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I totally agree. People today don't make friends, It seems today when someone says they are your
friend you have to be wary of their intentions. I've read some of the responses in the against and
that proves what I'm trying to convey. Instead of what can I do for you it's what can I get out of
them. Most people today seem cold and calculating and will screw you over at the first opportunity.
If you happen to be a nice person they see you as an easy mark, not as someone who might make a good
friend. Everyone's got a hidden agenda it seems. Lucky for me most of my friends I have known since
grade school except for my girl who happens to be my best friend. You are supposed to stand by your
friends, defend them, and try to make their lives better just because with no hidden agendas |
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Completely agree, in regards to those who disagree, you probably have never had this happen to you. |
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True but you want to set your standards a bit higher, and the ground rules. |
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I agree i think you have to be older to maintain a good friendship my sister told me at my age (12)
i will not be meeting my real friends that when I'm older ill be mature enough to be a real friend
and so will be my real friends |
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I agree. I always think it's better to have a close circle of friends who you are very close to and
can trust rather than a lot of friends who you aren't very close to. That way, you don't have to
feel uncomfortable about telling anyone anything or anyone turning on you. True friends would never
turn on you in a heartbeat. |
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That's why it's a good idea to try and make as many friends as possible and then you can see which
ones are the true friends. |
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Ive been friends with this girl for 4 years and one day she found a secret that i had been keeping
from her(it was minor and it had nothing to do with her) I found out later that she, the girl i call
my SISTER, was calling me names behind my back. |
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You are so right, and it really sucks that you are! I got lucky though and found the one best friend
that I'll need for the rest of my life. We've been best friends for seven years and have been
through it together. I'm a guy and my friend is a female. It's the single best friendship I've had
my entire life. Always there for each other, always honest...it's awesome. But I have been screwed
over too many times to count by other so-called friends so I know exactly what you mean. |
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It seems that you need to determine the difference between friends and acquaintences... There are
ppl you think are your friends and there are ppl you know and know you.. Your true friends wont stab
you in the back.. I don't care how mad you get at your friend, i once got in a serious fist fight
with my best friend but after a couple rounds, we dusted each other off and were fine after that.. I
know not everyone is that rowdy but that's a true friend to me.. Then there are the acquaintances..
Ppl you think are your friends.. Those are ppl that have nothing in their life worth anything so
they judge your life and talk behind your back.. Those ppl have no life and need to get one and move
around. U might not wanna tell all your business unless you have complete trust for someone then
you'll know that that's a true friend to you. |
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The world is about making ones self happy and if that means destroying others then you are doing
what is good for you not them. If your friend got something good out of turning on you then he did
what was right for him to do. You need to be able to control your friends or else they'll turn on
you. |
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