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I Should Stop Being So Mean To Poor Young Miller
I really do play pretty rough with him.
 finsch  17 Oct 2009 17:14
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Maybe...he does bring it on himself, but apparently he thinks he is smart enough and tough enough to take it
 
 tinseldove  19 Oct 2009 23:06
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Both you and that cre-tin Bald One, I have noticed!
 
 LordDaniel  19 Oct 2009 11:21
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 LD you are even crueler than I suspected using a poor innocent like miller in an attempt to strike at Balder and myself. You obviously care nothing for miller, it is equally obvious you consider him a pointless worm. You simply couldn't pass up the opportunity to take a couple pot shots at your old sparring partners. Shame on you, taking advantage of miller just because he makes a corn muffin look like a rocket scientist. Just because miller has glaringly apparent mental defects does not mean he deserves to be your patsy.
by  finsch
 20 Oct 2009 07:49
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I can do a somersault.

.:-)
 
 SlyOne  17 Oct 2009 18:35
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 I’m not sure how this relates to the debate but I find myself inappropriately intrigued anyway. What kind of somersault?
by  finsch
 17 Oct 2009 18:45
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Yes. Let us all give him a second chance. Sure the guy has been a monumental dikhead and deserves all the mickey taking he has received but I will give him tonight as an opportunity to see if he wants to debate for a change. Join me. I doubt very highly that he is capable but from now I will offer him the chance. So come on then fatboy, redeem yourself. Ok, sorry, starting from now.
 
 StBalders  17 Oct 2009 18:33
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 Deal. Truth is I keep offering him this deal and it never lasts more than a couple of hours but I will give it another try. Here you go miller, behave like a human being, and we will treat you like a human being.
by  finsch
 17 Oct 2009 18:43
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Nah, he's a big boy now. Nothing I've ever seen anyone tell Miller on here has even come close to being as bad as him claiming someone should commit suicide. If he didn't expect to get bashed for suggesting that, he's as stupid as we all think.
 
 Hizashi  20 Oct 2009 00:53
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I'm sorry dlmiller82, but after reading some of your comments, especially the one to Finsch about his life, you bring it on yourself. Sometimes you have to stop and wonder why people give you so much cr@p. Why isn't Finsch, Grenache, Verum, My2cents2u, Bugman, Gottfried, St. Balders, K9 or Kddan crawling up my ass? Because I don't generally piss people off, even if they have been rude to me.

You just can't say something outlandish and expect to walk away unscathed is what I'm trying to say. You could always generate multiple accounts to take the blame off of your main account like others have done...but I wouldn't suggest that. In essence, you just have to let sh*t go and don't carry hostility into other debates.
 
 Damien  19 Oct 2009 18:12
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 I'm not in the business of buttkissing; I give people the respect they rightfully deserve based on the kinds of people they choose to be; not the respect they think they're automatically entitled to just for having been born.
by  dlmiller82
 19 Oct 2009 19:28
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No, in fact you should be as rough as possible on him. There are some people who don't respond to reason and need a good swift kick in the head, hopefully to knock a few brain cells together and get a little synaptic firing going on. He's a prime example of the latter.
 
 Cephus  18 Oct 2009 19:24
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 At least you didn't resort to saying he should kill him. That is something I find is now a recurring suggestion from miller. Either that or he suggests that one take their own life. Either way, it's disturbing and sad. Also, I have pretty much remained neutral regarding Miller. If I agree with him, I say so and I do state my opinion about how wrong it is to tell someone to commit suicide. I've not gone out of my way to be mean spirited or mean. I just don't like the callous disregard for human life and I feel compelled to say that. Miller has actually had kind and comforting words for me and, as I have said a few times, I can't judge him as a person based upon what he writes online. Perhaps he just feels that since he's online, he can write anything and in real life he is entirely different. This might be where he blows off steam. Still, I cannot stand to see the death comments. They are just plain cruel, evil and wrong. I'm saying the comments are those things...just to clarify.
by  my2cents2u
 19 Oct 2009 05:11
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Only you know if you should change the manner in which you interact with dlmiller82. I personally have not had him suggest that I commit suicide or that I should be sent to be used as a human shield. Since this debate is regarding your personal interaction with him, I can't advise that you should be kinder to him, given that he has said these types of things to you. I have always liked and respected you and it makes me very upset when he says these things to you or to anyone else for that matter. No one should tell anyone that their best contribution to society would be to kill themselves. NO ONE! EVER!! I have not seen you approach that type of behavior in your comments to him. He has crossed the line in those statements. While you may want to find a way to make peace with him, that is only possible if he is willing to do the same with you. Otherwise, you can try to be as angelic in your comments to him as possible, but as a human being, once he crosses the line again and incites you, I would imagine that it will be come increasingly difficult to maintain any kind of decorum that you have begun to establish.

The other option is to ignore him. I have found that ignoring those who wish to incite me for the sole purpose of a reaction is quite helpful, but it is very difficult to resist temptation at first. It does get easier. However, with miller, he actually doesn't just incite you...he also expresses views that incite you along with the traditional insults.

I have tried very hard not to pass any personal judgment on him. I have no idea what his life is like, what he is like outside of this site nor whether or not he uses some of the insults and evil suggestions regarding others taking their lives as a means to stir things up or if he truly is that cold and unfeeling. If he actually witnessed someone trying to commit suicide, for example, would he stop them? Few people are so evil that they would actually sit by and do nothing or, worse offer to lend a hand. I hope that I'm right and there is more to him than the things he says when he's angry. He has made some comments to me that indicated kindness and I can't say that I dislike or hate him as a person, but I do hate the cruel comments that he sometimes resorts to. I have no issue with slinging some dirt back and forth...lots of us do that. I do, however, find it to be crossing waaaay over a line when one demonstrates a preference that someone else is no longer alive.

Anyway, my point is that each of us has to determine what we are and are not willing to accept from others both online and off. He certainly has not given you a good reason to want to extend friendship to him, but if you chose to do so in a genuine effort to see if you and he could debate productively, I have personally seen that he does have a side of him that isn't all cold and mean. I still don't like nor will I ever accept some of the things he says. I will always dislike the part of him that suggests death to people. That is a line no one should ever cross and, regardless of his intent or whether it is really some form of a grown up tantrum, it is wrong and is not acceptable.
 
 my2cents2u  18 Oct 2009 15:03
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 2 cents - you are a very very kind and warm person and my hat goes off to you. But Judge away. There is nothing wrong with judging someone, please don't listen to Oprah and Rikki Lake's easy soundbites. You can Judge him based on what he says. He is a moron and an angry individual. What makes him this way is unknown but the end result is there for all to see, it is undeniable.

Of course he could be Joe but we might as well assume otherwise.

Meanwhile I doubt very highly that Finsch will ever get upset by what this porkchop says, he is better than him and knows it.

You missed the 3rd option. Be civil - won't work. Ignore - would work, but I prefer: Option 3 - ridicule at laugh at. Works every time for me.
by  StBalders
 18 Oct 2009 15:31
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Will he stop being so mean to finsch?
 
 verum  17 Oct 2009 21:43
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 Let's see. GIve him a clean slate and see if he is capable of civil debate.
by  StBalders
 17 Oct 2009 22:03
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His skin is as thick as the onion paper in his buybull (because you have to buy the bull to believe it). The only stones he has are the rocks he throws at others from his glass house.

My skin is as thick as my bark (pun intended) which is why I laugh him and others off.
 
 K9  17 Oct 2009 17:34
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 Just because I refuse to be your doormat doesn't mean I'm thin-skinned.
by  dlmiller82
 17 Oct 2009 18:14
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No you shouldn't. Besides it's funny and he really does deserve it.
 
 kddan  17 Oct 2009 17:30
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 What do you think; is his self loathing a consequence of denying his true sexuality? At first I was just teasing because I knew it drove him nuts but I’m starting to seriously believe he comes from a very homophobic family and that conflict is the basis of his repulsive behavior. It almost makes me feel bad for the poor little dude. But then he always says something and the feeling passes.
by  finsch
 17 Oct 2009 18:39
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It's just that when I see one of his comments where he tells someone they should just kill themselves or as he recently said to me, that his secret desire was to watch me kill myself or any of the other horrid things he says it simply makes me mad.
 
 finsch  17 Oct 2009 17:18
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 The fact remains that you are a worthless piece of garbage and that suicide is the only possible conribution that you will ever make to society,
by  dlmiller82
 17 Oct 2009 18:01
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