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Porn movies have as great of value as do school books do! I think you should be open minded with
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I don't watch porn for sexual gratification. I watch it as a visual aid to masturbation. I don't
think that having a fulfilling and fun sexual relationship and masturbation (thus watching porn) are
mutually exclusive.
If you have sex with your partner because love them, don't you also love yourself? |
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Porn can be part of a loving sexual relationship i have laods of friends who watch porn with their
partners i really can't see what the big deal is. |
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Before i would never look at it at all! But since then, i have and it wasn't too too bad. I
survived but it does make me kind feel sorry for those women |
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A relationship is about compromise. You cant compromise on something like porn. Porn is too
literally graphic to just be that thing on the side. Realistically if your masturbating to some
porn and your partner catches you then i would imagine that argument would either end in laughing
about how you were doing it in secret, making you stop, letting you do it in private, or splitting
up.
I don't think people compromising on porn would be watching it because they think that its
interesting. If porn being interesting was at stake i would imagine both people would have a sense
of intimacy with porn or that one of the people would have some level of fetish that they should be
honest about with their partner. The problem would be how great of a lie the pornography turns into
not just that there is porn.
If a person who won't stand for porn finds some porn they will end that relationship.
Honestly, i wouldn't be able to be with someone who wouldn't let me masturbate. Then again i don't
have any extended involvement with porn but in relationships in the past we could watch things like
that together and fun it up, for it to become a secret would portend it becoming a lie and that is
far more unhealthy than a typical lie because it will be directly affecting the intimacy you should
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In many relationships couples enjoy their time by many different ways. Some may cook for each other
on a holiday and enjoy, some of them may move out for a party or some may do something else.
Likewise some of them prefer watching porn as this may be interesting for them. By watching porn
they get inspiration and also knowledge about those certain things which were not known to them as
such. With the help of pornography they make new and exciting ways to enjoy their sexual life and
they also remain happy and mentally peaceful throughout the day. Couples watch porn secretly when
they share some very intimate moments together and by watching porn they get ideas as how to spice
up their life. Thus watching porn secretly is a very usual matter nowadays in any relationship. |
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Watching porn is safe! Its almost like a safe sex practice. Without doing the whole thing. Its
completely natural! |
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Wow, again I'm not so sure where this person stands. Are you for viewing porn in a relationship?
Just curious what the deal is?
Well, since I don't know what your point is, I'll say that I am FOR people watching porn if they
want. If I wanted to watch porn, or Gilligan's Island, or Pettycoat Junction and the person I was
dating was so violently against it that we couldn't see eye to eye, I guess I would need to find
someone who DID enjoy watching those things, or at least didn't get pissed if/when I watched them.
To me, that's what a good relationship is about...letting the person you're with be who they are and
loving them for it, not in spite of who they are.
Be more specifc next time, and I can be more accurate. |
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If it makes them feel good do it |
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Porn should have no place in a relationship, if a persons relationship is secure and good then
people should not have to view it as they should be getting all the love and affection from their
partner. EDIT Unless its mutually being watching together and there both happy about it, it can be
very healthy. |
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Porn sucks.
It is a filthy oozing puss filled scab on society. It is only allowed because of a stupid loophole
in the LAW.
Every time they try regulating it they must find the sickest minds in society to do so.YUCK. |
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Porn is all about exploitation and disrespect.
No one who has any decency in their souls would so degrade their own minds with all that trash. It
is a sickness type of addiction, really. Requiring serious counseling. |
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Porn is wrong.
No matter what the situation.
I don't think that you should be in a relationship with someone when you're looking at other people
naked.
It's just plain wrong. |
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Porn stars are just glorified street hookers. |
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I have no idea what the author is trying to say, but to some individuals watching porn is fun and
exciting and adventurous. If you look to all the different types of porn that is available, you will
notice that there are many individuals who have "unique" tastes, and can sometimes only be satisfied
by watching porn. Or sometimes they feel embarrassed and don't want to share that fantasy with their
partner for fear of retribution somehow. |
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Porn is not a relationship porn is like a hooker pretty much they usually do it just for money that
is no relationship |
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No, not at all. A relationship is having intimate self confidence and love for each other. |
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This question is not written appropriately, I don't understand which way the author wants to ask his
question. So, I"ll just put my response wherever I wish :)
Porn can be a great additive to a HEALTHY relationship. Porn is out there for entertainment and
enjoyment. There is nothing wrong with porn as long as it's viewed in a mature way.
I don't agree it should be done in secret. It should be done with your mate. Again, some people
just need to lighten up and try to have some enjoyment in their lives. There are a lot of uptight
people on here. |
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I am totally against keeping it a secret. Every person has fantasies and desires and if you think
you will scare your partner off by telling them you watch porn then you seriously need to think over
the relationship that you have.
Some couples even watch porn together and enjoy doing so. If you enjoy watching it then maybe you
should let your partner know and try watching it together and if they get uncomfortable then it all
comes down to whether you love your partner more or watching porn. |
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I cannot see any reason why anyone would want to look at porn unless there is a problem within their
relationship. Issues like these should certainly be discussed and not kept secret.
A relationship is about honesty and if a person is looking at this sort of stuff then they should
tell their partner. Keeping it a secret will only end in upset, especially if the other person
accidentally discovers that their partner is watching it.
Watching pornography is something that should either be done by both partners together or not at
all, unless the other person feels truly comfortable with their partner looking at it and is
reassured that there are no problems with the relationship. |
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If someone in a steady ,stable relationship is secretly viewing porn then there is probably a
problem somewhere.
The fact that the viewing is kept secret indicates that the person viewing it believes that they
will be judged for it. Possibly they think it will adversely affect their relationship.
If two people want to look at porn together and it's the sort that's called soft porn and hurting
no-one then probably that's OK.
In a loving relationship I would say that secretly viewing porn isn't a good thing and that there is
an underlying problem within at least one partner in that relationship.
Good relationships should be open and honest and not hide secrets like this.
The key to this debate is that the viewing of the porn is secret and it's more about the secrecy
than the porn perhaps? |
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That is so wrong and disgusting i mean really if you wanna see something ask your wife |
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Why not view porn, it's fun to look at, just don't let it get out of control. |
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Uh what? I can't believe what some of the people posted here. I watch porn with my fiance all the
time! We enjoy it together, there is nothing wrong with it! People watch porn just like movies!
However if you are uncomfortable with it than communicate with your partner, don't hide how you
feel, tell them. If they love you they'll stop. |
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To me, there is nothing interesting in porn. It is dirty, degrading, unmoralistic, and unethical.
Porn is for those people who cannot get a real job and have to use their sexuality to make money.
Any man or woman who is in a relationship and watches porn is being very disrespectful to their
partner. It is a form of infidelity. Sexual relations should be something intimate that is shared
between two people. It is not anyone Else's business how, when, where, or why it is done. Showing
sex on porn, on TV, or anywhere should be illegal. If your partner is watching porn, why do you want
to put up with that level of disrespect? You deserve someone who respects you, so send your porn
watching partner on their way. Above all, porn is just sick. |
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