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It Is OK To Keep Your Abortion A Secret If The Guy You Are Dating Has Trouble In His Life.
It is wrong to add to a guy's hurt and turmoil if he is having a difficult time in his life by telling him that you are pregnant and plan to have abortion. It is a woman's job to take care of things like that alone.
 Tepal  10 Jun 2008 04:17
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Sure, if it is okay for that same guy to keep
his abortion with another woman secret,
or his involvement with another a secret,
for that matter his troubles, what ever is good
for a goose pregnant with a golden egg,
is good for the gander with a secret swan.
 
 Bacchus  11 Jun 2008 00:43
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That is the most irresponsible thing I've ever heard. It sounds to me like the person about to abort needs to grow up. Some people are just not mature enough to have sex. If the baby's born, it's nothing more than a doll. If the baby is sucked out and disposed of, then it's nothing more than just a secret. How disgusting that humans can relate to other humans in such a way!
 
 momof3  20 Sep 2008 19:32
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I don't even want to play devil's advocate on this one. :-(

Abortion, is murder: Call what it really is.
No excuses.

Also, even if the guy is dog-dirt, you do not have the right to kill his kid.
If you test pregnant, leave a message on his voice mail, or leave a doctor's note on his door, before you get on with your life.
If he doesn't love you, don't stay with him.

But a man has the right to know you carry his offspring! It is his child also, even if he has cheated on you or goes out with someone else now.
 
 Scorpion  09 Sep 2008 01:05
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The conception was shared, the birth should be shared, as should an abortion.
 
 Snipex  21 Jul 2008 01:34
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A woman has no right to keep something as major as a pregnancy from her partner. Men have reproductive rights, too!
 
 OzzieMan  10 Jun 2008 19:31
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The baby is half the mans and he has a right to know that the woman is carrying the child and that she is going to abort the child. Even if the man is having trouble he should be supporting the woman on her discussion.
 
 Smito  10 Jun 2008 04:51
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 Men are not really that interested anyway and they should not have to be held accountable for what was the woman's fault to begin with. If he is going thru financial trouble and can't get his life in order then why add to his drama. That is selfish on the woman's part.
by  Tepal
 10 Jun 2008 04:54
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