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If You Have A Girlfriend And There Is Another Guy Love Her Too You Should Let Him Take Your Girlfriend
I won't let him take her away because I got her first
 leo4023  28 Jan 2008 01:39
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If she loves him more than you then he's not taking her, she made her choice. If she let's the guy decide for her, let her go-she's too easy, too easy spells greasy.
 
 Bacchus  09 May 2008 01:14
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 sounds very assumptive of you and often assuming is quite incorrect. usually actually.
by  jalapenos
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Do what you believe is right, but don't hurt anyone.
 
 baconbust  29 Jan 2008 18:42
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To thine own heart be true then thou canst not yet then be false to any other man/or/woman.....
(re-translated version of Hamlet quotation to suit this debate).
 
 jalapenos  03 Apr 2009 18:36
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It's not about you or him, it's about her. It's about what SHE wants. If she wants this other guy, then that's her choice, if she wants you, that's her choice to, if you go and give that up just because some other guy is whining and mopping about her then your just stupid for giving her up, ESPECIALLY over pathetic reasons such as that.
 
 xXCursesXx  03 Apr 2009 18:19
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 I have to concur.
by  jalapenos
 03 Apr 2009 18:38
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I think you are in for a lonely lonely life. You aught to have, "help me", tattooed on your forehead.
 
 keepmindok  16 Sep 2008 14:22
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 Lol @ you?
by  Dan4096
 22 Oct 2008 07:18
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NO. I disagree with this debate as your talking about woman as if there objects that can be simply shared out or given away.
 
 kddan  16 Sep 2008 14:17
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How revolting!

People are NOT possessions. Let everyone do as they wish. Live your life, and let everyone else do likewise.

Sounds like enmeshment.
 
 Scorpion  04 Jul 2008 23:57
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She is NOT your possession!
 
 momof3  11 May 2008 02:37
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He could take her away from you. By buying her flowers and making her feel amazing
 
 kitten  09 May 2008 20:08
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No i had that problem before and you try to convince her that you guys are happy together yes is its what she wants let her go, but you at least put up a fighting chance.
 
 stricken36  09 May 2008 00:53
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Either way some one is going to get hurt but if the boyfriend and girlfriend are truly happy together then why not stay with each other. If you let her go then in the future you might regret what might have been between y'all two and it would make the situation feel even more awkward!~
 
 sexyjesse  18 Apr 2008 13:35
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The decision is up to her. And if shes happy with the other guy and you want her to be happy then yes its true.
Girls aren't luggage it shouldn't matter if you got her first.
 
 crossout  17 Apr 2008 23:18
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I suggest you find a relationship counseling site. Honestly, this is for meaningful debate, not solving other people's relationship woes.

Oh and as to your little problem - leave the girl if she doesn't want you, if she does a bar brawl should solve the matter easily enough.
 
 SandraO  07 Apr 2008 05:21
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No that's stupid
 
 vgking13  29 Feb 2008 23:13
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When I have a girlfriend, I should first of all get this clear that whether she loves me or not. If she does then there remains no confusion in anything. It may happen that there is one another guy who also loves her but this does not mean that I should let him take her away. Again at the same time I also must not restrict my girlfriend from anything. In situations like this I would first of all ask from my girlfriend whether she is having any feelings or any other emotional attachment with that guy or not. If I see that she is not having interest in me anymore and she is more interested in the other guy then I must not stop the guy from taking her. But if the vice-versa happens then I will never allow that guy to take her from me.
 
 sudipa  10 Feb 2008 13:02
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If you would really love your girlfriend you will do everything in your power to keep her with you and by this I do not mean force her into staying with you. You can please your girlfriend and prove your worth to her. However, if the time spent with you and your relationship with her will not have any meaning for her it is better to let her go and start a new relationship.
 
 Twilight  29 Jan 2008 18:25
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You should only let him take your girlfriend if your girlfriend is in love with him in return and not in love with you!
 
 louise23  29 Jan 2008 13:31
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The decision is up to her. If she loves you she would want to stay with you. Don't just give her away like a prize. Same goes for you, if you love her then you would take this resolution as silly and say no.
 
 ValerieC  28 Jan 2008 23:11
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 yes, i agree with u
by  uberlovely
 29 Jan 2008 11:16
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I will ask her if she like me or the other guy
 
 leo4023  28 Jan 2008 01:41
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 sometimes it takes a bit to transfer one's affections from the past lover to the present loved one....give her time to be human as are you.
people who give ultimatums usually lose out from their efforts to CONTROL the other person they claim to love most!
Give her time.....she will chose the man who is most considerate and gentle with her feelings. A considerate man is worth his salt.
by  jalapenos
 03 Apr 2009 18:43
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