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It Is Unjust In Custody Cases For Courts To Automatically Lean Towards Giving The Mothers Custody. Everyone Has The Right To A Fair Trial.
Everyone has a right to a fair trial!!!! Custody issues should be based on what is best for the child. In most cases the judges lean toward giving the mother custody without even considering the father. Most of the cases that fathers get custody , is because the child was taken into states custody, then they place the child with the father to avoid foster homes. This is not right. Both parents should be looked at equally. And the custody should be based on which parent is more suitable for the child.
 1993tress  15 Jul 2008 18:50
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BOTH parents should have equal custody, unless one is PROVEN unfit to parent.
This country is quickly becoming a nation of fatherless children, and fathers are not the only ones to blame for that.
It's too easy to throw away marriages and fathers. Fatherless homes have become the norm, instead of the exception. It's a terrible shame that the feminist movement has ended up taking so many basic rights away from others.
 
 fedupgran  25 Jul 2008 14:52
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While I agree with this, I think that what needs to be taken into even more consideration is the reason for the divorce to begin with. If mom brings the majority of baggage to the table, and dad wants custody, that above all else needs to be taken into consideration. The same holds true if the tables are turned.

In my opinion the crux of the problem is how easy it is to get divorced. Because of the ease of divorce, there is far less accountability placed on individuals choosing to get married.

Interesting how when gov't gets involved in social affairs it inherently causes more grief than it eliminates.
 
 Cons_Lies  16 Jul 2008 18:04
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 I agree with you. personally I don't think courts should grant divorces without marriage counseling first, unless if there is abuse by the man or the woman
by  1993tress
 16 Jul 2008 19:12
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I agree with this statement. I think it should be looked at from both sides before a decision is made. I, also, agree with the child's right to choose but, that child needs to be at a proper decision making age.
 
 blondjac76  16 Jul 2008 17:09
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I think that the child should be able to choose which parent. But there shouldn't be a bias toward either parent if the judge is choosing. But you won't be able to stop biases.
 
 elfox315  16 Jul 2008 04:57
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I totally agree too. If the shoe were on the other foot, for example if family businesses were usually assumed to go to the father in the divorce, then women would say that was horribly unfair because the decision doesn't really reflect who put more into the business or will be more instrumental to it's ultimate success. It's a double standard. Both parents should come into the custody hearing on equal footing.
 
 Grenache  15 Jul 2008 20:19
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I totally agree with everything you have said. Further more I believe that the child support system is very unfair and needs major reform. Too many woman get custody of their children and then milk the man for all he is worth just because she can. This usually happens in blue collar or low income families because the man does not have the financial capabilities to fight for more custody and less child support. I just think it is ridiculous that woman want to be considered equals but when they are in a custody and child support battle they turn on the "I am a helpless woman who can't support a baby on my own and need help from a man."
It is exploitation of our system and needs to stop.
 
 coby0317  15 Jul 2008 19:04
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 Child support system? What is that? Show me a child support recipient who can show all the money is used for the child and I'll show you a liar.
by  Cons_Lies
 16 Jul 2008 18:06
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It is in most instances that the mother gets the child because she is the primary care giver and because she is the one emotionally attached to the child. I have seen it firsthand. Fathers love their children, yes I agree, but not to the extent that the mother does. The mother will do and do for the child. The father won't. I have seen very, very few instances where the father actually deserved to have custody. Think of your own feelings towards your mother and then of your father. If you had to chose, who would you pick? Mine would definetly be my mother. Think of your life or anyone else's if their father had raised them. They more than likely would be a mess.
 
 curious  16 Jul 2008 02:42
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 That is completly wrong. Yes the mother carried the child for about 9 months but that does not mean that she is the better parent.By the way I have lived with my father for 8 months before that I was in foster care,and before that I was with my mom and her husband. And I would never ever choose to live with her again. Sure I love her, and she loves me. However my father is the most responsible choice for me. Do you wanna hear about more cases that the father is more suitable then the mother?
by  1993tress
 16 Jul 2008 03:04
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