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Sex It Still Have Some Deeper Meaning
These days sex seems more of a conquest than a way to be intimate with someone. Are we too self involved to let anyone in, to share a deeper experience or is sex just a word?
 mh88  03 May 2008 23:20
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When it's done right, it's the most magical thing in the world. Some people do it just to fullfill earthly needs; others can hold off until they find love, which is what makes it so great. If done right, it shows your partner the promise you've made to give yourself only to them. Not that I would know a lot about this subject...
 
 bookworm3  06 Dec 2008 01:23
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 Bookworm, this is just an opinion, but hold off to you find love, and it does mean more, simply because by that time your gagging for it. Sex is what it is. Enjoyable.
by  2free
 06 Dec 2008 01:27
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Completely agree that sex has a much deeper intimate meaning that in my belief welds the most extrodinary bond known to man kind. The act is like saying I love you an infinite amount of time to a person.
 
 Persian1  06 Dec 2008 01:18
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Um, no.......sex is not just a word. Every word has a precise meaning. Sex is the greatest gift God gave to mankind.

Abuse of sex is the degradation of the human race.

The broken lives and broken hearts world over will attest.

Keep it in your pants until you meet that special someone.
Then? With them, never put it back in your pants: Marriage is still the Ideal......even if fallen humanity has failed to achieve the summit of worthiness of love and passion and satisfaction, and Fulfillment through fantastic transformative sex together.
 
 Scorpion  14 Jul 2008 19:38
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 why is it you have to always bring God into a perfectly logical debate? what's that about? are you that single minded? and by the way you don't buy the cow unless you know the milk is high quality. Every person I've been with has shared a magical, intimate, passionate, mind numbing time with me. hey what can I say They don't call me the wizard for nothing...lol Sex without love is just great sex, sex with love is phenomenal and awe inspiring, but either way you slice it the pie is scrumptuous.
by  TullFan
 09 Dec 2008 07:46
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A perfect shared sexual experience is profound, spiritual, therapeutic, and the closest two humans can come to actually becoming one with each other.
 
 OzzieMan  30 May 2008 05:57
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Different people have different values. I have seen some who ascribe great meaning toward sex when it is with the right person, but when it is sought for recreational reasons, it means far less (with that same person). I know some who have sex "like ordering pizza" and others who find it the joining of two to one. The most perfect expression of love and intimacy.

Sex with love means something different than sex without love.
 
 innomen  25 May 2008 00:34
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It definitely has a deeper meaning. It's just that people give it away to easily and are therefore hurt when their partner leaves. The next time it hurts less and soon its just becomes a motion that you do fulfill your needs and wants. Sex is a magical thing. It romantic when you have waited your whole life in order to share it only with your wife or husband.
 
 Vlad  25 May 2008 00:10
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It does. It should be a form of showing your partner how much you love each other.
 
 kitten  09 May 2008 20:02
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I'm not sure if I'm on the right side, but I'm saying that sex still has a deeper meaning.

Unfortunately, sex is becoming less of a big deal and more of an everyday thing of decreasing worth. But, as chispa says, sex with the element of love is something profound and wonderful, the ultimate act of vulnerability and intimacy, and it upsets me that people would give up that element for the endorphins.
 
 Jakers  06 May 2008 00:42
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I believe it does. Whether or not you believe so would probably depend on your religious viewpoints.
 
 nedved77  04 May 2008 00:55
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 Has nothing to do with religion. You will find every type of person in every social group, provided your sample is large enough.
by  OzzieMan
 30 May 2008 05:59
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To all who feel it deeply in their loins, there is a deeper meaning to it, look unless you have some mental defect or bad experience as a youth, sex will always feel great, whether
you are a five dollar prostitute or a mormon.
That being said, kinky thoughts shall always reign.
 
 Bacchus  17 Jun 2008 16:29
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Boy howdy, is THIS debate gonna get a lot of responses!
I certainly agree that for many, “having sex” is just a physical act with no emotions, that has nothing to do with what I always call it, “making love.”
Lovemaking, in its purest and most ideal form, is nothing but a symbol. It says, “I choose you above all others to share this secret, magical thing -- that I experience with no one else.” If that doesn’t turn you on, what does?!
It symbolizes the deep emotional connection -- call it “love” -- that should, ideally, exist between the participants.
Sure, all of us have had sex for its own sake, usually when we’re younger. Cynics say that men give love to gain sex, and women give sex to gain love. Believe me, that will become absolutely odious to you as you age -- and your lovemaking more enjoyable.
 
 chispa  04 May 2008 01:46
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