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Everyone in a relationship, man or woman will lust and maybe flirt with others from time to time.
But its not cheating, if these feelings became physical or were acted then it would become cheating. |
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Not the best with numbers are we?
1.Sexual Imaginations- no every man has the right to his mind not really honest but not cheating.
2. Lusting-same as one
3. Flirting- if just for fun and your partner knows that then no. If for other "reasons" and your
partner doesn't know then yes.
4. Yes as you are viewing other woman just to get your sexual high and usually behind the womans
back.
5.Kissing Hand or cheek- out of politeness, hand obviously, then no or if its a old friend and your
wife knows this old friend to and understands your reasons then no. If your walking down the street
and you see some random hot girl and you grab her hand and kiss it then yes.
6.touching- i think this matters more on what you mean by touching.
7. ABSOLUTELY NOT COMPELETLY IDIOTIC or wait there is no 7
8. DuH? |
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It all depends on your definition, and I thought that the most widely used one was, like Grenache
said, only the last two. |
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I'd say only the last two are solidly cheating -- touching (I'm assuming sexually), and oral sex.
Those are both direct physical contact with genitalia. And flirting is a gray area I'll discuss
below.
Imagination can never be cheating, no contact happens and imagination is necessary for human mental
health. Just watching a mainstream movie may trigger imagination of a sexual nature, even
involuntarily, and watching that movie is not cheating.
Lusting is the same reasoning as imagination.
Flirting is not cheating if it's simple superficial friendly interaction. Telling them they have a
nice smile isn't cheating. But talking vividly about their sexy parts, cat calling, and openly
discussing how to get private time together is all cheating.
Pornography is not cheating for the same reasoning as imagination.
Kissing the hand or cheek is social politeness (unless it wasn't welcome, in which case it's sexual
harrassment). Generally it's not cheating.
This was fun, good posted topic.
I'm sure not everyone will agree with me. That's fine. What really matters is that you and the
person you're involved with have a mutually agreed upon parameter for what counts for cheating. If
you're with somebody offended by porn then you better not have any if you plan on staying with them.
If they're fine with it then fine, but that also means you can't flip out if they're looking at
porn too. Fair is fair.
So anyway, I say lusting is imagination and that's not cheating, and flirting usually isn't cheating
- unless it's specifically about boobs and sexy parts or inludes planning on how to get away
together to take the step beyond flirting. |
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17 Aug 2008 02:13
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