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I think for good relationship ,we need to share everything with partner.
 cutepari  23 May 2008 17:38
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I agree with scorpion that nobody wants the responsibility of having to hold the power to screw you over just to not get to... But i do think a good relationship is something developed over time and (definitley from personal experience) shouldn't ever be jumped into with the intention of bogging the other person down with every whim of your personality... It comes off like a challenge, on the other hand it is rather hard to hold back those feelings of wanting to share things if your that type of person so you need to find a person who is willing to share that with you and certainly finding such a person, if that's who your looking for, would provide the opportunity for a good relationship which would also, one would think, better your life... Man that had to be the most unromantic thesis on love ever...
 
 characters  30 Sep 2008 04:52
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 well, no one said romance was real. only wished for.
we are all adults here: we all KNOW there is no such thing as Forever, now don't we.;-)

romantic love is all a big fat pie in the sky, and we are all realists here underneath the wish for something to work out better than we have seen or had before. so what's new. it is all par for the course. so what.;-)

i do not disagree with you, Characters. i was not born yesterday.;-)
by  Scorpion
 30 Sep 2008 05:30
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I do not agree with this debate for the following reasons:

1. Giving all your thoughts and information to anyone is not a good idea: Absolute power corrupts absolutely; and since information IS power, I think that you have just handed your partner a gun, with a full written-permission-slip to go ahead and ruin you in the future when he is tired of you, and wants to move onto his next conquest, and ruin your life for you.
2. Few people CAN keep promises, or secrets. It is just asking for trouble; why put yourself through it. Doesn't coincide with Human Nature to divulge every single thing you ever thought or did. Anything you do or say can and will be used against you in a court of law. Never, forget that, even when you are in love. Because that state of being will not last anyway..........Being in love is a state of mind subject to Change, and is therefore untrustworthy by nature. Take it as such.
Exercise good-sense.

That is the basis of my disagreement with this debate.
 
 Scorpion  16 Aug 2008 19:58
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