Gays Are Not Evil & Atheists Are Not Immoral

thank you Grenache.
I appreciate the compliment, as I know you do not just say things or throw compliments away like some do.
Coming from you, it IS a compliment. Thank you. :-)

I have never been a lesbian myself, but I do not treat people like CR@P just because they have an issue I do not have.
I would only have a problem with a lesbian hitting on me, and they HAVE done that ! I did not like it at all.
As long as others keep their sex-urges about me to themselves, I will be very civil. Very civil. And understanding too. Even kind. :-)

Actually? I do not appreciate it when men give me unwelcome passes either, so it is not like I am inconsistent.
I think that people should subtly find out if a woman is open to them or attracted mutually first, before she OR he makes overt sexual advances towards a woman......I am very uncomfortable with UNWELCOME SEXUAL ADVANCES, and it makes me very unhappy to have to be mean in order to cool someone off towards me......
I just think that all people should test the waters very subtly first, before making passes on anyone. Overt harrassment is very uncomfortable. I don't like to hurt people. Not at all.
I have been raped several times by different men in my past, when I was young, and I am very sensitive to people's sexual feelings and wishes and actions towards me, but also to others: I a would never stand by while anyone was raped or harrassed: I would KICK THEIR ASS ! I would always help someone out who was being raped or molested or ganged up on sexually: I would take charge of that situation no matter what the personal cost to me.
To do LESS would be Wrong, Immoral, and Lacking In Moral-Fiber and Character.

Sorry about this long-winded post......Grenache.
None of this has anything at all to do with your post.
I just opened some old wounds of my own, last night when I was reading the debate in here in this site between Stranger and Innomen: it made me FEEL so much impathy and compassion towards Innomen, even though I have never been a lesbian myself, and Innomen is a gay man, not a gay women, still, it was the exchange between Stranger (who did a good job by the way), and the conversation between them........just opened up my heart all the way, to the pain Innomen was feelings.....I could relate to his Pain, not his specific life-experience-sexually, but just the pain, yes. very much so.
A woman who has been raped and molested, it appears, experiences the same Pain as a gay man rejected by the Church and Society: oh, this is so wrong !!! How could I NOT feel his Pain too?
I did.
That post brought tears to my eyes several times, whiles reading it last night.

The fact is, whatever our sexual challenges as individual human beings, it is all Pain, and that is what makes us the same.

Innomen is not evil. Innomen IS gay.
Innomen IS a Christian, I could tell, reading his post, it comes across so clearly, his heart is to love God.....I feel only.....Compassion.
To feel less,, after reading Innomen's post with Stranger, would mean I myself was less than Human. And I AM Human: very.

Anyway, that was what opened up my own wounds, and WHY I wrote this long-winded post, for which I apologize if I have unduly burdened you by too much information.

Anyway, Grenache, I thank you again for the kind compliment.
I really appreciate it.

Most Sincerely,
Eden.("Scorpion").
xoxoxoxoxo 2 u. (^ - ^)

Scorpion

26 Aug 2008 19:57

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thank you Grenache.
I appreciate the compliment, as I know you do not just say things or throw compliments away like some do.
Coming from you, it IS a compliment. Thank you. :-)

I have never been a lesbian myself, but I do not treat people like CR@P just because they have an issue I do not have.
I would only have a problem with a lesbian hitting on me, and they HAVE done that ! I did not like it at all.
As long as others keep their sex-urges about me to themselves, I will be very civil. Very civil. And understanding too. Even kind. :-)

Actually? I do not appreciate it when men give me unwelcome passes either, so it is not like I am inconsistent.
I think that people should subtly find out if a woman is open to them or attracted mutually first, before she OR he makes overt sexual advances towards a woman......I am very uncomfortable with UNWELCOME SEXUAL ADVANCES, and it makes me very unhappy to have to be mean in order to cool someone off towards me......
I just think that all people should test the waters very subtly first, before making passes on anyone. Overt harrassment is very uncomfortable. I don't like to hurt people. Not at all.
I have been raped several times by different men in my past, when I was young, and I am very sensitive to people's sexual feelings and wishes and actions towards me, but also to others: I a would never stand by while anyone was raped or harrassed: I would KICK THEIR ASS ! I would always help someone out who was being raped or molested or ganged up on sexually: I would take charge of that situation no matter what the personal cost to me.
To do LESS would be Wrong, Immoral, and Lacking In Moral-Fiber and Character.

Sorry about this long-winded post......Grenache.
None of this has anything at all to do with your post.
I just opened some old wounds of my own, last night when I was reading the debate in here in this site between Stranger and Innomen: it made me FEEL so much impathy and compassion towards Innomen, even though I have never been a lesbian myself, and Innomen is a gay man, not a gay women, still, it was the exchange between Stranger (who did a good job by the way), and the conversation between them........just opened up my heart all the way, to the pain Innomen was feelings.....I could relate to his Pain, not his specific life-experience-sexually, but just the pain, yes. very much so.
A woman who has been raped and molested, it appears, experiences the same Pain as a gay man rejected by the Church and Society: oh, this is so wrong !!!  How could I NOT feel his Pain too?
I did.
That post brought tears to my eyes several times, whiles reading it last night.

The fact is, whatever our sexual challenges as individual human beings, it is all Pain, and that is what makes us the same.

Innomen is not evil. Innomen IS gay.
Innomen IS a Christian, I could tell, reading his post, it comes across so clearly, his heart is to love God.....I feel only.....Compassion.
To feel less,, after reading Innomen's post with Stranger, would mean I myself was less than Human. And I AM Human: very.

Anyway, that was what opened up my own wounds, and WHY I wrote this long-winded post, for which I apologize if I have unduly burdened you by too much information.