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Yes. Men seem to reduce intimacy after marriage.
Goal has been achieved, woman won, so focus on other things?
I do not have the answer to why. Only opinions. I do not know.
Only that I have observed that yes, men DO reduce the Intimacy after getting the woman to marry him
or move in with him. The sex is totally unsatisfying and lousy then, if ever it was good at all, is
not so anymore.
Sex that is reduced to a mere bodily function is nasty, disgusting, degrading, and repulsive.
No woman wants that!!! No one. |
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It’s sometimes true, some men do that. But remember there are many different types of intimacy and
after marriage and as you age what types of intimacy matter to you tend to shift away from the
obvious towards the more subtle, away from the physical and more towards the emotional. At least in
the better relationships, in my opinion. |
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Sometimes it is the woman.;-))
It is even steven's actually. |
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Men do not reduce intimacy, it is women who do. They are not happy with their bodies or the man has
done something that has upset them.... It is definetly the women who change the level of intimacy.
Men want the same level regardless of what is going on. That is the one thing they never have
negative feelings about. |
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Its a stereotype, where, after the honeymoon, they come back and they can't stand the sight of each
other. There are many TV programmes that use this. That may have been, but i think men are becoming
more affectionate, maybe its just me being blind or maybe its the truth.. I don't know |
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The question is difficult as i think intimacy and sex are different.
I think not after marriage as such but after a period of time sexual desire decreases (in women)
towards their partners. However, the need for intimacy and a stronger connection increases.
As for men i think scientifically men and women have different needs sexually. Men generally think
about sex more often than women. They can become aroused more easily. Women need warming up time.
In conclusion the problem lies with both partners. Once the woman has got over that burst of sexual
energy she experiences with a new partner, she becomes less interested in sex. On the other hand,
once a man has "got" the woman he has less need to try to please her or prove to her that he is a
"sex god". As a result the man who is easily aroused expects sex but isn't in tune with the woman's
needs to "warm up" or is unwilling to try to woo the woman.
I think if married couples want to keep their sexlife active they need to try new things, and even
get away on vacation for a while. I think after marriage, or into a long relationship people need to
work harder to keep the fire burning as it were. |
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23 Apr 2008 13:45
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