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Girls Are Being Caught On The Rebound
Girls are always getting asked out after a breakup and I think that it's not fair
 love_angel  24 Jun 2008 06:48
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Here is an interesting article about girls being rejected. Check it out!!

Http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/13804#more-13804
 
 angiepie  28 Oct 2008 18:29
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Breaking up with a love one is hard and hurtful
and a difficult lesson in life.

How on earth is that lesson ever going to be learned if you start another relationship before you have got over the previous one.

If a boy starts hitting on you . Then you have to say I am hurting and don't want any relationship right now.

The only possible way to break the cycle is to have a break after a break down. That way you can start the next relationship with eyes open not full of tears.
 
 keepmindok  15 Aug 2008 23:04
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 ever heard of the comfort love can give a broken heart?
some guys can make allowances, and give patience while you heal, and love you too: form your own new bond, together.

granted, not many men would do this....but it COULD happen.
by  Nevermore
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Nah. Girls are never caught.
 
 ItsLogical  21 Oct 2008 01:03
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Men have no respect!

Women who are on the rebound are basically bullied into some else's bed, because so many men out there wanting her! There is not a moments peace!

That is how it is. And there are not many men who want to hear the word "NO".

Say "NO" enough, and suddenly you are branded a Bit*h. This, I feel, is unfair. It is about morals, not convenience for some guy.
 
 Scorpion  04 Jul 2008 23:44
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And when a guy has a relationship that ends women try to get him on the rebound as well. So how is it not FAIR.
 
 boy2girl31  02 Jul 2008 16:22
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I do not think that girls are victims here by any stretch of the imagination. As was pointed out, it is entirely up to them to reject unwanted advances, just as they would if they had not recently ended a long-term relationship. It would be completely unreasonable to expect guys to avoid girls who appear to be receptive to their advances, simply because they found out that they are on the rebound. Some men, of course, would be sensible enough to realize that entering into a relationship with someone who may not be emotionally stable isn't all that wise.

We should also keep in mind that guys are hardly the only ones to make advances. It is not at all uncommon for a girl who has just ended a relationship to run off to a club with their friends the first chance they get and try consciously to attract guys. In either case, however, one must assume that adults--regardless of their gender--are sensible enough to realize the consequences of their actions. If they are not, then they have no one to blame but themselves.
 
 mackenzie  25 Jun 2008 08:45
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Girls always have the choice to say "no" if asked out and on the rebound. It is hard to say no because your self esteem is in the hole, but you do have the choice. Too many women use this as an excuse to why they start dating the totally wrong person after a long term relationship has ended. It is like they are rebeling against the man that hurt them but all they are doing is hurting themselves. It is all a learning experience though. You have to go throughit before you know better.
 
 curious  25 Jun 2008 04:01
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