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It's Wrong For Woman To Keep Any Guy Friends After She Has A Kid Or Gets Married
I don't know if he would like me to still hang out with all my old guy friends...sense he doesn't hang out with any other girls
 greeneyez  11 Jul 2008 17:58
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This has actually happened to me before.....Um, a girl hangs onto an old guy friend because she still loves him.
Maybe the husband isn't so nice to her: Maybe the marriage was a mistake, and the girl reaches out to the old guy-friend because she just wants a relationship with someone who is stable, consistent, and there for her when she needs someone to truly, truly CARE: Maybe the husband doesn't!
 
 Scorpion  13 Jul 2008 18:18
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To each their own but I think that shows a lack of trust which will eventually be problematic.
 
 finsch  11 Jul 2008 20:03
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 I agree. It's a bit risky.
by  neko
 12 Jul 2008 13:59
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People should never be restricted as to who their friends are. I would never stop seeing any of my female friends just because i got married.
 
 maugatar  20 Aug 2008 12:45
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Hello wrong for a woman to have guy friends what type of sexist saying is that well then if that is true man shouldn't be allowed to have female friends that is stupidity!
 
 YoungRuva  06 Aug 2008 06:13
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Friends is the key word here. It is alla matter of trust. There is nothing wrong with keeping guys as friends as long as that is what they really are. I don't understand why so many people assume this. If you care about someone or are in love, friends do not keep you from doing this nor do they try to steer you from it, unless you are in a bad situation, that is different. Friends are friends, period.
 
 curious  16 Jul 2008 03:04
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Its okay your not going to do something with them, why should they worry, i guess it does all depend on the couple and the circumstances
 
 jezhicka  15 Jul 2008 12:28
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Each couple has to work out their own mutual agreed upon ground rules for their relationship. If you and your love both agree to sever old ties so be it, but you both have to agree.

Personally, I don't believe a solid relationship will be threatened by past friendships regardless of their genders. And shutting out the whole world except for your lover runs a serious risk of you becoming isolated, co-dependent, and lonely.
 
 Grenache  12 Jul 2008 17:14
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You'd feel very isolated if your partner didn't allow you to have male friends. Sometimes a female finds it easier talking to a male friend rather than a female, and vice-versa.
 
 joe9  12 Jul 2008 11:12
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I don't think its wrong to be fiends with guys after marriage. If your husband doesn't trust you than its just too bad. If he does love you than he'll trust you.
 
 sive92  12 Jul 2008 10:17
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If he doesn't like it then he doesn't trust you. He would still hang with girls.
 
 celva_olva  11 Jul 2008 20:35
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Actually it depends on the couple. My husband has no problems with my guy friends, and he gets along with them.
 
 Duckie  11 Jul 2008 18:39
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