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If You Could Pick Your Race At Birth, Or A Parent, Most Of The World Would Be White
It seems that everything in terms of what people want to look like is white. Black women straighten their hair. Indian women spend a great deal of money on bleaching creams. Asian women have eye operations to have rounder eyes.
 moreno  30 May 2008 18:09
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I am white. I don't think i would want to be any other race.
 
 eelmonkey  07 Aug 2008 19:38
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 and there is nothing wrong in self-acceptance or family-feeling, and even some narcissism....but all things can be taken to unattractive new levels by some persons, do you not agree with this?
racism. racial prejudice. contempt, to name a few.....
by  RagTatter
 13 Oct 2008 00:14
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I have no way of knowing what your comment is as what everyone thinks about race....surely some darker races love being that.

I don't think Oprah hates being black, at least she doesn't seem to dis-embrace her race.

I am as white a a human can get. I have always loved my skin. I would not want to be anything but what I was born.

Maybe that's a self-esteem issue not a race issue??
 
 Scorpion  26 Jul 2008 19:55
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I think that this is a question for people and they are not capable of total honesty in their response. I feel you are correct Moreno, and I am fairly certain of this.

There is nothing wrong with being honest in this, and sometimes the truth is very hard to take. I am with Latin people a lot. I find them very attractive, but in their own society they value the whiter skin far more than darker skin. All of your points are correct, but we don't like to believe them as being true. People would rather live in their denial about who they are than confront the truths of their own biases and motives.

At Harvard University they have a test for racism. In this test they are shown photos and pictures and emotional responses are measured. Every single person came out with racism in their subconscious. Alan Alda, not exactly a reactionary conservative, took the test and he was shocked to see the level of racism that existed within himself.

It is true that there is a subconscious, if not very conscious amount of white bias in almost all people. I don't like it, but it is the truth.
 
 innomen  31 May 2008 00:13
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 Probably the same applies with all, black bias from black people for example. There was an interesting study of The Weakest Link, the US version with Anne Robinson. It discovered that less white people voted off the black people in the early rounds if they were the weakest link because they didn't want to appear racist. Which is kind of racist in itself, just in a patronising, positive discrimination way.
by  StBalders
 31 May 2008 15:16
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I think this is undoubtedly true. You see it in the use of skin-whitening creams for black people. Michael Jackson is arguably the most tragic example of it where he destroyed his own appearance by going through multiple surgeries in an attempt to look whiter, although he claimed afterwards it was the result of some disease.

Of course, people can't really change their race so we can never know that for sure. They can, however, change popular representations of themselves in artificial media. One thing that struck me after playing Japanese video games was that the characters depicted in them didn't really look Japanese. They had more of a Western appearance, even when the character had some mini-biography saying he or she was Japanese. Also, if you look at the popularity of Western, white models in Japan, that says something too about their desired self-image.
 
 Hidell  31 May 2008 00:04
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 So you are not the only one who has played Japanese video games and noticed that the characters looked awfully European.
by  Mark
 31 May 2008 00:15
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Everyone always wants to be someone different. It does not matter what the race is. If everyone was white, they would be crying to be black, Asian, Hispanic, or another race. People are never satisfied. People should learn to be happy with themselves and quit worrying about what other people think. If we would put as much effort into running the world peacefully as we put into the way we look, the world would be a peaceful place to live. All races want to be someone else, that will never end. Just be satisfied with who you are and you will live a much happier life.
 
 Flash  30 May 2008 18:30
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This is a retarded post... Whites in America have an advantage due to having the majority of people... Yet I look at many people of all races and see wonderful attributes.... Brought on by their race and culture... This debate seems almost narcisistic if your trying to state that most people would opt to be white... I am white but my husband is not...he loves certain attributes I have...but also loves attributes of people in his race and other races and vice versa....
 
 cdee12120  13 Oct 2008 00:08
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 ...but ..... also.........
by  Specter87
 13 Oct 2008 00:11
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One thing I have learned is mixing race makes for healthier kids.
I don't think what you say is true moreno.
 
 keepmindok  21 Aug 2008 07:41
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 and beautiful kids..I have two..
by  cdee12120
 13 Oct 2008 00:11
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No. I am an wonderful African-American young teen...well preteen, and I appreciate myself as well as my race. I mean you think about it. WHY are white people ( not being racist) wanting plumper lips....which black people in general already have. And WHY are white people ( again not being racist) trying to get DARKER with tans...which again African-American people already are a darker tone that whites. Think about this for a second. Oh and we straighten our hair so that we won't have NAPPY hair. White people have straight and curly and frizzy hair. African-American's have usually nappy hair. WE want to have straighter hair because we want to be able to comb our hair without pulling out our hair because of the napps! *taking another thought about this*
 
 BTDE-Vicky  15 Jun 2008 20:55
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White people get tans, have adopted black culture in music, dance and dress.

I am not going to yell racist at you, I think it is a fair question and an honest opinion. I just disagree. My mum and wife continually tell me I should have been born a black man.
 
 StBalders  31 May 2008 13:35
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 What does that mean? Why do you parents say that?
by  moreno
 02 Jun 2008 19:14
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I'm English/Scotish with some Native American some where in there, to my knowledge. I've always liked the asian look, especially Korean and Indian look, I think Asians are often really beautiful people. I also like Native Americans, pure-blooded Native Americans are rare today.
 
 Andromeda  31 May 2008 00:01
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I would personally pick a Latina race!
(This is if I had to choose but I'm happy with my Eurasian heritage...)
 
 helenbobby  30 May 2008 22:45
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 That's only cause you fancy that latina looking girl from transformers....
by  martlamb
 31 May 2008 12:13
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It is my belief that before we "enter" the fetus, we "pick" our mother and father for the experience. How we handle it when we're here is another thing. It's society today, that judges all for the way a person looks, thinks, acts.
 
 benlittle  30 May 2008 19:04
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 Quite how else would you judge someone if not for the way they look, think and act?
by  StBalders
 31 May 2008 13:39
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I don't like these types of hypothetical statements. They are problematic in that they are unrealistic because they circumvent the entire developmental process a child goes through mentally from birth to adulthood, supposing that a child would even be able to make such a decision. Its just not feasible. I know its a social debate, but even then it just serves as a source of racial tension. I hate to say it, but it sounds an awful lot like white supremacist sentiment. Sure, we should be open about race, but this is not the type of discussion we should be having. We need not delve into contentious inferences made on poorly gathered evidence.
 
 drew  30 May 2008 18:37
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 That clearly wasn't my intention, but I don't see the problem posing questions people often times think about but don't say. I think taking a Socratic point of view with the questioning is fine if people give a mature response. Those who cannot are clearly not fit for these type of discussions.
by  moreno
 30 May 2008 18:44
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