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Let's Trust Our 18 Years Old And Allow Them To Have A Few Drinks On Their Prom Night.
...and don't even start to rattle off a laundry list of terrible things that happen when young ADULTS experiment with alcohol...terrible things happen every day. It's totally unrealistic to expect that a. They haven't drank before and b. They're not going to drink (UNSUPERVISED) a few months later when they're off at college. Lets let them have a few pops, take their car keys away and allow them to celebrate this portal into adulthood, and lets trust them a little bit too.
 droola  25 Jun 2008 16:36
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I agree, however by the time kids enter high school, whether the child consumes alcohol or not is totally up to him/her, if the parents like it or not. Its how it is these days.
 
 Carlton  29 Sep 2008 21:02
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WELL MY SISTER IS 18 and to tell you what she will go and drink whether you say yes or no so its best to say yes and give them some limits than say no and den them go drink with no limits don't you think
 
 YoungRuva  06 Aug 2008 16:24
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People are mature enough by 18; I'd even go as far as 16, for some people.
 
 Snipex  20 Jul 2008 01:24
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If you can go to war, you can have a beer.
 
 Cons_Lies  27 Jun 2008 04:30
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I remember having a couple of drinks on my prom night, as did all of my other classmates. Mind you, I never lived in the US, where regulations are still in force that prohibit anyone under 21 years of age from having a drink. This is really rather ridiculous, considering that 18 year olds are seen as mature enough to move out of their family home, start living on their own, they can drive a car, vote in elections, take on full-time employment, pay taxes, get married and have children. An 18 year old is treated like an adult in every way, save when it comes to alcohol. This seems to be a remnant of the prohibitionist era and it makes absolutely no sense to have such rules. Granted, some 18 year olds may not be mature enough to handle alcohol, but then again, many much older adults are just as irresponsible. In fact, you are unlikely to come across many 18 year old alcoholics in those countries that do not have such stringent regulations.

If, however, the minimum age requirement continues to exist, then parents and teachers should take the matter into their own hands and just let 18 year old students enjoy a few drinks on their prom night. This is a once in a lifetime event, and one of the most memorable moments for most graduating high school students, so there is nothing wrong with relaxing the rules and welcoming these kids into adulthood.
 
 mackenzie  26 Jun 2008 12:09
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The legal age for consumption of alcohol in the UK is 18., I'm not saying bad things don't happen, but the majority of drinkers are well behaved and responsible drinkers. What your saying is to moderate one or two units per student in a controlled environment. I can't see how that could be such a bad thing.
 
 muin13  25 Jun 2008 19:39
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Ok, but who is providing the liquor? If one of the teens is ill or manages to get a set of keys and drives drunk, killing themselves or another person, are you willing to lose your home and all that you own over it AND do jail time? If a parent wants to allow their own child a taste of alcohol at home, that is up to them, but when you supply others' kids, watch out. Some parents may not approve that their kid is at your home drinking. It's not a good situation.
 
 my2cents2u  09 Aug 2009 16:18
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I trust NO ONE with a party and alcohol. Whether they're 18 or 78. Why do you feel you have to drink to have fun. It's a delusion
 
 hodver  30 Dec 2008 01:39
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There should not be proms. It is bad for kids morals.and besides it's dumb.
 
 Scorpion  17 Aug 2008 18:26
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Because WHY???
 
 momof3  26 Jun 2008 19:08
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At 18 your child is basically an adult. A legal adult. Any trouble they get into is their own problem. As a parent I don't know that I would agree but I wouldn't disagree. There are so many bad things that happen to unexperienced teenage drivers when drinking. But, my answer would be to go ahead and let them as long as they were responsible about it. It is better that than the teen going behind your back and doing it anyways.
 
 curious  25 Jun 2008 23:01
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 Do you realize that in order to be "responsible" about it --- one would have to realize that breaking the law is not responsible. ; )
by  momof3
 27 Jun 2008 03:03
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So basically you are asking the parents, whose main jobs are to teach and protect their children, To allow their children to develop habits that will eventually most likely kill them early. Sure i don't care its less competition for me when i take over the world. We need to teach our children to not drink not to teach them they can drink on special occasions. Drinking has never caused a good thing except for maybe a bit more money for the economy. Bad things drinking has caused are: Early deaths, broken families, abusive people, and fetal baby, aka blue baby, syndrome.
 
 Smito  25 Jun 2008 16:46
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 Since when were 18 year old adults "children". And I know a lot of people that drank responsibly over the years without "killing them early" And I know a lot of people that met their wives after a few drinks at a bar. So yes, good things can come from a few drinks.
by  droola
 25 Jun 2008 16:50
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