting to argue my point...
 
 FoxFire  08 May 2008 18:39
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When science has proved that being a gay, lesbian or a transsexual is as normal as being a heterosexual then there is no point making them deprived of all things that life has to offer. They have the right to love who ever they feel like, they have the right to live their life in their own way and they have the right to maintain a committed relationship. They should not be made to pretend that things which are happening to them are all right; rather they should be helped to realize that things are actually happening right to them. After all just by becoming a homosexual they did not commit any sin, rather they are as normal as any other human being. Thus they are no less than anyone of us, just their sexual practice is different and they also can love anyone they feel like.
 
 sudipa  08 Apr 2008 20:47
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 only by first removing the LABELS on homosexuality, and investigating its' mechanism, can you then find its' true meaning and origin and identity.
by  RagTatter
 13 Oct 2008 00:29
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Of course, there shouldn't be anything to question in that. Of course, I'd love to get some serious reasons against it, to see if there are any real ones.
 
 BobLobster  07 Apr 2008 21:17
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Of course they can. No one can stop someone from loving another person, no matter how hard they try. Trying to prevent a gay, lesbian or transsexual person from loving someone is indeed wrong and cannot be done. Even if someone forced two people apart, they would not stop loving each other. Love cannot be stopped.

Everyone has the right to experience love with whoever they want to. It is a big part of life that many people find happiness in and everyone, no matter whether they are gay, lesbian, bisexual or transsexual deserves to experience it with whoever they wish. Trying to stop someone from loving someone of the same sex or of different race is wrong as they are being denied happiness and they shouldn't be deprived of such a great feeling.
 
 louise23  01 Apr 2008 22:28
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Religion, is the biggest perpetrators of bigotry and hate. Anything that they don't agree with or they fear, they spout their vile tirades. Look to the bible and you will see more hate and violence than anywhere else."Smite them, he did smote them down."And then the book tells you to love your brother, sister and your neighbour. Don't do as i do, do as i tell you.Wars, Famineby gods hand. Yeah it's all in there.
 
 SOCRATES  28 Mar 2008 09:52
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There's no way you can possibly stop anyone from loving anyone they want, you can just punish them which is ludicrous in the case of consenting adults. You don't like gay relationships, here's a hint...

DON'T HAVE ONE!
 
 Cephus  28 Mar 2008 06:41
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Absolutely YES. It is time for societies and religions of the world to stop their hatred and their ugly name-calling and defamation of any person who loves someone that they disapprove of. They must quit condemning a person who loves a person of another race or religion or ethnic group or of the same gender. No God approves of hatred but loves each person HE has created. Those who say that they believe in and follow God are the worst of sinners when they condemn the hearts that love according to how He created each person.

The world needs more true heart love; and will benefit greatly when those who hate quit their hatefulness and accept that every person should be accepted regardless of whom is loved by one heart to another. Love is good for the world. God is love, and God approves of all romantic heartfelt love that is what He created in the hearts of all humanity.

There must be a stop to jokes and hatefulness about an older person who loves a younger person, of a black person loving a Caucasian person, a man who is gay loving another gay man, a woman who is lesbian loving another lesbian, a Baptist who loves a Muslin, a Tibetan who loves a British person, a Catholic marrying a Buddhist, a redheaded woman loving a blond headed man, a Swede loving a Japanese, and on and on. Anyone who hates any of these loving relationships does NOT love God nor can ever meet God's requirements for the Heaven that He has created for His children.

Love is beautiful and brings great beauty to lives. Thank God that individuals can and do choose to love differently in spite of what religions and societies think are correct. Let love be. And, let every person love the person who captures his or her loving heart. If this would become reality across the world, the world would be a happier place and wars would cease.
 
 best4write  28 Mar 2008 04:25
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I agree...even though people are starting to accept LGBT people more than 10 years ago...I think that love is love and you shouldn't have to conform to anything someone tells you
 
 zero1again  28 Mar 2008 02:07
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Sex involves two, correct?
Two of what? Human.
Nuts and bolts are mechanical parts and how they relate to one another. Male and female parts inter-relate.

One more point I would like to add to this is, rebellion against the principles of nuts and bolts = male and female persons and their interactions sexually, rebellion, is not the same thing as freedom. Freedom is not doing whatever irresponsible, impracticable things, bizarrely as possible, just because you have the personal power and opportunity to do so, is not indicative that it is either good, right, proper, or desirable. Freedom to act sexually, can be abused against one's wishes: Rape. Or, with consent: Homosexuality.
However, this is not implying that with this consenting activity, that merely upon the basis of consent being involved, that it is either beneficial, desirable for the physical or emotional or spiritual health of the two consenting within the sexual interaction. Even with consent, things are not made desirable to one's well-being, or best interests.......

Consensual activity can still be improperly applied physics.
Improperly applied physics is what homosexuality acts out.

A flaw in the Nurture is the emotional impetus in it.
Family/Parental flawed dynamics brings on the component that drives the homosexual urge from within: Emotional impetus.

What becomes in the flesh must first be born in the mind and in the emotion and in the spirit of mankind. This then, is the origin and the nature and the activity of homosexuality.
 
 RagTatter  11 Oct 2008 18:33
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Sexual relationships are between one man and one woman.
 
 webman1200  11 Oct 2008 18:31
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 this is in agreement with science: the first laws of physics: Opposites Attract, as in an experiment with two magnets: the two similar magnets? = homosexuality? they repel. Against The Laws Of Physical Attraction, in Physics.

Physics, is a wonderful, literally, field of study.
by  RagTatter
 13 Oct 2008 00:32
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No they cant',love is a thing you should be able to do openly and proudly, so since you can't then that means you can't.
 
 Bacchus  08 May 2008 18:43
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 it depends on the situation.....this is not black and white....many shades of gray are involved here...
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 08 May 2008 18:46
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