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Lesbians Can Be Polygamists Too.
I think men should not be the only ones who can have more than one partner. I think you can be in more than one relationship within one big relationship, instead of cheating.
 Divinity  30 Jan 2008 03:00
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Yes they can but, who would want to be a polygamist and a lesbian that's just gross and wrong, stick with the status quot and create more children with different gender and love that ONE man or woman or your life.
 
 hb_26  27 Jul 2008 22:28
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Sure, I mean, anyone can. Gender and Sexual Orientation don't matter and shouldn't matter in any instance.
 
 asphyDrake  13 Jul 2008 20:22
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Well sure... But wouldn't that actually be polyandry?
 
 OzzieMan  17 Jun 2008 18:05
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Polygamy is fine. For all of you who think that polygamy means affairs, it doesn't. Affairs are cheating, which is wrong, disrespectful, and hurtful. Polygamy is the marrying of multiple people, which can be just as bad as cheating but not always.

I've had friends who have dated multiple people at once, with both (or at the most all three of) their girl/boyfriends dating each other, too. (Although a case where, for example, two girls who can't stand each other or just aren't interested in each other both go out with the same girl/guy and know it can be hurtful, they're still consenting to it) All my friend's who've been in threesome relationships have reported it as almost always the best relationships they've ever been in, although breakups do tend to be a bit more common and worse according to them.

Homosexuality is perfectly fine, and not wrong.

There've been numerous examples in human history and in nature of homosexuality and polygamy both being supported, though polygamy has a better track record.

Well, that's my say for now.
 
 FoxFire  08 May 2008 18:21
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I have problems with polygamy and I'm not a lesbian, but I think it should be allowed. Why not?
 
 veggiefry  28 Mar 2008 01:04
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Of course they can be... If men can do it why cant women. I personally wouldn't, but its whatever.
 
 jackie  19 Feb 2008 19:08
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Yes of course let them get married with many people as long as they are good
 
 bobbilly  16 Feb 2008 02:13
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If someone from any other sexual orientation can maintain more than one partner in life then the same goes to the lesbians too. They also can become polygamists if they feel like then. There is absolutely no harm in having more than one partner as this may also give variation in life and a lesbian can also have a taste experience of some one else’s feelings and emotions besides her patent partner. As long as she can maintain two or more partners in her life and simultaneously giving no problem to any one of them then there is no problem for a Lesbian to be a polygamist. By being a polygamist a lesbian can also enjoy her life with utmost variations and she will not feel any kind of monotony or boredom from life. Thus lesbians can easily be polygamists.
 
 sudipa  10 Feb 2008 13:03
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I am FOR lesbians having one male partner.
 
 wrldmggt69  30 Jan 2008 10:19
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 Yes, I am FOR lesbians who are willing to experiment.
by  fngrbng420
 30 Jan 2008 13:49
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I am FOR lesbians.
 
 fngrbng420  30 Jan 2008 09:58
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[[B:
The debate statement does not seek a judgment about whether it is moral or immoral for any person in a marriage or committed relationship (gay or straight). For that reason, I do not state my opinion. I only state that many people have affairs with 1 or more persons outside of marriage or committed relationship.

What's good for the goose is good for the gander. What's good for the roster is good for the hen. What's good for the bull is good for the cow. What's good for a man is good for a woman. What's good for a heterosexual is good for a homosexual. What's good for the husband is good for the wife. What's good for the high school boy is good for the high school girl. What's good for the gay man is good for the lesbian.

THEREFORE, a man who seeks an affair outside of marriage is the same a woman who seeks an affair outside of marriage. A gay man who seeks an affair outside of a committed relationship is no different than a heterosexual man who seeks an affair outside of marriage, or a so-called committed relationship, is no different. A lesbian in a committed relationship yet seeks an affair with another woman is no different that a married woman who seeks an affair with a man.

THEREFORE:
Lesbians and straight-women do have affairs with sexual relationships outside of their committed relationship.

Some heterosexual men have numerous affairs or prostitute sex. Some gay men have numerous affairs or prostitute sex. Some heterosexual women have numerous affairs and some lesbians have numerous affairs. All are wrong or all are right.

Society mores and the culture determine whether it is wrong or right, legal or illegal and determines if laws are needed. Society and laws are wrong to prosecute prostitutes but not the "Johns" who pay for their sexual services. In America, society has not made laws against having one or more than one sexual affair outside of a marriage or other committed relationship. Muslim societies have laws within their country.

So, yes, if it's ok in our American society for people to have affairs, then it is ok for ALL.]]
 
 best4write  30 Jan 2008 06:57
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Lesbians are just being really picky already, why add to the ego girls?

Mono-sexual is way more open-minded and Authentic, sexually.

Even Lesbians masturbate.
 
 Scorpion  27 Jul 2008 00:50
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Lesbians are capable of cheating, but they are notoriously faithful. They are also the safest when it comes to STD's. They have the absolute lowest numbers of AIDS, and AIDS related cases. In cases of lesbian marriage in Mass. Their divorce rate is slightly lower than that of straight couples. This according to the New England LGBT legal rights group.
 
 innomen  13 May 2008 00:39
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I have nothing against homosexuals, but polygamy is a whole different story.
 
 The_Alex  01 Feb 2008 02:26
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I am against gay relationships and I am even more against polygamist relationships. With all of the diseases that are out there today, no one should be sleeping around. It is unsafe and unhealthy. Above all, it is dirty, unmoral, and unethical. There is nothing wrong with having a heterosexual, monogamist relationship. This is the way God meant for it to be. If he wanted us to be gay and to sleep around he would not have made two different genders or would have allowed disease to occur. The Bible says that we should be heterosexual and not sleep around. Adultery is a sin. If you are in a relationship, you should respect that partner. Sleeping around is disrespectful. Why would you do something that was against the Bible? It is as sin and those who do that kind of stuff will end up going to hell.
 
 Professor  30 Jan 2008 20:20
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 Then why did Christians before modern times always take a bunch of wives if 'sleeping around' is so wrong? And they're not talking about adultery. They're talking about marrying multiple people, with the full consent of the people they're marrying. There's actually still some Christians today who are polygamists.

More than two people can be checked for STDs, you know.

If you're not Christian, then the Bible argument is not really a good argument. Please provide an answer that'll convince someone who doesn't adhere to your religious beliefs.

You're entire argument is based on homosexuality being wrong (according to your religion), polygamy being wrong (which you're religion actually supports, so please don't argue that point), and sleeping around being disrespectful (which it is, but that's a whole other issue entirely that has little to do with polygamy. As I said, in polygamy hopefully all the partners know who's in on it).

Homosexuality is only prohibited by a small number of religions. Everything else, including other religions, does support it.

...About you're last sentence:

It's YOUR Hell, YOU burn in it! I'm tired of Christians spouting out that gays will go to Hell!!! Not everyone believes in hell, people!
by  FoxFire
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I am against any type of relationship that is not monogomy. Good luck to you and those in your 'screw circle' in your fight against disease. That's just a grave decision in the year 2008!
 
 seoems369  30 Jan 2008 03:05
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 THIS SITE AND DEBATING IS NO PLACE TO PUT YOUR PORNIFIC REMARKS. Perhaps you want someone to say to you, you and your friends at church and others you "screw with" ???????????? No, I don't think you like such being said to you, so quit name-calling and using your personal damnation of others. Surely, you have a vocabulary that is decent.........If not, you only disrespect yourself. Let's just debate here while using decent words and no name-calling. Please, show respect as you would have respect shown to you.
by  best4write
 06 Feb 2008 03:37
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Polygamists shouldn't be accepted in any case or situation- when you enter a relationship, you should be agreeing to be with just that person until a break up in dating or death in marriage. More than one person just shows you're a bad person.
Take note I couldn't say the word I would like.
 
 TyWhyHiTy  30 Jan 2008 03:05
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 I agree, you took the words out of my mouth.
by  ValerieC
 02 Feb 2008 22:35
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