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Yes they do, depending on the relationship. I'm in one right now and I couldn't be happier. The
rumours about high infidelity rates are false; if you'd cheat whilst in a long-distance, you'd cheat
in a close-distance too. It's all about respect and trust. Theres a lot more emotional input in a
long-distance, because your main communication is verbal. It can't be a relationship purely based on
sex, because you're not physically together as much as you would be in a close-distance
relationship. Me and my boyfriend see each other in intervals of between 3 to 6 weeks, and whilst it
can be a little difficult when it's the 6 week stretch and so on, it's well worth it because,
basically, we're right for each other. You have to work hard, and you need to have very strong
feelings for each other, but I know it can work because it is doing right now.
If you want more proof, www.lovingfromadistance.com |
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I don't know for sure, but I REALLY want this side to be true for personal reasons, and i think if
you try, its possible. |
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If the two people in question truely love each other then distance should be no object. And I think
they really put the effort in then they can work out. |
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I tried it once...best 6 days of my life.... |
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Okay, listen to me, forget anything everyone else says. They work out. I'm in one now, almost
three months. The bad is you can't really see them all the time, The good is the distance and time
you send away from each other makes you appreciate them more. It makes every hug every kiss even
better. If you really like them it will work out. |
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Um... Maybe |
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Well it depends how fare away you are.... |
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The good thing about these relationships is that those who have agreed to remain monogamous while
away are true friends. Those who say they will and don't are cheats. |
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To be frank with you my dear friend I believe they do indeed work...if you truly care and have a
mutual love for each other that is. I've been down that road before and it was a wonderful
experience that lasted years. If you have faith and believe in yourself and your partner things work
out..when this relationships don't work it's probably because it was a case of infatuation and
nothing more...it's always best to stay positive and see the best in things not be so
d***negative...negative people suck!!!! |
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As long as there is love, there is no fear and as long as there is no fear, there are no boundaries.
As for the goods and bads, I'd say they have the same ups and downs as any other relationship.
Yea' they work out, it just takes two.
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You hardly see them and its painful especially if you are young. I know. It hurts. I never even got
to be in his arms. Now we haven't spoken in months :(
Also, when you see people being intimate it hurts. |
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Don't hold your breath. |
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I think it's kind of half and half. My friend has had long distance relationships, and they failed
miserably. On the other hand, my parents only saw each other once a month when they were dating and
they've been married 24 years without a single fight (that I know of). I guess it dwindles down to
if it's really love or not (because now that I think about it, my friend didn't really LIKE those
people, and they only talked over the Internet. Actually, a lot of people's relationships over the
Internet fail. So some advice: Don't get relationships over the Internet). |
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They can, but it's hard. Eventually it has to become not a long distance relationship to have much
hope. |
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I got 5 words for you:
DON'T QUIT YOUR DAY JOB . |
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I don't think long distance relationships work out because the connection with the person you were
with is lost...people want someone that will always be there and that they can trust because they
see them I'm sure there are plenty of long distance relationships that have worked out but i don't
see how... |
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The CAN work out, however, the vast majority of the time they do not.
Most people who have been to college can tell you stories about the many Freshmen they knew who had
serious boyfriends/girlfriends back home. They stay loyal half a semester, go home midterm having
second thoughts, and then free themselves for the rest of college. They literally drop like flies
despite the best intentions to start with. |
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I'm gonna have to disagree due
to the fact that they do not
work out unless you both put a hell of a lot effort into
it reasons are that you'd never get to see that person then conflicts and trust issues will
occur the you'll begin to wonder is it worth it and then be temped w/ other males/females while your
significant other is way out of reach
so i have to disagree |
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It takes an extreme amount of work to keep long distance relationship going. There are usually way
too many things to do and way too many friends to contend with to keep it going. If they are not
near, you do not see them as much and do not know what is physically going on around them, so there
is less to talk about and less feeling between the two. Eventually, there is nothing but was. |
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16 Jul 2008 01:16
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