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There Should Be Laws Regulating Relationships
For example: Someone who is NOT going to get married only uses you for sex for awhile before moving on to the next challenge? But says they are marriage-ready before they sleep with you? I think the authorities should be able to put a "Player" in jail on the grounds that it is Abusive to the victim that person used love to make use of someone's body, and emotionally-blackmailed the victim. It should be illegal to break one's promises: This concept is not mine, or a new one: It's wedding-vows, actually......think about it.
 Scorpion  29 Sep 2008 18:34
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Yes. Jail the guy who pretends to "love you" and be your "friend" all the while, just trying to change you over into his own image of what HE thinks you SHOULD BE.
 
 sylverwyld  01 Dec 2008 23:56
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 That dynamic is hardly limited to guys. How many women do you know that look at their man as a fixer up project?
by  finsch
 02 Dec 2008 00:37
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Used to be called breach of contract,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
.A law that worked.
The untold damage that has been done to lives.
Is unimaginable. That is truth.
 
 keepmindok  29 Sep 2008 22:51
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 I thought he loved me........it is wrong to hurt someone who loves you.
by  Scorpion
 29 Sep 2008 22:53
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That's a massive restriction of personal freedom. Relationships can turn bad, yes. Some people have the intention to take the relationship all the way through to marriage but it doesn't work out. I don't agree with the idea of jailing 'players' at all. I know it can hurt people, but if we made everything that could potentially hurt people illegal, there'd be very few things allowed.
 
 acidrabbit  20 Dec 2009 20:54
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Laws have no business meddling with relationships. Other than the process of getting married or divorced. That would open up a can of worms like you cannot even fathom.
 
 jaykaywy  04 Mar 2009 04:23
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Hell no, our free expression is one of the best things in this country!
 
 n-stein8_  26 Oct 2008 19:19
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 cursing too;-)
by  sylverwyld
 02 Dec 2008 01:43
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I do not what views you have on these to things along with debate. I hope you don't mean gays should not be allowed to have a love relationship, because regardless of people's views on same-sex marriage they should be able to live together. And here is another one. I'll this example to show you what I mean, If high school student dates a girl who already has a boyfriend what makes that guy a criminal? In high school relationships, cheating is not that big of a deal as when you are married.
 
 JoeCool  26 Oct 2008 19:16
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 once a player always a player.
bad dogs do not reform they just learn how to chase cars without getting caught.
by  sylverwyld
 01 Dec 2008 23:58
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Even though I haven't been that lucky in the love game that saying is, all fair in love and war. It hurts, a lot, and when someone breaks your heart, no one understands, but it happens to us all. It lets us get stronger and learn that not everything goes our way.They might be hurting you emotionally, but truthfully, they're just hurting themselves in the long run. In the end, (if you're a Christian), they will pay for their sins.
But sooner or later, it'll come back to bite them...or something..lol
 
 mm2real  01 Oct 2008 23:50
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 never mind. not worth replying.
by  sylverwyld
 01 Dec 2008 23:59
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Now Scorpion, women have been known to do unfair things in relationships also. See the usual results in divorce prodceedings. Men-broke, women-kids & money. It happened to me.

I hate women. :-)

P.S. You are probably looking for the wrong thing in a relationship. This might sound odd but it is completely possible to have a relationship without physical relations. Tell the man up front that that is the case and if he sticks around, then you can decide later. AFTER he has proven that he is interested in you and not just your body. It really takes the stress out of the relationship when it starts because you don't have to worry about that. It can actually be fun because then you spend time together just getting to know each other.
 
 Bugman  29 Sep 2008 20:03
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 I have a kind of hard time keeping my pants on I guess, to be brutally honest, Bugman.

I am a Scorpio......I have a drive to take legal possession....LOL @ myself too, I guess. I do not place all blame on him.
It takes two to fvck;-)

But I do not want someone to be with me JUST for that....though.
I want a totally mutual thing. And Respect, Trust : the whole enchilada, you might say.
That seems fair.......to me it does.

But why do you hate all women?!
I did not do this to YOU.......:-(
I am just like Old Dan Tucker standing here looking!
With a frying pan on top of my head, just like the song says;-)
by  Scorpion
 29 Sep 2008 20:12
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