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Homosexuality is destroying society. I honestly think that homosexuality is contagious when being influenced by friends who are homosexual. Therefore, DON T BE FRIENDS WITH GAY PEOPLE, BUT TRY TO GET THEM TO CHANGE THEIR WAYS.
 stricken36  08 May 2008 20:34
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Homosexuality probably is contagious for guys who are repressed gays. Many guys harbour homosexual inclinations but are unwilling to express them openly and, in many cases, even to acknowledge their own desires for other men to themselves. It has been scientifically shown that man who express strong hostility to homosexuals are much more likely to be experiencing repressed gay feelings themselves than guys who are more relaxed about the whole thing. Because you started this debate and framed it in contemptuous terms, I suspect that you fall into this category.

For these repressed gays, encountering those who openly acknowledge and practise their homosexuality may be a liberating experience. It will be a practical demonstration that a life of fear and pretence is unnecessary, that one can acknowledge one's own homosexuality and still find happiness and social acceptance.In this respect then, homosexuality may indeed be contagious. Meeting a homosexual may encourage you to shed your inhibitions and "come out", whether to others or to yourself. If you fear encountering gays, then, most likely it is because, deep down, you either know or suspect that you really are one of them.
 
 Hidell  08 May 2008 22:03
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 I am confident that your post was completely lost on him, but nice effort.
by  innomen
 08 May 2008 22:08
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Obviously if i wrote this, i support it
 
 stricken36  08 May 2008 20:43
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 Don't you think it's a bit of a cheap scam to vote on your own motion, though?
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 08 May 2008 20:45
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Does anyone open any REAL books on this site????? I mean really.. What is this, 1875???? Science has proven that wrong already. And the ignorance spreads. Funny thing... I am not gay yet LOL
 
 hodver  06 Mar 2010 00:51
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I doubt this could be true. It has not affected me: I would tend to not believe that one's being homosexual makes any difference to anyone else or not as to what they are of and in themselves oriented towards.
Everyone's sexuality is inside themselves as is.
 
 debategal  12 Dec 2009 01:23
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I have never met a homosexual person who has tried to "convert" me. This debate demonstrates ignorance. I would hope the majority of people voting against are enough evidence to the contrary. Perhaps, I'm hoping for too much. I would like to believe that when fact is pointed out repeatedly, it would demonstrate that the concept is based in ignorance and lack of understanding that people do not have to be the same as each other to be respected, cared for and loved.
 
 my2cents2u  27 May 2009 02:22
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Homosexuality is NOT contagious. My friend is gay and there is no way that she could ever "turn" me gay. And trying to "change" their ways is just as stupid as them trying to "change" your ways.
 
 bookworm3  20 Nov 2008 23:42
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How does being gay destroy society?How does my bed room preference threaten society. I admit I'm good in bed but that's an insane claim. And all of my friends are straight and since I came out as being gay none of them have caught my "gayness."
 
 kddan  21 Aug 2008 13:38
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 I know this is an old debate, but I just saw it. I cannot imagine how one would even believe this ignorant stance on homosexuality. I have yet to meet anyone who is gay and had a desire to change me in any way, much less try to convince me to be gay. Just as I would not try to make someone become straight, gay people are not trying to make others gay. If we all just respected other people's differences and embraced those differences, we would all live in a happier society. It's absurd to make this claim. I wonder, does being friends with someone of a different race cause anyone to change to that race? Oh, not possible. Just the same as it's not possible for a straight person to "catch" homosexuality.
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 27 May 2009 02:29
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No I don’t believe it’s contagious, however in a society where gays are accepted more people who are already gay are likely to come out of the closet and admit to themselves and to society that they are gay. I would also say that if you are worried about it being contagious it greatly increases the likelihood of you being a repressed homosexual.
 
 finsch  22 Jul 2008 17:36
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How are we destroying society, i must ask.
We are just as intelligent as 'straights'
people are born homosexual,
it is not a choice where people wake up one morning and think
"hey, i am going to be gay"
 
 martlamb  26 May 2008 11:14
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. AIDS is contagious, not gayness.
 
 JohnShier  23 May 2008 03:18
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Really now? How is homosexuality killing society? Do you mean the fact that the rest of society wastes resources, time, and money to change them when they don't need changing. Let people live the way they want if they want to be gay go waste your time changing them it never truly works.
 
 Smito  09 May 2008 13:47
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You really are the most boring kind of ignorant.

Homosexuality is not a contagion. Sadly - your point of view is. This entire debate reminds me of the "Boys Beware" video of the 1950's - (by that i mean - old, uninformed, and viewed one too many times.)

(I've read the comments on this debate, and to reply to them in one fell swoop...)

Indeed you may have a friend with you in school who is gay - Just because he's gay doesn't mean he's checking you out 24/7.
I shouldn't worry if i were you.
Actually, Gay men, do not find all men attractive - and on a personal note - intelligence is such a magnificent boon when it comes to attraction.

When you say that you wouldn't mind if all Gay's were dead (they were just wiped out etc...) I can guarantee it would effect you. Whether it is a worldwide thing, or not, but in Britain homosexuals have most of the high paying jobs. The clothes you no doubt wear, at some point were designed by a gay person, before they treacled down into your average pret-a-porter normality. Yes even the color of your clothes is designed, and has been for years.
If you have a buzz cut hairstyle - i'll forgive you - but spikes.... Spikes would have been from the punk liberation - then later adopted to the scene - gay clubbing - ta da - the mixture of these comes to modern day hairstyle.

With regards to thinking too much out of the box - i disagree, here is a truly unrefreshing display of in-the-box-well-worn-closed-mindedness. Out of the box mind would be liberal and free thinking - Mr stricken (with what, pray?) is certainly not.

As for destroying society - really - how melodramatic - I personally think that idiocy is societies cyanide.

You do of course realize that homosexuality does have some genetic grounding - not just whim.
 
 Damian  09 May 2008 12:54
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Destroying society? Someone has a little too much biased discrimination towards homosexuals.
 
 Hizashi  09 May 2008 02:15
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 i feel that they show children that same sex marriage is okay, when it's not
by  stricken36
 09 May 2008 02:16
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This is stupid.
 
 Bacchus  09 May 2008 00:05
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It is not contagious. This is a very dumb debate. Where do you get the idea it is contagious?
 
 Mark  08 May 2008 23:49
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 Sorry Mark. This is my brother. He thinks this kind of stuff is funny. He is probably the most out-of-the-box thinker you will ever meet and it is usually a bad thing.(but sometimes incredibly funny, but not this time)
by  raiderfan9
 08 May 2008 23:51
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Science can learn from people like you.
 
 Snipex  08 May 2008 23:35
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 I really hope your kidding. Please tell me your kidding
by  raiderfan9
 08 May 2008 23:47
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I'm sorry everyone. This is my brothers debate and he is a little retarded at times. He can't help it, its just the way he is.
 
 raiderfan9  08 May 2008 22:20
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 You're the retard, not me
by  stricken36
 08 May 2008 22:28
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There's nothing wrong with homosexuality. It is not contagious. It is partially genetic and partially environmental (how you grow up affects which genes come into play more often).

Is it me, or did stricken36 ACTUALLY say that he thinks gays should be killed? I can't believe I'm reading that...
 
 FoxFire  08 May 2008 21:44
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 i think its just you. i believe i said it would be NICE. not they SHOULD everyone has the right to live no matter what lifestyle. i don't WANT to kill them, but if something just happened to magically wipe them out, i wouldn't have a problem with it.
by  stricken36
 08 May 2008 21:48
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Of course homosexuality is not contagious. The reason you tend to see more openly homosexual people in western, liberal societies is because they need not worry as much about persecution. I am quite sure that you would find proportionally just as many homosexuals in Iran, for example, as you would in the United States. The only difference is that in the US they are more visible, while in Iran they must remain in hiding, in order to avoid persecution (and sometimes execution) by state authorities.

I really don't think that a homosexual can somehow make his straight friend gay. The straight friend will probably end up being much more accepting and tolerant of homosexuality and homosexuals, but his own sexual orientation will not change. Some people, however, have noted that straight people in the West are increasingly finding certain attires, styles and ways of life once associated with gays to be popular and trendy. They are sometimes referred to as meterosexuals.
 
 mackenzie  08 May 2008 21:34
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 You just proved my point. if gays can influence clothing and trends, then they can definitely influence one person into becoming gay
by  stricken36
 08 May 2008 21:37
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You have it all wrong. Being gay is like being left-handed and it is not a sickness nor contagious. You should read a bit before stating your mind on such a well documented subject.
 
 Garamond  08 May 2008 21:33
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 Did i say it was a disease? no. i simply stated that gay people can influence other people. and no, being gay is NOT like being left handed. because if it was, it WOULD be like a disease. You're contradicting yourself by saying that. gayness isn't luck of the draw. It's a choice
by  stricken36
 08 May 2008 21:39
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I disagree with pretty much every thing you are saying in this. Firstly homosexuals aren't destroying society, ignorance of other people (e.g homophobia) is. Secondly it is not some sort of disease, and since the word contagious basically means the spreading of a negative condition through the environment, it cannot apply to homosexuality since homosexuality isn't a negative condition nor is it something which is spread through the environment. Thirdly since you say you should attempt to get them to 'change their ways'. I feel this contradicts your initial implementation of it being a disease since a disease is not based on a choice.
 
 Shizenk  08 May 2008 21:00
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 Contagious in the sense of it being influenced upon you via friends, family, etc. who happen to be homosexual. therefore, my point of it being contagious stands and not only can it be influenced, but it DOES affect the society. if you're saying there are only people who are homophobic and there's nothing being harmed in society by homosexuality, then you are labeling millions of kids around the country/world who are around homosexuality every day, and i really don't think they're afraid of them, theyre confused
by  stricken36
 08 May 2008 21:07
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