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Morals Aren't Absolute, And Are A Matter Of Opinion, And Shouldn't Be Used As Proof In Debates
Definition of moral (Oxford Dictionary): Concerned with goodness or badness of human character or behavior, or with the distinction between right and wrong; concerned with accepted rules and standards of human behavior; conforming to accepted standards of human conduct I think that morals are social standards and vary depending on which social group you're a part of. Because social groups are a choice, and how you interpret the rules of a social group is up to you, morals are a matter of opinion, not fact, and shouldn't be used as proof, only to state your position.
 FoxFire  19 May 2008 11:57
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There are exceptions, but as a general rule, morals are worthless in debate
 
 ur_wrong  26 May 2008 03:34
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Cultures decide morals
its to the individual what morals they choose
some morals are widely accepted through multicultures
but not all of them
take the moral that pre-marital sex is wrong
take that moral and place it 100 years in the future... Into modern day
all of a sudden that moral is changed because it IS NOT ABSOLUTE
 
 JackLC  23 May 2008 23:18
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Yes, because there may be one moral, but another moral says the exact opposite of that. I can say that I have no morals whatsoever, and there is no problem with that.
 
 Custommade  23 May 2008 04:10
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Most of you don't seem to be really getting the debate... I'll explain myself more:

Yes, I state my opinion (my morals) (this is to clarify), but I also provided a reason for them, and this topic is really to see who agrees with me, and for me to try to convince people to agree with me.

Basic (aka absolute) morals: Imo, 'basic' morals (things like don't harm innocents, which a lot of people don't seem to have BTW despite it being a so called basic moral, be civil to others, etc) are morals that are pretty much necessary for a society to advance past the most basic of cultures. If you're not polite, often times it's hard to work together effectively, slowing down advancement or halting it altogether. Things like slavery (which is now immoral, though it wasn't originally) have actually been historically shown to hold societies back, removing the need for them to develop more effective ways of doing things (necessary begets invention. When you don't have the need to, let's say, grind grain easier and with little man power since you have so much cheap manpower, then you're not likely to attempt to set up a system where a waterwheel grinds grain [which were actually used in ancient times in a few areas with extremely low slave to not slave percentages but very high populations, that were also nearby rivers and the like]). Crimes against humanity (like harming innocents for amusement, lack of rights, etc) hold back a society by removing incentive, slowing down the free flow of ideas, etc. Also, things like rape weren't originally immoral (unless committed against someone with any power, of course) because women were thought of as property, and unless you didn't happen to 'own' the woman, it was perfectly acceptable to do whatever the hell you wanted.. The idea that things like killing innocents, raping, slavery, restricting rights, etc are immoral is a fairly recent one (in some cases 'recent' can mean relatively recent, as in the last few centuries or even half a millenia, though some morals actually came about in the last few decades or even years.

Most 'basic' morals only became basic recently, people.

And if morals weren't social standards, and were somehow biological, then why are they so subject to change? Why do they vary so much across cultures? Between sub-sub divisions within a culture?

If there's some problem with my words, feel free to point it out and I'll either explain myself further or correct myself (I'm not exactly entirely awake at the moment...)
 
 FoxFire  20 May 2008 00:21
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This is so obviously true that you would think that we have reached a sufficiently advanced stage to make it unnecessary to have a debate about it. Alas, that does not seem to be true.

Even if you accept the premise that our standards for correct moral conduct were and should be prescribed in ancient times by invisible magical beings, it's clear that those rules cover only an extremely limited number of circumstances, leaving a vast sphere of activity not even mentioned in those rules; and that the application of the same rules has varied dramatically over time.

Conduct today that the average Christian engages in routinely could easily have led to being ostracised or murdered in earlier times. How do the cultists justify this? They say that the magical rules are subject to interpretation and that those in earlier periods interpreted them wrongly. Thus, there is a basic contradiction at the heart of their belief system. On the one hand, they say that the rules governing moral conduct have an external source and are eternal; on the other, they say that those rules are subject to interpretation by us and those interpretations vary with time.
 
 Hidell  19 May 2008 20:00
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Yes and no, but at least this side I can get back to disagreeing with Innomen.

Yes morals do tend to change/evolve over time according to the socail group and climate, but I would say that many are absolute, and remain consistent all across the world.
 
 StBalders  19 May 2008 14:40
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 All is right with the world.
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 19 May 2008 14:50
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Your premise that morals aren't absolute may be correct, but your interpretation of morals' cause-and-effect relationship with society is too heavily weighted towards the individual.

The individual cannot interpret the rules of the society; only the society itself can do that. The individual merely chooses whether to follow them.
 
 OzzieMan  29 May 2008 20:28
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This is not something that can be explained in a soundbite, so I won't bother.
 
 Mark  20 May 2008 19:30
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Most of the debates on this site are on moral issues so you can't take morals out of them.
 
 eisenhower  20 May 2008 19:22
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 I wasn't saying they shouldn't be in the debates. I was saying that they shouldn't be used as proof (I posted this because I'm tired of hearing people basically say "it's wrong because it is")

I do believe that they should be mentioned, but only to state and clarify your position, not to say why you have those beliefs. (which are essentially morals)
by  FoxFire
 20 May 2008 21:16
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While many of the morals dictated by society are arbitrary, there are absolutes, without which there would be no debates, no forandagainst.com, no society, and no civilization. For example, killing someone, doing something to them against their will, blackmail, threat, rape, torture, battery, theft, fraud, etc. Beyond that, it is arbitrary. However, even society-dictated lesser morals have a place in personal arguments, faith, culture, decency, art, all that good jazz.
 
 Bangles  20 May 2008 01:46
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 What are these absolutes?

Give me one moral other that is absolute please. (and by absolute I mean every single culture in history has had it). Because I'm not aware of any. (even the whole be civil thing has been ignored at many points in history, or there've been acceptions to the thing about not killing inocents, no battery, no rape, no blackmail, etc)

Please research before stating. The idea of many of our so called absolute morals only became common thought relatively recently, with the human rights movement and all. In the past most people didn't have nearly the same morals we do now.
by  FoxFire
 20 May 2008 21:27
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I'm going to REALLY open a can of worms here....and let's see if it hits the fan. I'm going to pick word out of that definition, that says morals, but in brief....because I really don't want to type forever. Morals are concerned with good/bad character and acceptable behavior for the benefit of the whole social group. NOW IS THAT DEFINITION ACCEPTABLE without getting anal, and talking forever. If so, then if people have defined morals that are necessary to keep the social group HAPPY and HEALTHY, how can those morals ever change without jeopardizing parts of the social group. Now here's where I'm going to piss people off. Example (and I don't mean to offend anyone, please) If homosexual behavior has been deemed immoral in a society because it has been deemed to be an unhealthy act, then how can that moral change? Just because people sue to get their way. Please, name one society that has stood the test of time that ever condoned such behavior, they are ALL gone, NONE, NOT ONE has EVER survived.
 
 stever  20 May 2008 01:26
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 Because that moral was pushed by the Christians, who took everyone else over.

And the 'basic' morals were around long before that. And actually not all societies have 'basic' morals as I said, and some are still pretty advanced (when compared to the past). I was talking generally, and also why most societies nowadays have the same basic morals.

And a lot of societies have been extremely succesful and had a complete lack of what we'd call absolute morals. They didn't last more than a few generations at the most, normally way less, but they were succesful.

The most basic morals are effectively just things like 'be nice' and those help people not rip each other's heads off.

I can't believe the number of people that ignore the number of cultures and societies that have historically lacked so called absolute morals, though....

Actually, there are still societies standing today that condone 'such behavior'. they're rare because the Christians killed off anyone who didn't completely agree with them, of course.

And the Christians, while they didn't have a lot of the absolute morals (or they didn't act like they did on a large scale. I'm talking historically, like Crusades time and Inquisition, not today, btw), did have morals that told them to kill whoever didn't agree with them, making their society and world view the dominate one.

And really, just because a moral has been used for a long time, doesn't mean it's correct. A lot of detrimental morals will stand the test of time. There are a few morals which are pretty much necessary for working together, though (the only ones I can think of are actually extensions of the 'be nice' moral...)
by  FoxFire
 20 May 2008 21:24
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Absolute morals exist. When is it ever right to torture innocent babies for fun. What culture has ever said being a traitor is just fine. When is it right to cheat your friends. If there are no absolute morals who is to say Hitler was wrong and immoral. The only thing one can say is that his only mistake was to lose.

I enjoyed your last sentence---"morals are a matter of opinion and shouldn't be used as proof". Think about it. You are making a moral claim about how others should behave--they shouldn't use morality to make a case in a debate. Is this just the way you are going to behave morally or do you mean your moral rule should apply to others?? This sort of statement is self-refuting. It's like me saying, "All English sentences contain no more than three words".
 
 charlee  19 May 2008 23:42
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 Yes, I'm stating my morals when I say morals are a matter of opinion. I also gave the reason for my morals (did you read the first few sentences?), and the whole point of this topic is to see if anyone agrees with me.

Basic (aka absolute) morals are, in my opinion, morals that most people have because they're necessary for a society to ever advance even so far as having sizable communities. Therefore, they're ingrained in pretty much all even mildly advanced societies. If you don't have the basic morals that say 'be civil', then its very hard to work together and accomplish anything.

Morals do have a reason, which is what should be used as proof. I started this topic because I'm tired of people saying "it's wrong because it is" without ever saying why, or giving the fact that it's wrong because it's immoral for no particular reason other than they think so, or because their religion says it's immoral.

And people can say Hitler is wrong and immoral because everyone except for the Nazi's think that what he did is wrong and immoral, and they have a reason (the number of innocents he killed and the untold millions he hurt physically and/or emotionally, both of which are prohibited by most basic morals)

I state my opinion, yes. I wasn't saying that people shouldn't state their opinion. I also try to prove it, though. I don't use my opinion or the opinion of those who agree with me to prove my point (or I try not to, anyways, and whenever I catch myself not providing enough of an explanation of my opinion, or people think I'm being hypocritical, I generally attempt to further clarify and explain my position, like I am now.) Also, if I do catch myself being hypocritical, I do my best to either define my opinion better so that it isn't hypocritical but still makes sense, or I change my views. (which I have actually done several times in the past, though admittedly not in the past half a year or so, other than on really really minor things)

Make sense?
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 20 May 2008 00:05
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Yeah too many people use morals to excuse their views which otherwise have no foundation. However some debates are based on morals and so the comments have to be based on them also.
 
 calum-r  19 May 2008 20:33
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With out morals there wouldn't be laws
 
 chevyboy  19 May 2008 15:11
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 that isn't what I'm saying. I'm saying that personal morals shouldn't be used to prove arguments, because morals aren't fact, they're opinion. Laws can be used a proof, since laws are morals that everyone in a society is expected to follow.
by  FoxFire
 19 May 2008 23:10
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Even though i agree that morals are opinion and are chosen they do shape everything you believe in, that's how you know right from wrong due to your morals so in that case no one would debate or comment on anything if they couldn't use their own personal definition of right and wrong
 
 ambercol  19 May 2008 14:54
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 that's wasn't what I was arguing. I was saying they shouldn't be used as proof (basically, shouldn't be stated as fact, only to clarify your position)
by  FoxFire
 19 May 2008 23:09
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Morality is not always subjective. Morals that are based on dogma and tradition tend to be, but morals that are based on virtue are not subjective. They are not a matter of opinion, but I'm not sure they can be used as proof of anything either.

There is no proof that morals are the result of social evolution. Morals go against our instinct and often go contrary to the Darwinian model of survival of the fittest, and natural selection. The explanations of morals being a product of a social construct is every bit of a theory as being something of a higher result.
To say that morals are "proof" might be a stretch, but for those who are inclined to believe in a power greater than themselves, it is more evidentiary in the purpose and meaning of man.