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Guys Shouldn't Date Girls Just Because They Have "Hot" Bodies
Ok, so a guy shouldn't date a girl just because she has a hot body. I know you want to date someone "good-looking" but it's not nice if you go out with them because there hot to have a nice body.
 Potterpal7  05 May 2008 13:42
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Defo the over all package thing. Kknow???;-))
 
 keepmindok  02 Nov 2008 03:38
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 I am not saying that I do not notice men, I am just saying that when a person is so in love with that just one special one? it is like a whole nuther country, love-wise: you just are so madly attracted to that one certain man like nobody would ever believe!
It is called, "Love" !

Phrases like, "A total package"...blah, blah, blah, is the trite sort of reply I used to give before I fell in love with this one certain man....:-)

Real Love is this whole different plane: like no trite empty phrases one hears by 90% of the jaded, cynical adult population.

Real Love, makes you feel something real. No empty phrases left.
by  sylverwyld
 02 Nov 2008 03:43
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True. Because they could just run icecubes all over those bodies and cool them off right quick ;-)
 
 sylverwyld  02 Nov 2008 03:33
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And vice versa
 
 maugatar  20 Aug 2008 12:22
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A guy should go with a girl because a total package thing not body above the rest of the person.
A girl is more than the various body parts.
Shes an actual human.
In much the same manner in which I view men in a holistic way : A total package.
A whole person.
 
 Scorpion  26 Jul 2008 21:42
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AsphyDrake is right, but I wish it wasn't so. The whole concept behind dating is that you think you may live them, and the only reason people date people with "hot" bodies is because they think they are infatuated with them.
 
 Custommade  24 May 2008 02:41
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They shouldn't, but it's still going to happen.
 
 asphyDrake  09 May 2008 06:16
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Just because there hot doesn't mean there nice.
Inner qualities should be more important. Also going out with a girl cause she's hot is bad. She might be totally in love with you and your using her for her body
 
 kitten  06 May 2008 21:47
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What's on the outside doesn't matter. I mean of course people normally catches someone's attention by looks but the need to know the real person.
 
 melisiwa  06 May 2008 17:45
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I agree! It is totally not okay just to date someone because they are goodlooking!
 
 lavatis  05 May 2008 20:59
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I think I have quite a mature opinion on girls in comparison to some people I know of the same age. I think that attractiveness is an important part, but that term is so vague it could apply to anyone if the right person is looking. Anyone who chooses a girl, or guy for that matter, for their body is just setting themselves up for a meaningless shallow relationship. But, of course, some people want that. Laughs, good times and good conversation have much more long term value than a hot bod.
 
 Jakers  05 May 2008 14:00
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...unless she puts out.
 
 ur_wrong  02 Nov 2008 03:42
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Err sorry? So the poor girl who has a "hot body" ends up with no-one to go out with? I don't think so! Guys need to learn from their mistakes, yes. So need to go out with the wrong girl until the get it right!
 
 Hermione82  17 Sep 2008 22:19
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I'm old and married so my opinion doesn't count for much here, but I strongly disagree. As a guy, the first thing I think when I see a chick is "would I or wouldn't I". When I was single, if the answer was affirmative, she was worth at least a date. If the answer was not, then she never made the list of potentials.
 
 Cons_Lies  23 Aug 2008 04:53
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People should do as people do. Just don't lie about it.
 
 finsch  01 Aug 2008 00:05
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I still at 31 years old look for a mate with a good body not because that is what I have to have but because it shows that they have the ability to properly care for themselves, the desire to present a good image to others, and that they are concerned about their health. I agree that a personality is important but you need a reason to talk to a person in order to find out what kind of person they are.
 
 boy2girl31  28 Jul 2008 08:07
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I see no reason why you cannot date someone who is "hot". There isn't anything wrong with that. Attraction is the first thing that draws you to a person. Initially, you are only attracted to them until you get to know them if you continue dating.
 
 curious  19 Jun 2008 01:49
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Why not? Good a reason as any. Depends what you want from the relationship.
 
 Jahwobble  06 May 2008 19:26
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It is absolutely ok to DATE someone because they have a hot body, something has to attract you to them in the first place, but you should never MARRY someone because they have a hot body.
 
 eisenhower  06 May 2008 19:13
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We're here to pro-create not be picky. If a girl's hot, brilliant, I'd prefer her over someone who isn't. I'm not fussed if she's smart, as long as she can butter toast then she's smart enough for me.
 
 Anti_hero  06 May 2008 18:16
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 LMAO!
by  Carl
 06 May 2008 18:43
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Shows you have no understanding of love and lust then.
 
 Monster  06 May 2008 18:11
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 Are you some sort of sex maniac with impossibly high standards? Lust and love can co-exist. Rather well actually.
by  Jakers
 06 May 2008 18:14
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The base freedom of mankind is freedom of choice. I have the choice of where i work or if i want to live here or there, which is sometimes suppressed by totalitarian governments. If one man decides he likes "hottis" then let him there could be 2 billion other guys who aren't so shallow. I think those girls who dress up and somehow manage to cake their faces with 10 lbs of make up are just wasting their time and money but that's just my opinion.
 
 Smito  05 May 2008 14:05
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The younger you are the more you will be attracted by the opposite sex of great sexiness. It is absolutely normal. When I was 18, I wasted no time in studying the "inner qualities" of girls on the beach; I went to the cutest ones, for sure. Later, when I grew up, I found out that beauty doesn't mean automatically kindness or intelligence or honesty.
You learn to refine your criteria in order to choose the perfect wife and mother for your children. Beauty and sexiness are not enough any more...
 
 Garamond  05 May 2008 13:55
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