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Lying Is Necessary
In today's society it is incredibly helpful, but I lied in my title, it is not. I just want to gather together opinions on WHY its either necessary or destructive.
 Mandego  18 Apr 2008 03:28
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Yes, But only to the "authority". I don't lie to people otherwise.
 
 SlyOne  05 Nov 2008 01:46
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Little white lies are okay.
 
 Rosie  23 Oct 2008 19:10
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To a an extent. Let's say you're gf/bf asks you if you're going to throw a surprise birthday party for her/his birthday, are you going to say yes or no? If you say yes, and you don't want to lie, what is the point in the party being a surprise, therefore, if you say no, it is still safe to throw the surprise birthday party. White lies don't count!
 
 imright20  07 Oct 2008 21:32
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Of course lying is necessary. Without lying everybody would know what their birthday present was going to be. A significant number of women would be over 40 and look fat in that skirt. More Jews would have died at Hitler's hands. And the political electorate wouldn't know what to do.
 
 OzzieMan  02 Jun 2008 18:48
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 You don't have to say what the gift is and you don't have to lie. As for the lying to save lives thing, I am not sure.
by  Stranger
 02 Jun 2008 18:51
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Lying in some situations can be seen as the right thing to do. Sometimes the truth can actually hurt more than a simple lie. Lying is something which can give us a sense of comfort and pleasure. Pleasure is something which everyone strives for and is the basis in life. To achieve this goal people will lie to keep their efforts intact.
 
 jordibro1  18 Apr 2008 17:17
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 If pleasure isthye basis in life, then why aren't everybody drugged up and put into a bed where they don't have any responsibilities or burdens?
by  Mandego
 18 Apr 2008 18:29
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Of course, the whole world is based upon deceit and lying. Everything is based upon deceit, lying or being conservative with the truth. From a young age we are taught lies from tooth fairies, mickey mouse, santa claus, the bible and creationism. Then when we are at school we are taught even more lies that if we work hard and do well in exams, we have good jobs (which is garbage). Then, we apply for jobs, we all lie on our application forms or CV's. Then when we get the job, we are paid a salary to lie, almost every job is deceitful or dishonest. If you sell cars for example, you are selling the car way above the wholesale price, that is your margin of profit, if you work as secretary you have to lie saying your boss is unavailable to take calls. If you're a politician you have to be very selective about what you tell the public. On dating sites, people lie about their height etc, everything in life involves lying.
 
 espnsports  18 Apr 2008 17:13
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 I understand that everybody does lie, and I understand that its oh so easy to do so, but is it NECESSARY? Is there any situation where telling the truth will result in a long term negative consequence?
by  Mandego
 18 Apr 2008 18:28
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Lying to an extent is necessary. In the workplace if someone asks you a personal question about themselves, you cannot always tell the truth. There are always situations that require you to lie. That if you told the truth, you would be in a bad position. People who tell the exact truth all the time end up being disliked. Look at Simon Cowell on American Idol.
 
 curious  18 Apr 2008 03:56
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 So your saying that peoples approval when based on a lie is better than honesty?
by  Mandego
 18 Apr 2008 18:26
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No good ever comes of lying. I do not recommend it.
 
 sylverwyld  23 Oct 2008 19:14
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Lying isn't necessary. My first argument is that once we accept that some lies are necessary, how do we judge, however, if we start from the assumption that they aren't, we can requite people on specific occasions, and everyone understands?

Lies are also hurtful to society; if people suspect the information they are being provided with is false, then they will be more precautionary, less open. This way society breaks down as a result of accepting lies.
 
 Jake  04 Oct 2008 09:51
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As long as it is not the Gestapo or the Third Reich, Lying is wrong.
 
 keepmindok  04 Oct 2008 08:44
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I don't necessary believe that it necessary to lie in all situations, but I can see how it can be better to lie
 
 dontkillme  18 Jul 2008 21:20
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No. Lying is immoral and in talking to the cops or in court its also illegal.

No. Lying is a sin. No doubts. Just don't say anything, better than saying anything which would be untruthful!
 
 Scorpion  16 Jul 2008 22:21
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