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Masturbation IS A Type Of HOMOSEXUALITY
OK here we Go again, If people find pleasure in stimulating themselves as well as being stimulated by themselves they are actively participating in an act of homosexuality.
 Calvin  17 Aug 2008 03:51
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Well, I hate to disagree with the expert on this subject so I'll agree with Calvin.

Sorry Calvin...somebody had to say it.
 
 justsumguy  23 Aug 2008 06:05
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Well, I don't want to be too descriptive but when a person is fondling his own you know what it cannot feel like the opposite sex's you know what. (What part can a guy touch on his own body to remind him of a woman?)

What part of a man feels like a woman? And what part of a woman feels lik a MAN. It is HOMOSEXUALITY.

Think about this for a second.

IF a guy is stimulating himself what does it feel like in his hand? A woman?. What does he say, oh gurl....You feel so good in my hand? Huh.. He is holding a man and it does not feel anything like a woman.

He only thinks about a woman to suppress his shame of actually participating in a homosexual act. (Same goes for a woman)

Homosexuality has nothing to do with Numbers It is all about ORIENTATION. It's all about what you allow your mind to take pleasure in. Self Sex is the Same as Sex with Same Sex
 
 Calvin  17 Aug 2008 04:46
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 Uhh...your butthole might feel like a woman's own, and even that's not homosexual. It all depends on what you stick up there...lol.

I just find it ridiculous that you're basically calling 70% of men homosexuals. Good luck having that one fly. Just to recap, heterosexuality is sexual relations with a man and a woman, while homosexuality is relations with either a man and a man, or a female and a female. You can't call yourself a homosexual because you're having sexual relations with yourself. Find a better term for it and I'll agree to whatever you say. I won't stop masturbating because someone like you is calling me gay.
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 24 Sep 2008 15:07
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I was going to log out and go to sleep. I didn't think there was anything more inane than the last thing I read on here, but people never cease to amaze me. I don't even have the energy to argue with this way of thinking, other than to say that perhaps whoever it is that thinks this is the case, should seek help and perhaps study some psychology for a while. I do not grasp the fact that people can come up with some of this stuff and put it out there for everyone in the world to potentially tell them that they are one of the biggest idiots said person has ever come across. Thing is, Einstein, even toddlers...babies....stimulate themselves when they find that it feels good. If you are uncomfortable with this, I hope you are not sexually active because you have some growing up to do. Also, I would prefer to keep myself satisfied than to pick up a disease that could potentially kill me. I would also like to point out that, by touching yourself and learning what really makes you climax easiest, you are able to guide your partner and, thus not have to live your life sexually frustrated. If you are holding back for fear it makes you a homosexual, rest assured, you may or may not be gay, but pleasuring yourself isn't an indicator. K?
 
 my2cents2u  16 Nov 2008 06:51
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Beyond cretanic debate. Absolutely b.s.
 
 TheMoon  20 Oct 2008 17:58
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No it's not.
 
 Nevermore  20 Oct 2008 02:31
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I don't know about you Calvin, but I cant penetrate myself, and I sure as hell don't try, nor do I do it while thinking about guys so I don't see how that would be considered homosexual
 
 Carlton  29 Sep 2008 20:56
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LOL...this is one of the funniest debates I've heard so far. I am a straight man and I masturbate and have a strong attraction for women, or at least my girlfriend. I don't stare at my penis and masturbate, thinking about how I like to stare in general. First of all, every guy is infatuated with his own johnson, which does not make you gay. Secondly, I usually masturbate to some material like some pictures or a video, or I'll just close my eyes and imagine having sex with my girlfriend. If that's gay, well then I'm a flaming homosexual.
 
 Damien  24 Sep 2008 14:57
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Okay lets be clear here, masturbation is the purest form of self-love a person could ever have in their lives. Does that mean I am homosexual, well being a lesbian lady making love to another womyn and enjoying self-love is two entirely different things. From time to time we all need a release from the tensions of the daily grind, whether it be a nice hot bubble bath, shopping, chatting online, or any other escape it is necessary or the human population will go crazy. I for one do enjoy it immensely, whether I am with my lover or not. I enjoy self-loving on an almost daily basis, and find it very pleasurable. Does that make me more homosexual, I say no, just as a heterosexual masturbates from time to time. If you need to do it then find a quiet comfortable place with or without your favorite toy and pleasure yourself and make love to your own body. Self-love yes, more homosexuality no. It is the natural course of things.
 
 ladyerica  24 Sep 2008 14:48
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Actually, with the explicit definition of homosexuality, you're A LITTLE off. But only a little. Haha Jesus freak. I mean I understand moderate Christians, but this is ridiculous!
 
 asphyDrake  06 Sep 2008 06:40
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OMG, no, Masturbation is not the same as sleeping with another man. In that case everyone, (men & women) are gay. Cause everyone has pleased themselves once. This whole debate is ridiculous.
 
 Natorian  31 Aug 2008 01:28
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Calvin- we agree on many things, but you missed the boat here brother.
 
 Cons_Lies  23 Aug 2008 04:56
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No it is masturbation. Refer to your beloved dictionary once more.
 
 Mosschops  20 Aug 2008 12:34
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I'm going to have to ask what planet is anyone who thinks this living on, and even if it is whats the problem
 
 maugatar  20 Aug 2008 12:30
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What are you talking about? Masturbation is a part of adolescent for most people. As I said before it is very healthy. Most people who do it are straight.
 
 JoeCool  19 Aug 2008 21:41
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Laughable.

First it's an argument of definition (taking homo and sexual literally) and you'll find you almost never win people to your argument side by simply thumping a definition.

Second masturbation has no direct link to wanting some other person of the same sex as yourself to come have sex with you. How can an army of pubescent boys touching themselves to supermodel pictures be gay? (It might only be gay if they were all doing it in front of each other at the same time).

And what's ironic is this claim is usually made as a way to discredit masturbation as a sexually deviant behavior. However, if you take the argument at face value it would mean almost everyone in the world would be homosexual (by definition) so instead of discouraging deviant behavior you'd accomplish putting the whole human race into what many consider an even more deviant behavior. You actual end up degrading all of society instead of being the guardian of morality you think this position entails.
 
 Grenache  18 Aug 2008 20:42
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 Here are some things that should help to clarify my perspective.

Suicide - is Murder - The killing of oneself - even if you had imagined in your mind that you killed someone else.

Talk - People have Conversations to encourage themselves and it is still considered a ligitimate conversation, even if there is nobody there.

Look - People Look at and judge themselves as they do others, even if it is just a mirror they are still looking at themselves. and it's still called judging.

Doing something with or to yourself, doesn't exempt you from the fact that you are still doing the act.

Name one thing that you can legally do to your self that is not legal if you do it to someone else with their consent.

Masturbation is Having Sexual Intercourse with a person of the same sex. It is Simply Homosexuality.
If you are a man You are sexually stimulating a man and are enjoying doing it.
If you are a woman you take pleasure in sexually stimulating a woman.

It is The First and foremost Sign that a person is Homosexual.

And By the way I did not say Homosexuality is wrong. Because I know how to stick to the topic.
by  Calvin
 19 Aug 2008 02:32
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Sexuality is your sexual feelings towards others. Masturbation is...masturbation. In a way, doesn't it just go down to who you're fantasizing about? It's just a normal process, though.
 
 DayBee  18 Aug 2008 10:16
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 Masturbation is Having Sexual Intercourse with a person of the same sex. It is Simply Homosexuality.
If you are a man You are sexually stimulating a man and are enjoying doing it.
If you are a woman you take pleasure in sexually stimulating a woman.

It is The First and foremost Sign that a person is Homosexual.
by  Calvin
 19 Aug 2008 02:47
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Ok I'm guessing this is a debate started by some very young person still not comfortable with sexuality.

There is nothing embarrassing, shameful or wrong about masturbation its quite a normal act that is done by human beings. It has nothing to do with being (or NOT being) homosexual, bi-sexual or hetterosexual (sp?).

Not to mention that pretty much every person in the world who is physically and mentality capability has done, will do or will continue to do masturbation.

Ugly people, fat people, thin people, hell even people who the opposite sex would consider "drop dead gorgeous" -- yep they all masturbate. So picture your favorite super model or actress -- the good bet is on yep they masturbate too.

Finally if someone isn't even comfortable with this subject and they are approaching adulthood they have a long way of maturing to do before they are ready to dealt with full blown sexual relationships IMO.
 
 CallMeRoy  18 Aug 2008 04:34
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It is not a type of homosexuality because it's pleasuring yourself, not anyone else. Even if the thoughts during masturbation, are homosexually orientated it still doesn't make the act itself gay.
 
 Balance_92  17 Aug 2008 16:12
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 exactly, that is what i was trying to say!
by  Scorpion
 17 Aug 2008 18:35
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This is surely the most bogus statement possible.

I can only assure you, Calvin, I am 100% heterosexual, but also monosexual, but definitely in no way lesbian.

I would know, you wouldn't and couldn't.

This is a pathetic attempt at a debate, which is no debate.
 
 Scorpion  17 Aug 2008 07:54
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 and I always think about men, never women, LOL.
by  Scorpion
 17 Aug 2008 07:57
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I think the majority of people think of the opposite sex while doing it. Also homosexuality is when there are TWO members of the same sex.
 
 verum  17 Aug 2008 04:12
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 Well I think the other minority that don't think that way is thinking about themselves and the physical attributes of their specific organs. Same Sex.
by  Calvin
 17 Aug 2008 06:05
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Homosexuality= 2guys or 2 girls being attracted to each other. No not one guy or one girl. Self love is called egotism. What your basically saying is that homo=same aka this person is the same gender as himself and thus is "pleasuring" the same gender. In this case though its homosexuality. Attraction between two of the same sex.
 
 Smito  17 Aug 2008 04:11
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 Wow Smito, you said it correctly....But wait, what are you doing in this column?. You should be on the other side using that same wits to prove this point. I could not have said it better.
But we are not talking about self "Love" we are talking about Self Sex.
They are not the same. You would be implying that all masturbators are egotists.
by  Calvin
 17 Aug 2008 04:40
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