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Yeah it seems that way to me too. |
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It sure seems that way to me. |
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I think that you are so wrong. I see hot guys with unpretty girls. I think men go more for the un
pretty girl because they feel more secure with them. And they feel like no one is going to try and
steal their girl. |
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OK to start off not all men go for a tall long hair long legged curvy chick that makes any guy drool
most people don't care what they look like they don't care where they from they just care what they
are like on the inside and their personalities not every one is after a trophy or a model girlfriend
or wife I'm not me I'm happy with what i got i like her for her and who she is looks are not a thing
and she likes me in return trust me I'm not the cutest thing in the world and never will be unless i
have lots of cosmetic surgery to make me look that way. Every person has their own like and dislikes
in people if there comes a time i don't get picked by some chick that's fine with me I'll move on
til i myself or someone else finds me. It's not about the looks or what they have it's all about who
they are and whats inside that counts look past the outer shell look inside to what awaits you.. |
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I think it's based upon who you are on the inside. I know I'm not the prettiest, but there is
someone who loves me unconditionally no matter what. And i can honestly say, there are a whole lot
of others that think i am beautiful on the inside. :) |
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I see lots on unpretty girls who always seem to have a boyfriend. |
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Men like looks, sure but so do women. That is not a gender thing.
But men are also looking for a total package in the woman he chooses to love and to have and to hold
from this day forward type of thing......a total package. Including character. |
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Of course men don't just look for beauty in a relationship. We are also looking at your financial
stability, attitude, and respect for your fellow man. Personality is there too. |
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Don't let it worry you too much. At your age most of the boys and girls are shallow and insecure.
Just worry about becoming the person you want to be. Eventually some boys start to turn into men and
other things besides looks become more and more important. |
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Whether a person is "insecure" or not doesn't mean they loose or gain interest in sexually appealing
mates. |
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First of all, there are many unattractive women in relationships. Secondly, looking for someone
based on looks does not make one insecure, it means that they are shallow. A relationship based
solely on looks is not one that is likely to endure. Looks fade. Also, no matter how attractive
one is, if they are ugly on the inside, they turn people against them. Still, it is natural that
there must be some physical attraction when initially meeting someone. I don't think many people
walk into a room, walk up to the ugliest person in there and think that is the person that they want
to get to know and date. That being said, sometimes we meet someone that does not turn heads, yet
after getting to know them, we find them attractive physically because of their attitude. I think
that, if you notice unattractive women with no partner, it is because they lack self esteem and no
one is attracted to someone who is down on themselves. Attitude is very important. Men (women too)
like someone with a sense of self confidence who is comfortable with themselves. I have a very good
friend who is overweight, has not aged well and is rather plain looking, yet she is married and her
husband is actually very attractive. She has something going for her though. She has inner beauty
and she is comfortable with herself. That is what drew them together and what keeps them together.
I think that your debate is inaccurate on many levels. I also think that it is sexist. I know many
women who won't date a guy unless they look good. I personally will not date someone that I have no
attraction to. It is not because I'm shallow. I know there must be chemistry. If I don't feel
that I could see myself having a physical relationship with the guy someday, I do myself and the guy
a favor and move on. |
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08 Mar 2009 17:47
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