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If You See Some Cheating You Should Tell Someone
Yes i will tell someone because that guy won't learn anything
 leo4023  28 Jan 2008 01:34
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Im on the fence.
Do i know either of the persons involved?
Does the person getting cheated on like me, if they dont they wont belive me.
It all depends
 
 toni  26 Oct 2009 04:14
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Cheating is wrong so you wouldn't be tatlle taleing on them, you would be correcting them.
 
 Feremeir1  22 Nov 2008 20:44
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I agree that person will not learn anything. Its better to learn than to cheat. If they need help they should get a tutor.
 
 zanith11  29 Jul 2008 19:13
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Maybe, but if you know the person whose cheating maybe you can talk to them and try to make them realize how much they love the original partner and therefore realize they don't want to hurt them. It either goes that way or they realize they don't love their original partner. It would all work out fine. Either a couple rediscovering love or someone who got out of an unhappy relationship.
 
 kitten  30 May 2008 22:38
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 I would say that by the time you see the person cheating they have already made up their minds that they don't want/love the original partner - or why would they be cheating? Or perhaps they have a warped sense of what love is?
by  momof3
 30 May 2008 22:46
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I would respect a person who thinks enough of me to protect me from further harm. I would not respect a friend after finding out they knew all along and kept it from me.
 
 momof3  30 May 2008 22:30
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Absolutely. Cheating sucks.
 
 OzzieMan  30 May 2008 22:07
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Yes you should. It would be the right thing to do.
 
 celva_olva  03 May 2008 00:36
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Cheating is wrong and puts undeserved grades on their GPA you should always tell.
 
 Guyman442  01 May 2008 17:30
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I have been in that position. My sis in law did it to my brother while i was there. I kept it in for bout 2 weeks. I could not keep it in much longer. So i told him. He didn't believe me but not even a month after she came out and told him she did cheat. Cheating is not acceptable and i think that you should always tell because other wise the one you love will be dating a cheater n a unfaithful person!
 
 sexyjesse  18 Apr 2008 13:54
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Yes you should tell if you see someone cheating, even if someone calls you a tatterteller
 
 Potterpal7  01 Mar 2008 19:46
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There are various kinds of cheating happening in our daily life. Cheating in relationships, cheating in work responsibilities, cheating in examination hall or plagiarism-all are the different forms of cheating we face in daily basis in our life. Cheating is nothing but dishonesty and should be reported instantly. By the favor of cheating one can feel winner but in long run it will not be fruitful. It will lead to complications in relationships and the cheater would be thrown away far from the society. Temptation must be controlled and once anyone can arrest a cheater in any way, he should be penalized immediately. Even in school a child who cheats, should be penalized and thus he or she can be controlled in future. Apart from this, in case of a child cheater, he should be guided thoroughly with the ill effects of cheating.
 
 sudipa  21 Feb 2008 00:41
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Well cheating can be of varying types cheating in relationships, cheating in work responsibilities, plagiarism and cheating during exams. In all its forms cheating is a dishonest activity and leads to complications that can often get out of hand.

It is better to give away a cheater as he will learn a lesson that may favor him in the long run. Such errors of character and moral can be embedded in a child and cheating in schools should be discouraged with strict penalties.
 
 Twilight  29 Jan 2008 15:42
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Yeah, why not. However, be careful how you tell someone. Make sure the person your telling on isn't a psycho as well.


-Sometimes people are swingers, or into polygamy, so maybe they are just freaks! LOL
 
 baconbust  29 Jan 2008 13:16
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Cheating is dishonest and should be reported.
Cheating in school, college. Work and relationships usually leads to problems and unhappiness. For someone to cheat there must be a problem somewhere.
It's probably part of human nature to think about cheating but most people know it's wrong and resist the temptation.
Cheating is unfair and can do harm. It takes things away from people.
Cheating in relationships can wreck families and if people get away with it they'll continue to cheat. It's best to confront or report cheats in order to try and discourage them and let them know that they will get found out.
If people can learn not to cheat then they will be able to learn that what they have done is wrong. In extreme forms cheating has a poor effect on the economy when cheating takes place on a financial level.
 
 Researcher  28 Jan 2008 17:05
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Cheating is stupid may as well tell somebody
 
 kazdude14  28 Jan 2008 01:40
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One must do what they feel is right when concerning each individual situation. I have been on both sides (for and against).
 
 Specter87  19 Mar 2009 02:15
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I wouldn't want to get involved, but if its a friend then maybe..
 
 willis94  19 Mar 2009 02:10
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Only if you see them do it again
 
 14940820  11 Mar 2009 01:02
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Mind your business stay out of it is someone cheating on u no so stay out of it
 
 Amber2015  02 Feb 2009 05:52
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Mind your own business. What's done in the dark will always come to the light.
 
 menhim1967  26 Dec 2008 00:23
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 Umm no it won't. Think of how many people don't and will never know they have been cheated on. You can fill you head with that lie if it makes you feel better though.
by  Specter87
 19 Mar 2009 02:12
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Hmmm, yes that's all well and good! But unfortunately sometimes it's not so black and white. I wouldn't like the thought of destroying someones life by infroming them their loved one is out gallavanting with another member of the opposite sex. The way i see it, is that the truth always comes out.
 
 Rosie  05 Nov 2008 13:45
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Let that human stretch his conscience the hard way that is how we grow: Learn first hand. Let it be.
 
 RagTatter  12 Oct 2008 23:34
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Don't get involved with other peoples drama.
 
 eelmonkey  03 Aug 2008 07:49
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I have learned to keep my mouth shut. Specially when it happens to girls, i have tried being a good friend and letting them know their bf are cheating on them, but they end up going back with them, so it was pretty useless bringing it up in the first place.
So yea, just mind your own.
They will eventually find out on their own anyway, hopefully.
 
 lq04  15 Jul 2008 09:22
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 wasn't this like about test cheating? otherwise i agree with you.
by  zanith11
 29 Jul 2008 19:11
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Its none of your business.
 
 moreno  18 May 2008 06:07
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 As a fellow human being, I think you have a moral obligation to make it your business. If the cheater wants to keep it private then he should not be seen committing the crime. Very often, the cheater is too much a coward to break it off so they may want to be caught.
by  momof3
 30 May 2008 22:27
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Every time i go on a multiplayer game someones always cheating i report it and nothing happens so no i disagree
 
 markrjg  11 May 2008 12:28
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It depends on the situation but i think in most cases it's best to stay out of things like that..
 
 cortisol  27 Apr 2008 08:49
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I don't think telling someone is the solution. It always turns out that the person who is cheating finds out you told and hates you and the person getting cheated on really doesn't want to know and will hate you too.
 
 demo  31 Mar 2008 03:16
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 Some people have a rather strange way of victimizing the wrong person. If the cheater doesn't want to "hate" his friends then he should not put himself in that position.
by  momof3
 30 May 2008 22:36
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No. It's not your business. Getting shot if you could avoid it get away. Don't be nosy.
 
 nelson12  12 Mar 2008 17:19
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If a person is clever enough to cheat and get away with it, that exemplifies intelligence. If they exemplify intelligence in any way they deserve recognition in school via academic reward.
 
 Kunado  01 Mar 2008 18:33
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No unless that person is a close family or friend because if they aren't the possibility that they'd even trust your information on the subject is quite low, and again that person does need to find out for themselves in order for them to really learn from it.
 
 dumitchell  21 Feb 2008 03:39
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In some circumstances i feel that yes you should tell, but in most i disagree. Unless its going to affect your life why change something? If a man cheats on a woman yes its wrong but its none of our business. I think that the woman in question should see how mush of a scum bag the guy is for herself.
 
 tequila68  15 Feb 2008 12:18
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Its not your life so you shouldn't tell them it'll just hurt them
 
 bobbilly  28 Jan 2008 22:11
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 I disagree. Polygamy is a very horrible way of living. If you want to marry someone or ask someone out, you should be sure you really like this person first, and want to be their only love, and have them as your ONLY love. Share your love with only one person.
by  ValerieC
 28 Jan 2008 22:31
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