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Love Hurts More Than Its Worth
Apart from the few VERY lucky people most people end up hurt because they love some one or some thing
 mutani  03 Oct 2008 19:13
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Not always, but......do look deep before you leap.
 
 Mystery  18 Dec 2008 03:48
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Sad to say I'm on this side right now.
 
 Specter87  31 Oct 2008 00:57
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 i just like disagreeing with n-stein8_
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 31 Oct 2008 01:01
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Love Schmuv.
 
 ItsLogical  22 Oct 2008 21:36
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You got it, by gum.
 
 LyinInWait  20 Oct 2008 22:03
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Mm2real put it like this: "there's always someone else there to comfort us and fill up that gap someone else left".....

I agree, in a way....but no one can ever take another person's place in your heart: Your heart is like a house with many rooms; when you love someone? It makes them special to your heart, and you will always love that person even when they are long gone out of your life.
The absent lover has a place in your memory.
Not your feeling of love and desire any longer, but still your love in Memory. You always remember them, even if the feelings are gone that you had for them before has altered into a different type of love, still, love nonetheless. Maybe you don't want them as a lover anymore, and you do want this new person as a lover, but the one that has gone still has your heart: Which they won.
The new lover will have your heart now that they are your's to love back. In time, the new one will be all you see that way.....Still......

Love if it is real, is always real, and never dies.
"God is love", the Bible says.....
God, is Immortal.
Your real love is immortal too.

So, this person you loved and lost? Who hurt you deeply by leaving your life empty?
They filled a little room in the house of your heart, and no one will ever be able to take THEIR place: The new lover will make his own room in your heart; have his own place.

Because that is how it is.

Sometimes love is confusing in a way, but in time, you figure out what happened, and you feel like the musical group "Foreigner" the song entitled: "I Wanna Know What Love Is'.
 
 Scorpion  04 Oct 2008 21:37
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 Nicely said. I'll remember that,

("They filled a little room in the house of your heart, and no one will ever be able to take THEIR place: The new lover will make his own room in your heart; have his own place.")
by  mm2real
 07 Oct 2008 00:09
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Of course love is a pain in the @$$, but that's what makes it what it is, would you love someone if you knew every single day would be perfect? No problems? On the outside it sounds nice, but in reality, it is the inherent problems in love that make it what it is.
 
 Truth  10 Dec 2008 03:41
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Of course love hurts, but it's one of the most precious emotions that humans feel. I'm totally for the old saying, "it's better than to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." I've never actually been in love, but rest assured that if I never fall in love it will be my number one regret in life.
 
 bookworm3  22 Nov 2008 02:27
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I don't care.
 
 n-stein8_  31 Oct 2008 01:00
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 i just like disagreeing with Specter87
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I find the notion ridiculous. But even supposing it was true, is it better or less painful to avoid love? At least with love there is an upside as well as a downside. To choose to be alone and unconnected the only upside is you never have to share the remote.
 
 finsch  20 Oct 2008 22:33
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But "to have loved and lost is better than to never have loved at all" If you believe that love is so bad then I feel real pity for you "for to love is to live" and "life without love is not really life at all".
 
 boy2girl31  17 Oct 2008 09:32
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I will agree that love can hurt. People will more often than not find themselves unable to achieve the object of their love, alive or inanimate, but as for hurting more than it's worth, I simply cannot agree. I would rather feel heartbreak every day of my life than never feel love.
 
 Jakers  04 Oct 2008 21:08
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There are ups and downs in everyone's life. Love is the best feeling we could ever feel, but then again, it hurts so much to lose it. But there's always someone else there to comfort us and fill that gap that someone else left, but it's up to the person to let another person in.
 
 mm2real  04 Oct 2008 17:57
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 Hummmmm I will have to ponder over this one.....
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 04 Oct 2008 21:17
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