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Haha, girls more 2 faced, we arent two faced, when i was in high school more than 2 thirds of the
first fights were of girls, were not just pretty faces, we also have complex thoughts, so i wouldn't
call that two faced.. |
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My father, who was a fireman and stayed with firemen, said that men gossip and bash people and talk
dirt on people far more than any woman ever did.
I also worked with groups of men and groups of women and found this to be true. Personally, as a
woman, I cannot stand to gossip. I could not care less what she did or he did. |
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I think girls/women make it more obvious perhaps, but I don't think that either sex is any more or
less two faced. This is an individual trait. There are people who love to gossip and who form
friendships and run back and forth between friends spreading "news". These people are not true
friends and cannot be trusted. Most mature people recognise this trait and do not continue to
consider someone like this to be a friend and they stop confiding in them. Some people stand to
gain and have motives of their own so they put up with the person who they know they cannot trust.
In a friendship, all individuals should feel comfortable and safe. If that is not the feeling, it
isn't likely that the individuals involved are all equally concerned about one another's feelings.
Male or female, back stabbing, gossip and two faced relationships exist. I have had male friends
who would never go to their male friends and chat about the stuff they would chat to me about, but
when in a group of women these guys seemed to have more of a desire to gossip that most women I
know. My brother in law has the loosest lips in the world. I love him, but I know that I have to
be careful what I tell him because he is likely to forget that he isn't supposed to repeat it. He
truly means no harm, but some guys do. I had a neighbor who was a guy and he had a scanner. He
knew every single thing going on in the neighborhood. He knew about affairs and blabbed about them
to anyone who would listen...any female who would listen. When the guys came out, he changed into a
typical guy and talked about sports and other small talk with the guys. As soon as the guys were
gone, he launched right back into gossip mode. All people are different. I agree that men and
women go about conversations a bit differently because of the way they are raised, but both sexes
pick up on how the other gender communicates and if there is not a romantic involvement, both sexes
can be just as catty and chatty while involving others as the other. Women take the wrap for this
less than admirable trait because we are usually seen as chatting more and I do admit that some
women do seem very fake and run up to people who they "hate" and hug and kiss them when they greet
them, while men are not usually as prone to displays of affection as a greeting. This doesn't mean
that women are more sneaky. It only means that women are perceived as more sneaky. I personally do
not pretend to like anyone. I am polite to everyone and I would not go out of my way to be mean to
someone, but I would not befriend someone that I did not like. If I am in a social situation where
there is an individual who I do not like personally, I am cool towards them. I just keep my
distance. It is rude to make a scene and cause other people to be uncomfortable, but at the same
time, I do not want to be warm and affectionate with someone that I am truly offended by. I also
don't believe that gossip is healthy or good. We all like a good story from time to time, but I do
try to keep in mind that talking about others is a negative thing and it can get back to them or get
out of hand and cause problems. There are mature, level headed females out there. If you are
having problems finding them, maybe it is time for a new set of friends. |
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I think it’s a misconception that probably has something to do with the fact that adolescent
females tend to become more socially adept sooner than adolescent males. Unfortunately this
coincides with the time frame that males start to become fascinated by the more visceral
developments of the females. I think to some extent the character of these first fumbling social
sexual interactions color the perceptions of similar events throughout life leaving many men with
feelings of social inadequacy compared to the females. As a defensive mechanism they characterize
woman as two faced and manipulative rather than face their own sense of inadequacy. |
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People shouldnt associate 2 facedness with gender |
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I think they both can be equally 2 faced. Lads can be too if you ask me, theyre just not so up front
about it.
And some people are actually just more sensitive then others, which isnt always a bad thing if you
ask me.
And yeah, girls can go too far, most of the time either for attention or because they believe there
point is strong. Usually the second one from my experiences. Thats what i think. |
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OMFG y u having a dig on here at us PATHETIC |
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30 Jun 2009 13:55
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