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Losing A Pet That You Have Become Very Fond Of, And Attached To, Can Be More Devastating Than Losing A Friend Or A Relative.
Sometimes when you lose an adorable pet, be it: A cat, dog, horse, bald eagle, or even a golden pet scorpion, the impact is so distressing to you emotionally, that it can be absolutely unbearable. Much worse than losing a human acquaintance.
 joe9  05 Aug 2008 17:29
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Definitely. I lost a dog a few months ago (3 months, 2 weeks, 4 days. I'm not kidding) and I'm still sad. She was the one thing I could always count on, and she died while I wasn't there to help her or take her to the vet. I cried and didn't leave the house for three days after we buried her. So yes, losing a beloved pet can hurt more than losing a friend or relative. Hope you like heaven, Roxy.
 
 mystirider  25 Mar 2009 01:39
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The animal/human bond can be incredibly strong. I have lost pets that made me feel badly for a few days, but I was not devastated. I can say that, if something were to happen to my Shih Tzu, I would mourn her passing much more than that of some people I know. I do place a higher value on human life, but there are people in my life that I am not nearly as attached to as I am to this dog. I usually do not even refer to her as a dog. That part is delusional on my part. She is like another baby to me. She is always by my side. To lose her, would be a devastating loss to me. I have owned many pets. I have become attached to all of them. Some, though, have become so close to me that I feel like they are more than a pet. I just left a debate about it "being time" for a person to put her dog down and I am more emotional as I write this response than usual. As I type, Roxie (the Shih Tzu) is asleep next to me. Her favorite place to be. She has become a best friend and a confidant. I have had some hard times lately and this little furball knows. It never ceases to amaze me, but if I am sad, she comes right to me and always offers her love and support in a way that only a dog can. I can call a friend, but I do not need to pick up a phone if I do not feel inclined. She already knows and is right there to do some goofy thing or to snuggle up and look at me with eyes full of compassion. I am sure that people can become this attached to any pet. If this is scattered, forgive me. I am generally more "with it". I did not sleep well last night and I am still half asleep, but seeing this debate, I felt that I wanted to post something and agree that our pets are a blessing and it is sad that more people do not take the time to get to know them as such.
 
 my2cents2u  28 Jan 2009 14:39
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Of course. It's amazing what people become emotional attached to. When my laptop breaks down I will probably cry.
 
 Specter87  16 Oct 2008 21:58
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Yes,it can be more unbearable to lose a pet,especially if you have become very attached to him/her/or them.Like me,i have a pet dog,named Gizmo.One of the cutest dogs i have ever see.If when he passes away.I will be so devastated,so much.
 
 Dancer91  12 Aug 2008 23:24
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We can create high emotional bonds with various kinds of animals. It could happen and does happen, but I bet if you died the pet wouldn't feel that bad, due to the lack of Intellectual capacity (IQ & EQ)
 
 verum  05 Aug 2008 17:44
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 Pets do pine after their human companions if they loose them. Just as they pine after their own kind..
by  keepmindok
 05 Aug 2008 17:48
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