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Humans Are Not Naturally Monogamous.
Many people live all their lives in monogamous relationships, but is it natural for humans to be monogamous and are we just 'choosing' to go against natural instinct?
 Evileye  24 Aug 2009 10:16
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You're probably right, but there's a lot of things we're not "naturally" prone to do that we do because it is more socially advantageous for us to do. What's natural doesn't necessarily mean it's better, only that it occurs in nature. After all, since when is driving a car natural?
 
 Cephus  24 Aug 2009 15:59
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 If you hadn't said this, I would have. You are absolutely right. Bathing is not natural, cooking food is not natural, taking medicine is not natural, reading is not natural, using a computer is not natural, but we do them because they are advantageous and they are a product of human development.. And you know what--since humans are a product of nature, these things may in fact be a natural artifact of being human.
by  tinseldove
 24 Aug 2009 17:10
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I do believe some are naturally monogomous BUT they're a minority. The vast majority of us are hardwired to have sex often and with a variety of mates over our lifetime. YET each individual still chooses for themself. I personally have stayed monogomous and don't regret it, but that doesn't mean I don't feel temptation, and I think the majority of people feel temptation too whether they're able to admit it or not.
 
 Grenache  24 Aug 2009 11:09
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In what way is promiscuity more natural than monogamy? Both are evident quite often in other social species. Both in fact are well exhibited just within the human species. I’ve heard this statement made often enough by people that, no offense; I have no particular reason to put much credence in their statement. But the fact is the history of mating systems among our prehistoric ancestors is still very much in doubt. There is no doubt however that between 2 and .5 million years ago Homo erectus (kind of an ironic name given the discussion) certainly began to shift towards less promiscuous mating patterns than Australopithecus is suspected of having. The problem is our testis size and limited but present sexual dimorphism leaves it quite open to debate what our ‘natural’ mating habits are. But you can make a strong case that we have been evolving towards less promiscuous and even monogamous mating habits now for literally millions of years.
 
 finsch  24 Aug 2009 17:51
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